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Munni

@munnihyderabad

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: SriB

Sorry dear any man with a heart and mind in the right place will not slap her. Hitting a woman is never never okay and more so the one married to you,your better half.never mind the circumstances of marriage or no love doesn't matter hitting your wife is a total NO NO. Controlling your frustrations and anger is what makes you human. Did hitting solve anything. She is just scared of him .and still trusts her Rashiben more. So what purpose did the slap serve anyway. He could have broken a plate or glass to vent his frustration for all I care but hitting your spouse.NeVer is okay in any situation.
My PoV

ok please can u read all the posts ... we have already discussed in the previous pages.. just go through them...

and each week go through the same discussions 😉

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SriB

@SriB

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: ShaunSA
It's about more then the slap. That was just one incident.

Be honest here guys Aham treated Gopi like dirt! And yes he has changed and improved.

But we cannot forget the past. We can forgive it. But it is impossible to forget it.

agree with you Shaun.

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Yeah but we don't live with them lol. The problem here is that Aham does need to stand up to her a bit. And explain why he is doing certain things his way. She won't like it but she will reluctantly accept it.

Like when she stopped him from going to the office. He should just have gone ahead and went to the office. It doesn't mean he doesn't love his mum. It just means he can decide what is right and wrong for himself too.

Our parents only rule our lives if we let them.

shaun i have better reasoning for this from Ahemji's POV...these 3 regarding the punishment,,,anything else tomorrow already 2 am. brain almost sleeping

why would he sit at home when his mom asked him to stay home - he could easily go to work...but he did not... because even at this age him mom's words mean everything to him...he did not even contest or refute her decision... because he knows he has hurt her ...he has seen his mom going through all the difficulties and raising to be in this position and for her work means god and it's place is at the top and everything else is next

why would he press the clothes when his mom asked him to do- he could easily refuse if he does not respect her ...because he is abiding by her punishment because he loves his mom. respects her.. and trusts her that what ever she is doing to him is right for him as an individual

why did he not give the pressing job to gopi because he feels himself responsible for his mom's pain ...so he wanted to go through the punishment which his mom gave him and did not want anyone to be taking up his punishment

Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

shruti my answers in black

looks like i am answering these questions to u for the second time...
i remember answering a long list of questions...

Munni in all your answers its what koki wants and thinks...her and her rules and regulations and I knew your answers what would be before you even answered them. Whatever be the reason, she tells son and vau what to do and what not to do every single time! And I am waiting for the day when they will stand and decide for themselves and be lil independent and at the same time she'll also realize and give them space...i want a happy family, not a school or office run by someone...i feel this way. Everyone has right to think and act their way...😊

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Yeah but we don't live with them lol. The problem here is that Aham does need to stand up to her a bit. And explain why he is doing certain things his way. She won't like it but she will reluctantly accept it.

Like when she stopped him from going to the office. He should just have gone ahead and went to the office. It doesn't mean he doesn't love his mum. It just means he can decide what is right and wrong for himself too.

Our parents only rule our lives if we let them.

You are right Shaun that is what I am trying to say...she's giving weird punishements and he's agreeing to whatever she's saying...and trying to make her happy! But she's a hard one to be pleased😆

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Ashwin Maharaj

@ShaunSA

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: shruts18
Yeah but we don't live with them lol. The problem here is that Aham does need to stand up to her a bit. And explain why he is doing certain things his way. She won't like it but she will reluctantly accept it.

Like when she stopped him from going to the office. He should just have gone ahead and went to the office. It doesn't mean he doesn't love his mum. It just means he can decide what is right and wrong for himself too.

Our parents only rule our lives if we let them.

You are right Shaun that is what I am trying to say...she's giving weird punishements and he's agreeing to whatever she's saying...and trying to make her happy! But she's a hard one to be pleased😆

Finally we agree! 😆

Yeah Koki is a bit too harsh and Aham is a bit too bending. But think that's cos serial characters tend to be ott in any event. Real life tends to be a lot more easier and a lot more difficult too.

If that makes sense 🤣

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SriB

@SriB

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

ok please can u read all the posts ... we have already discussed in the previous pages.. just go through them...

and each week go through the same discussions 😉

I have read through the posts and every time the slap comes up I am very vocal that I am against a man / husband hitting a woman/ wife wether in a show or real life. I am again vocalizing my pov against the slap . I know you are Koki Ahem supporter and I like all our posts and love to read all your posts as hey have a very interesting viewpoint which I enjoy. Just like you are supporting Ahem Koki, Which I love about you similarly I am supporting a nonviolent point / view in a marriage however good looking the guy is. I know Ahem has redeemed himself hundred times over but for me I cannot condone the slap. And I repeatedly press this point for our young readers boys and girls also to know that it is not okay for a husband to slap his wife whatever the circumstances.

And I also understand that this is a fictional show with fictional characters

Edited by SriB - 13 years ago

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SriB

@SriB

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

shruti my answers in black

looks like i am answering these questions to u for the second time...
i remember answering a long list of questions...

Munni,love your patience.

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

You are right Shaun that is what I am trying to say...she's giving weird punishements and he's agreeing to whatever she's saying...and trying to make her happy! But she's a hard one to be pleased😆

Finally we agree! 😆

Yeah Koki is a bit too harsh and Aham is a bit too bending. But think that's cos serial characters tend to be ott in any event. Real life tends to be a lot more easier and a lot more difficult too.

If that makes sense 🤣

and little do they know that we are spending our time on characters that are not even real!😆we are more difficult to understand isn't it?🤣

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Ashwin Maharaj

@ShaunSA

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: shruts18

Finally we agree! 😆

Yeah Koki is a bit too harsh and Aham is a bit too bending. But think that's cos serial characters tend to be ott in any event. Real life tends to be a lot more easier and a lot more difficult too.

If that makes sense 🤣

and little do they know that we are spending our time on characters that are not even real!😆we are more difficult to understand isn't it?🤣

Yep. Instead of living our lives we spend the time analysing what goes on in the lives of fictional characters in a soap opera of all things! ☺️

How sad are we? 🤣