Replies from the Dev Team : UPDATED - Page 19

Originally posted by: Abhilash D

Oops yeah, had forgotten about Part 4. Well, nothing much to it. Ended in an anti-climax. Got cleared and the girl brough a new cell phone.
Read my blog for funnier things 😉

Mamu, got curious and went to check out your blog - kya masala hai 😛

Still want a Part 4 though - we don't know how Vaishu looks yet 😉

Waise, any idea how much her 5th phone cost 😆

Originally posted by: ans24us1

Please Lets Bring Back the Charm and make it peaceful...

I was away from the forum for few days, and just came back to check up what was going on... I am totally shocked... What happened to the charm and fun that we had in our forum? What happened to all of us here? Why are we taking things so personally and becoming so sensitive... I dont think we would be even doing all this in our real life that we are doing here in the Virtual life... We are here to have fun, forget the worries of real life and have masti with all the friends out here in the Cyber Space...

Why not just have fun, forget all that has happened till now and start a new one again... I read most of the comments of having Groupism in the forum... Now, as mentioned before, HR fans made a group, Vinit fans made a group, Himani fans, Hemu fans, Nihira fans etc etc made a group of their own... We all discussed among ourselves.. Now there came the groupism... If we take out from our mind regarding the groupism, we all can be happy for ever... Each one is a part of a group... In the list of lacs of members or call it thousands of members in SRGMP forum, there are many groups here and one cannot be close to all of them, one can be close to only a certain group of people... Now, forget that groupism which is more of personal issue, and get back again and join hands with each other and enjoy it together...

Why takes things personally? Why attack other members? Why do we have to get ourselves hurt and make others also hurt? Life is beautiful... Life is given once by god... If we do not like something, just ignore it and leave... For that, "kyun apne aapko dukh dena aur kyun doosron ko dukh dena?" Why attack each other aur din kharab karna? Lets all enjoy life... There is lot of fun things too that we can do more than all this, why not go ahead and think of it... Why make others feel bad? Agar hum doosron ko khushi nahin de sakte, toh dukh kyun dena? We need the love in this forum... In this life, every1 cannot be the same... Paanchon ungliyaan ek jaise nahin ho sakti... We will ve different point of view... If you do not like a comment, just ignore it... why, stress on it? Why do we have to impose our view on others? Its human nature to make others accept what one feel... but why be like that? Cant every1 express their own point of view... If you dnt feel like accepting it, ignore it, then see, how peaceful it is here....

The Bottom line is: Accept things, dont take it personally, lets bring back peace in the forum again... Its so hurting to see own brothers and sisters and friends arguing like this...

Brilliant Post Anu. I will do it in my usual style. 👏

I also feel that let bygones be bygones and lets start everything fresh.

Originally posted by: ans24us1

Please Lets Bring Back the Charm and make it peaceful...

I was away from the forum for few days, and just came back to check up what was going on... I am totally shocked... What happened to the charm and fun that we had in our forum? What happened to all of us here? Why are we taking things so personally and becoming so sensitive... I dont think we would be even doing all this in our real life that we are doing here in the Virtual life... We are here to have fun, forget the worries of real life and have masti with all the friends out here in the Cyber Space...

Why not just have fun, forget all that has happened till now and start a new one again... I read most of the comments of having Groupism in the forum... Now, as mentioned before, HR fans made a group, Vinit fans made a group, Himani fans, Hemu fans, Nihira fans etc etc made a group of their own... We all discussed among ourselves.. Now there came the groupism... If we take out from our mind regarding the groupism, we all can be happy for ever... Each one is a part of a group... In the list of lacs of members or call it thousands of members in SRGMP forum, there are many groups here and one cannot be close to all of them, one can be close to only a certain group of people... Now, forget that groupism which is more of personal issue, and get back again and join hands with each other and enjoy it together...

Why takes things personally? Why attack other members? Why do we have to get ourselves hurt and make others also hurt? Life is beautiful... Life is given once by god... If we do not like something, just ignore it and leave... For that, "kyun apne aapko dukh dena aur kyun doosron ko dukh dena?" Why attack each other aur din kharab karna? Lets all enjoy life... There is lot of fun things too that we can do more than all this, why not go ahead and think of it... Why make others feel bad? Agar hum doosron ko khushi nahin de sakte, toh dukh kyun dena? We need the love in this forum... In this life, every1 cannot be the same... Paanchon ungliyaan ek jaise nahin ho sakti... We will ve different point of view... If you do not like a comment, just ignore it... why, stress on it? Why do we have to impose our view on others? Its human nature to make others accept what one feel... but why be like that? Cant every1 express their own point of view... If you dnt feel like accepting it, ignore it, then see, how peaceful it is here....

