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malinn

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Nice angelrebelli... You said it all...

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angelirebelli

@angelirebelli

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sbp1971
Agree with you completely. All we can do is rant and rave, they are not listening to us. The more we complain the worst the episode gets.

If after all that she has done for Modi's, and Ahem has noticed this, his heart hasn't melted yet, what are the chances his heart will melt in the future?

i understand Shilpa, its just that I was so frustrated and this seemed like a good place to vent it out and get others views/ideas. I have nothing against the show, the actors et al, its just that i wish they do not take viewers for granted.

Getting to the point of Ahams heart melting, by his behavior it seems far fetched, I would be super happy if she gets enough credit for things she does right without his mom prodding him.

For him to warm towards her, the numerous misunderstandings they have or rather he has of her, need to be cleared. Its only then that Aham will , probably see her in new light . The CVs need to work towards tying the loose ends / clearing the misunderstandings.

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@SIP1997

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Hey angeli, I am just as frustrated as you. I only watched one episode this week, the room decoration one, rest of it was bakwas.

You know what's more frustrating is when people call Gopi stupid, dumb or dumbo, when she is not the CVs are making her like this.

People don't think about all the good things she has done on her own in the past, but at this point she is desperate to win Ahem's love, she will do anything. Its sad really to love someone to that extent and not be loved in return.

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angelirebelli

@angelirebelli

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: avivakirk
I agree with you on most of the points. There were couple of instances earlier in the episode where he is outright rude to a servant girl when she said she was illiterate. Secondly on his marriage day when a beggar woman was begging for alms after blessing him, he rudely put down the window.

I haven't managed to catch up on all the episodes Liz, from what you say it could be possible that he expected his mom to find him an "equal" but his mum, for her own selfish reasons failed to do so. She has had him under her thumb using her husbands ineptitude, in a way emotionally blackmailing Aham.

About the beggar woman, maybe he was still in the Anita daze but its no excuse, they were probably trying to build his character then.

They had this cute scene when he saves her during the fire incident and later when Kokila asks someone to get water he moves to take the glass but Kokila beats him to it, and he has a cute/funny expression then. I guess they wanted to depict various shades to Ahams character, he could be caring as well. But then it went down too soon, his frustration of being trapped in the marriage kind of got better of him. Sometimes I get this feeling that he is mighty pissed at what Kokila had done to him and he vents it out on Gopi, she being the weak one.

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angelirebelli

@angelirebelli

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: swasthi
I agree with both Angelirebelli and Shilpa.

It begs the question of the value of the wife in her husbands home. The question can be derived in different ways: Does the wife merely assimilates into her husbands life and enhance his life? or Is there compromise in marriage? or perhaps other questions can be asked too.

In Ahem and Gopi's relationship, Gopi fulfils Ahem's world. She lays his clothes out, prepares hismeals, keeps his (not their) room clean, etc. She has enhanced his life, eg winning the contract, saving him from the snake. How has he fulfilled her life?

As far as Ahem is concerned, he stated 'she is doing her duty'. What duty is he doing to Gopi? He seldom sees any good that she does. He has to proded by his mum to to offer her any rewards.

In the case of Gopi, she is comprising herself constantly. She has to persistantly cope with her cousin and aunt in waging abuse - in childhood and in marriage.

It is nearing a year of marriage, he has shown very little concern for her well-being, let alone supporting her in the slightest way or even treating her with dignity. Maybe in reality relationships like this show some change occurring. Maybe not too.

Excuse me if I am not dithering.

I agree Swasthi, Kokila wants Gopi to make her presence felt but at the risk him insinuating him further. Aham on the other hand despises her for hovering around him and being forced upon him.

I wonder just how such relationships turnout in the end, in real life scenarios.

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angelirebelli

@angelirebelli

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: shilpaourshona
the wait is now killing interest we waited for a year its not moving anywhere

I agree, but am hoping something positive emerges out of all/any nonsense.

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angelirebelli

@angelirebelli

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Traxy101
I know what you mean. The CV's really need to do something and I guess not all loose ends can be tied but they can at least try with some of the men starting with Kinjal confessing to what she did or we the viewers getting into Ahem's head to see how he views everything that's been happening. Apart from Kokila no other character has had any positive changes to them, in fact Gopi seems more miserable in her in laws home than she was in her maternal home, she's also more abused, treated like a live in servant and just looked down upon in general. She doesn't seem capable of doing anything own her own and despite everything if Ahem does one little nice thing for her, she misconstrues it as being love despite the fact that he has made it very clear that he does not and will not love her.

I agree with everything you said Traxy. At her in-laws she is ordered around lie a robot and rushes to fulfill every command, she seems broken and less confident here.

Kinjal confessing would be a huge move in the right direction. I would love to see Ahams perspective but how would they do that?? *wonders/thinking cap*

As far as Aham doing something nice is concerned, its like he is trapped between a rock and a real hard place. She starts behaving like a lovesick puppy the moment he looks at her.

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angelirebelli

@angelirebelli

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: gopakshi
i agree with all comments in this thread. I really think Ahem was starting to like gopi initially, but then things changed drastically.

I think that in the real world if this story happened and a son in the love of a mother married a girl, he would try to work it out even if he found out she was uneducated, then as a successful business he would rectify that situation ASAP. However, here even Ahem is shown as a dumb husband. He is a businessman, he should think of solutions to resolve issues, you dont get to CEO positions without having ideas on how to resolve issues.

So at the end of it all, the show has taken a great idea of forced marriage and as Angelirebell stated, just forgotten about it and switched over to deception land.

I am sure if Aham used the brains they say he has, he could set things right for him or her or for "them".

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angelirebelli

@angelirebelli

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: malinn
Nice angelrebelli... You said it all...

Thanx malinn !!

Couldn't help myself, have been a silent viewer for too long and wanted different perspectives as well.

Edited by angelirebelli - 14 years ago

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angelirebelli

@angelirebelli

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: sbp1971
Hey angeli, I am just as frustrated as you. I only watched one episode this week, the room decoration one, rest of it was bakwas.

You know what's more frustrating is when people call Gopi stupid, dumb or dumbo, when she is not the CVs are making her like this.

People don't think about all the good things she has done on her own in the past, but at this point she is desperate to win Ahem's love, she will do anything. Its sad really to love someone to that extent and not be loved in return.

All changes in Gopi's character could be attributed to pressure she feels in the Modi household, he quest to fit in, to be accepted. She has a loving but almost dictatorial MIL,a husband with a devil of a mood and to top it all, he hates her.

I just want CVs to help Goham take baby steps no huge jumps or leaps. Nothing mush. They cant take us on the Goham tango each time.( which btw is one step forward and 10 backwards with a trip to the blackhole every few weeks). They could start clearing the misunderstandings, tying up the loose ends ... Gosh is that asking for too much...

They just need to stop showing Gopi in poor light, maybe thats all I ask, Shilpa. Its such an adorable character, and from what I have seen of the old episodes she is not dumb, she isn't stupid, she had confidence earlier, she is brave and all that.

I agree to what you say about loving someone and not being loved back in return. I guess like many others this is another reality of life, and yes it bites...

Edited by angelirebelli - 14 years ago

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