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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

shruti dear blue lines,,,, thanks for saving me and my Ahemji

Pleasure is all mine Munni...Since day one, Ahem hasn't tortured Gopi, he has ill-treated her because she let him to do so...I have always believed that Gopi has been too naive ...

I remember that night when Gopi slept on the bed with him, he slept on the floor without waking her up! So, gopi never ever took initiative for anything...

So, its only for Ahem that Gopi is what she is now-a-days...Koki is still tough with her but not Ahemji...he's the only person who's pampering her since quite a few months now!

Before education track, if ever Gopi needed him he helped her(burnt hand, while falling down...etc.), only he didnt want her to impose herself upon him...

And since education track, he started caring for her like anything...for the only thing missing in their relation was communication! And that solved, her goodness reached him...and he slowly let his doors open as well...

Only regret I have in their relation is Ahem in his blind faith for his mom, married Gopi disheartedly and paid for the price of his mom not telling him the whole truth...for before he came to know that Gopi was illiterate, he didnt treat her badly!

For which Gopi paid the price as well...

Now is the time when your fav. Koki should make their paths clear and help them! for my fav. lover boy Ahem and Gohem.

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#22

shruti dear ...

again and again repeatedly i say that koki is not in between them...

she has gracefully, with full confidence, full trust let her bahu to take care of her dikra...

now it's between the 2 take their love story forward... my koki is no interference

for the pakode ka khadi ... i already have some points to say... will tell them y she behaves that way tomorrow... wait for my post after the episode😉

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad
navya, harini we are again going the same way which we talked about few days back on navya's thread ...😆

he did abuse her out of anger, not out of planned hatred or evilness

i never said he did not abuse,,, i still say he abused in anger and not preplanned

Anger is something which cannot be controlled easily by a person of Ahemji's age and the work pressure

he would have controlled it, if he had been to a medication camps for 10 days a year or if he had attended an anger management course...but no

the guys' love is taken away...married to illiterate and with all the stupid mistakes and kalakaries he should have controlled his anger...

wow... what an irony... in real life u see the same behavior from a person similar to Ahemji... just because it is a TV show we want him to be controlling his anger😕

Munni, I understand it but I cannot condone it.. @Bold, even in real life that person is wrong. But again, it was not completely his fault but he did have an option.. Yes. Anger is impulsive and he made mistakes. But we can let it go, when he completely heals Gopi.. He will surely Munni. He is a gem. But Gopi made him sparkle when before he was blinded hate..

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: ShaunSA
It's about more then the slap. That was just one incident.

Be honest here guys Aham treated Gopi like dirt! And yes he has changed and improved.

But we cannot forget the past. We can forgive it. But it is impossible to forget it.

See Shaun...I always feel people take advantage of a person when one is meek and gentle and doesnt stand up for himself...and Gopi did exactly the same...but Ahem never ever used or took advantage of her!

Regarding his treating her like dirt...she did so many silly mistakes even if for kalakaaris...i tell you if someone washes my Laptop and hangs it on the wire...I would put a bucket of water on that person as well😆

He wanted a good life for himself and had dreams but when he realized that Gopi didnt know anything at all and is so so naive, he felt even more helpless and suffocated...!

I think Ahem didnt trouble Gopi that much as Urmi or Koki(sorry munni) or Rashi has done intentionally! He just responsed to her actions in his own ways...

And now all I want that he should just realize what he did to her in his own wave of emotions and what a gem of a person she is!

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad
shruti dear ...

again and again repeatedly i say that koki is not in between them...

she has gracefully, with full confidence, full trust let her bahu to take care of her dikra...

now it's between the 2 take their love story forward... my koki is no interference

for the pakode ka khadi ... i already have some points to say... will tell them y she behaves that way tomorrow... wait for my post after the episode😉

Totally Agree. Koki does not come between them. Just because she makes Kaddi or helps him in Gopi's absence does not mean she is possessive and insecure..
She is a mother and is taking care of her son as a mother would in the absence of his wife. Cannot a mother do small things for her son even when his wife unavailable.
We need to understand that like we consider a wife to be an important part of a husband's life, a son is also important for the mother.
These 2 relations are not to be fought over. They co-exist. Koki does not have insecurities over her son or her DIL..

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Munni, I understand it but I cannot condone it.. @Bold, even in real life that person is wrong. But again, it was not completely his fault but he did have an option.. Yes. Anger is impulsive and he made mistakes. But we can let it go, when he completely heals Gopi.. He will surely Munni. He is a gem. But Gopi made him sparkle when before he was blinded hate..

i never had or have any doubts of his behavior... he is the most desirable and most lovable husband...

but spare the guy of this so called dark spot... in the process of coming together it is always linked to his past behavior...let go off it now in the proces

i am more than 100% confident about him... that he will make up to more than what he did in the past.

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Ashwin Maharaj

@ShaunSA

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Totally Agree. Koki does not come between them. Just because she makes Kaddi or helps him in Gopi's absence does not mean she is possessive and insecure..
She is a mother and is taking care of her son as a mother would in the absence of his wife. Cannot a mother do small things for her son even when his wife unavailable.
We need to understand that like we consider a wife to be an important part of a husband's life, a son is also important for the mother.
These 2 relations are not to be fought over. They co-exist. Koki does not have insecurities over her son or her DIL..

Well said Harini!

I have yet to see this jealousy of Koki against GoHam that everyone is talking about 😕

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Totally Agree. Koki does not come between them. Just because she makes Kaddi or helps him in Gopi's absence does not mean she is possessive and insecure..
She is a mother and is taking care of her son as a mother would in the absence of his wife. Cannot a mother do small things for her son even when his wife unavailable.
We need to understand that like we consider a wife to be an important part of a husband's life, a son is also important for the mother.
These 2 relations are not to be fought over. They co-exist. Koki does not have insecurities over her son or her DIL..

Harini n Munni...I m not saying for this one Kadhi incidence...she's just too over protective for me...maybe she'll adjust with time and understand the changes in son are natural ...Koki is not b/w them but she's completely not out of it as well! Her too much tradiitonal approach sometimes gets on my nerves😆

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Well said Harini!

I have yet to see this jealousy of Koki against GoHam that everyone is talking about 😕

i agree shaun and harini...

people are seeing koki through their mind...that is why so many questions

see kokiji through your mind - she is negative

see kokiji through your heart - she is a sweet heart

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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+ 6

Posted: 13 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: shruts18

Harini n Munni...I m not saying for this one Kadhi incidence...she's just too over protective for me...maybe she'll adjust with time and understand the changes in son are natural ...Koki is not b/w them but she's completely not out of it as well! Her too much tradiitonal approach sometimes gets on my nerves😆

shruti... when in a joint family...

a mom cannot be completely out of her son and DIL's life

a mom cannot stay away from her son,..without talking.

can not restrain herself from taking care of her son

can not stay away completely cut off from their son and bahu...

her son and bahu are sleeping in their own room''

she is not asking he bahu to sleep with her... if this is yes then we can say she has to move out from them

traditional approach - i did not get this ...what traditional approach of koki made a gap between gopi and Ahemji