Enough is enough !!!

Agree with you completely. All we can do is rant and rave, they are not listening to us. The more we complain the worst the episode gets.

Agree with you again, and yes initially he was very impressed with her and things went from aap to tum, turning point was the whole necklace business, and then him finding out about her being illiterate. At that point he started to hate her or repressed his feelings. Like you said there are too many loose ends, they need to be cleared. But at this point there are so many, how would the CVs begin to clear any of it up? Do they even remember? I think they've changed writers of the story so many times, they can't get the story on the right track.

Originally posted by: angelirebelli

I have been watching the series for the past couple of months n wanted to catch up with the episodes aired earlier. I think Aham knew what he was getting into, he seemed rather impressed with her initially.

But as the story got tangled between the possessive mother and the training to get the "perfect" DIL, the focus shifted from Aham-Gopi relationship and when the Cvs realized this hey put in some crazy scenes of him being super arrogant but if you see some initial episodes, Aham is shown as cultured bloke who even apologizes to wayfarers on whom the driver splashed water, he did not look like a guy who would abuse a woman, esp since Kokila mould him. He was shown as treating Gopi with respect until the wedding , it came down from "aap" to "tum".

Also, Kokila was earlier depicted as a possessive mother who did not want to let go of her son, she had the most beautiful transformation, to a supportive MIL and as woman of principles who never backed down from calling the spade a spade.

If Aham's problem is with Gopi being without formal education, steps had to be taken by Kokila, the ever concerned Hetal or adoring BIL Jigar to try and rectify the issue asap. nothing has moved in that direction in fact we are far from it.

Why doesn't Gopi take initiative for once instead of being handheld by Kokila at each step. She could approach Kokila for private classes. This would do wonders to her low self esteem n confidence. If the Cvs think Aham;s love will come to gopi unconditionally without her changing, in an "as-is" mode then they are far from reality. Making Dhokla each day, re-doing the room are not gonna help much.

Please show us something sane, real and practical,

I agree with you on most of the points. There were couple of instances earlier in the episode where he is outright rude to a servant girl when she said she was illiterate. Secondly on his marriage day when a beggar woman was begging for alms after blessing him, he rudely put down the window.

I agree with both Angelirebelli and Shilpa.

Originally posted by: swasthi

I agree with both Angelirebelli and Shilpa.

It begs the question of the value of the wife in her husbands home. The question can be derived in different ways: Does the wife merely assimilates into her husbands life and enhance his life? or Is there compromise in marriage? or perhaps other questions can be asked too.

In Ahem and Gopi's relationship, Gopi fulfils Ahem's world. She lays his clothes out, prepares hismeals, keeps his (not their) room clean, etc. She has enhanced his life, eg winning the contract, saving him from the snake. How has he fulfilled her life?

As far as Ahem is concerned, he stated 'she is doing her duty'. What duty is he doing to Gopi? He seldom sees any good that she does. He has to proded by his mum to to offer her any rewards.

In the case of Gopi, she is comprising herself constantly. She has to persistantly cope with her cousin and aunt in waging abuse - in childhood and in marriage.

It is nearing a year of marriage, he has shown very little concern for her well-being, let alone supporting her in the slightest way or even treating her with dignity. Maybe in reality relationships like this show some change occurring. Maybe not too.

Excuse me if I am not dithering.

Ahem is still in love with Anita! He doesn't even want to know her. What a marriage!

the wait is now killing interest we waited for a year its not moving anywhere

I know what you mean. The CV's really need to do something and I guess not all loose ends can be tied but they can at least try with some of the men starting with Kinjal confessing to what she did or we the viewers getting into Ahem's head to see how he views everything that's been happening. Apart from Kokila no other character has had any positive changes to them, in fact Gopi seems more miserable in her in laws home than she was in her maternal home, she's also more abused, treated like a live in servant and just looked down upon in general. She doesn't seem capable of doing anything own her own and despite everything if Ahem does one little nice thing for her, she misconstrues it as being love despite the fact that he has made it very clear that he does not and will not love her.

i agree with all comments in this thread. I really think Ahem was starting to like gopi initially, but then things changed drastically.