The Bottom line is: Accept things, dont take it personally, lets bring back peace in the forum again... Its so hurting to see own brothers and sisters and friends arguing like this...

Great Post Anu.. 👏

I am also requesting too my IF family members.. Please Stop fighting n accusing each other...

PEACE Please

Originally posted by: Iron

😕 yeh kya ho raha hai bhai, yeh kya ho raha hai...enlighten me and get a chill pill everyone please 😛

iron is there any need to take chill pill i donot think so..as far as kya ho raha hein..if the answer to all is nothing then....?????

Originally posted by: Iron

Arrey Dolly aakhir pareshanni kya hai...he said she said main don't you think humarra kitna valuable time waste ho jata hai...Isse aaccha to thodi masti karke relax raho ...right sweet heart😳

iron sometimes you have to be serious....after all dont you remember our old days ..kitna masti thee yaha per..now see..iam saying this kyoki i came here after 4 months and its not same

T. bhaskar and priya , I would like to thank you for working really hard on the matters and responding to everyone's conerns and queries.

This excercise has opened my mind too. I realize we are a forum with such vast ideas and interests and music can be just as a passionate concern as maybe religion. It is not easy to manage these things and I appreciate the response to my concerns as well.

It's a lot of work and requires quite a bit of balance and patience.

I think somehow we have to learn to agree to disagree on many concerns.

Also T Bhaskar I see you have responded to every single concern and after reading a few pages, I found out you are not well. Thanks for doing that.

Priya, I think you are doing your best and hopefully having all this come out in the open we can stop, think, close the past and start fresh again. Old memories have got in the way and rehashing them and letting them go have been helpful.

Peace !!!!!

Rani, thanks for putting it across so well for those of us who feel the same way. 😊

Originally posted by: ans24us1

Please Lets Bring Back the Charm and make it peaceful...

I was away from the forum for few days, and just came back to check up what was going on... I am totally shocked... What happened to the charm and fun that we had in our forum? What happened to all of us here? Why are we taking things so personally and becoming so sensitive... I dont think we would be even doing all this in our real life that we are doing here in the Virtual life... We are here to have fun, forget the worries of real life and have masti with all the friends out here in the Cyber Space...

Why not just have fun, forget all that has happened till now and start a new one again... I read most of the comments of having Groupism in the forum... Now, as mentioned before, HR fans made a group, Vinit fans made a group, Himani fans, Hemu fans, Nihira fans etc etc made a group of their own... We all discussed among ourselves.. Now there came the groupism... If we take out from our mind regarding the groupism, we all can be happy for ever... Each one is a part of a group... In the list of lacs of members or call it thousands of members in SRGMP forum, there are many groups here and one cannot be close to all of them, one can be close to only a certain group of people... Now, forget that groupism which is more of personal issue, and get back again and join hands with each other and enjoy it together...

Why takes things personally? Why attack other members? Why do we have to get ourselves hurt and make others also hurt? Life is beautiful... Life is given once by god... If we do not like something, just ignore it and leave... For that, "kyun apne aapko dukh dena aur kyun doosron ko dukh dena?" Why attack each other aur din kharab karna? Lets all enjoy life... There is lot of fun things too that we can do more than all this, why not go ahead and think of it... Why make others feel bad? Agar hum doosron ko khushi nahin de sakte, toh dukh kyun dena? We need the love in this forum... In this life, every1 cannot be the same... Paanchon ungliyaan ek jaise nahin ho sakti... We will ve different point of view... If you do not like a comment, just ignore it... why, stress on it? Why do we have to impose our view on others? Its human nature to make others accept what one feel... but why be like that? Cant every1 express their own point of view... If you dnt feel like accepting it, ignore it, then see, how peaceful it is here....

The Bottom line is: Accept things, dont take it personally, lets bring back peace in the forum again... Its so hurting to see own brothers and sisters and friends arguing like this...

Excellent post sis... 👏

RaniG - very well written too 👍🏼

Really looking fwd to a peaceful and happy tomorrow 😊😊😊

Thanks Jaya and Chatbuster! I saw your posts and I see where you may feel somewhat curbed on your freedom of speach. Your completely right that you should have the freedome to express your perception and have fun too! I know I'm not always part of your group or perspective specifically around HR, but I can imagine that it must be nice to have friends and be in the supposed "in" group.

I hope you can hear our concerns too or atleast be sympathetic of those we like. Sometimes it feels bad and other times I can appreciate the good laugh. But, through this I hope to be more tolerant and take it in stride.

Cheers for new beginnings and tolerance for different opinions!! And to the Mods for doing an awsome Job!!!
Thanks again 😃