Why is SNS the no. 1 show? - Page 4

Originally posted by: paradigm

This problem that I have is not just with SNS. I agree with the other characters you have mentioned. And i agree men in serials don't have to be sugary sweet. But calling a man who ill treats a woman the HERO of the showw is principally wrong. I would have been ok if he had been civil and and not sweet to his wife becaus he didn't love her. But he has actually harassed her on occasions, Agreed he may be changing now .. But this means that the show is promoting.. women go on taking abuse from your husband.. one day his heart will be touched and he will reform,.. thats a very disturbing thing to promote..

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i always watch SNS, i dont know why i watch...

but yes, the first meeting between gohem and raji especially raji impressed me a lot...

gohem first meeting was cute but raji first meeting,the way flower falls on them,it was like dream sequence...i miss these old days...

and i love both gopi and rashi...

watch SNS for GOHEM and RAJI

Originally posted by: sbp1971

Okay first of all Ahem did slap her one time, and was very rude in the beginning of their marriage. But I wouldn't call him abusive as in domestic violent type abuse. As I said I am not justifying his behavior, but you have to look it at from his point of view also. He was brought up by a very tough mom, he always did as his mom told him, so he sacrificed the girl he loved so much for his mom. Then he comes to know that Gopi is uneducated, and he is even more guilty for hurting the girl he love. He couldn't fight his mom so he took all his anger out on Gopi, again he was not right in doing this, but he was never violent with her, he was cold and indifferent and couldn't stand the site of her, but like I said he was made to believe she is a uneducated gold digger, who didn't know anything but kitchen work. If you watch from begging you will understand him.

You are comparing oranges to Apples by comparing domestic violence with Ahem's arrogant, rude and insulting behavior. It is not the same thing.

As I said watch from the beginning and you will understand both Ahem and Gopi's side along with other characters of the show.

I am not saying an wife beater should be forgiven, never, but in this case Ahem is not a wife beater.

This show is an extremely regressive one; the main female protagonist isn't strong; the lead pair isn't sizzling hot and most importantly the show never moves forward. Its exactly what it was months back. Please explain if you have reasons for liking the show and bash otherwise

Originally posted by: S696_sehreen

This show is an extremely regressive one; the main female protagonist isn't strong; the lead pair isn't sizzling hot and most importantly the show never moves forward. Its exactly what it was months back. Please explain if you have reasons for liking the show and bash otherwise

i cant say anything else bt this u thing's u said here that's its poplare bcoz its simple with beautifull story.

what do you mean she is not strong.
define strong. it is not only physical strength but metal strength. gopi is mentally strong. if you thing this show is regressive, i m sorry to say that you dont know the reality. there are more women who are in worse situation than gopi.
the reason why this show is no 1, because it gopi does not want money, luxuary, freedom but love.
the basic problem in today's world is we dont have enough love to give others.
gopi's struggle to gain love is a heart touching story. most people, particuarly women like this aspect. i dont know from which country you are from, but in india were most marriages are arranged, womem learn to leave a loveless life. so her stuggle to get the love of her mother in law and her husband reaches the audience.

Originally posted by: shruthi2010

what do you mean she is not strong.
define strong. it is not only physical strength but metal strength. gopi is mentally strong. if you thing this show is regressive, i m sorry to say that you dont know the reality. there are more women who are in worse situation than gopi.
the reason why this show is no 1, because it gopi does not want money, luxuary, freedom but love.
the basic problem in today's world is we dont have enough love to give others.
gopi's struggle to gain love is a heart touching story. most people, particuarly women like this aspect. i dont know from which country you are from, but in india were most marriages are arranged, womem learn to leave a loveless life. so her stuggle to get the love of her mother in law and her husband reaches the audience.

I would like to add my two bits as well here.. I am not sure if it s the number one show, but if you leave apart that one slap gopi got, it is more or less a good serial.

For me, infact I am a newbie to ths serial, but its a nice one, right from the story, i know the story only since aug2011 😆 is a nice one..a husband taking interst to teach his wife, ppl dont bother teaching their kids, and here a husband is teaching his wife..something very good. As kaki said, sometimes to fulfill your dreams, you need the support of your family and her husband supported her in every which way, i dont think even all parents do that.

And finally serials have to be taken with a pinch of salt, one cant base your life completely on the serials/films.

I think SNS deserves first position.. many people think its just a typical saas bahu saga, but its so much more than that.. SNS has more of a unique story than other shows, which is what makes it special and thats why people are hooked to this show

This show is addictive it realy is

Originally posted by: CHIKA784

Excellent response Shruti,Gopi is a fantastic role-model,she is modest,beautiful,sweet,caring and rarely lies,she's an amazing lady and is loved by everyone!,Just because she doesn't speak up or sometimes doesn't understand people's intentions,oh well,everyone has drawbacks and considering the situations and the upbringing Gopi had,it has moulded her character into this particular shape!😊

Im sorry to say but you have to watch SNS before you judge whether or whether not it deserves to be in first place!.😃

Sahreen, to each his own! Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder...we are talking abt just preferences ...no absolute TRUTH. So pehlease don't torture yourself by watching Saath nibhana. You are actually doing a disservice to yourself by watching something you don't like & talking abt it.
I don't think we need to give any explanation why we like the show...Human beings are selfish by nature (its Economics!). We never do anything which does not give us satisfaction or happiness.😃 Just because your definition of "like" does not meet someone else's, it does not mean that you should set out to "challenge" us Ahemlolicks why what when...
All I can say is there is beauty in diversity...Lets "live and let live"...just my5cents😊

Shruti & Chika I completely agree with you both.
That which does not kill you makes you stronger...there goes our Gopi who has immerged stronger & brighter . Today she is a complete winner as her Ahem ji has changed for her love.

Man may make the mistakes but most importantly it is the mistakes that makes the man, there goes our Ahem ji
Kokila has learnt to pick her battles 😆

Now to answer the qs why SNS is no 1

The unfortunate reason is that in general, we enjoy seeing other people being miserable, its human nature to alleviate one's own misery by concentrating on someone else's messed up life. 😛 Gopi's unrequited love for Ahem throbbed with her every heartbeat & touched the audiences. The story of emotional Gopi (Prima Donna's tears always translate s into TRPs 😆 ) & emotionally flawed Ahem has touched many. We, as viewers , want to see our heroes heal and grow throughout the story and by the end, be completely healed. Ahem is on the path of healing & loving😳. Writers are always interested in the paradox of the scoundrel savior, the redeeming sinner.😉 (if u insist that Ahem's slap to Gopi was a SIN 😛)

There is difference b/w reel & Real.