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Posted: 19 years ago
I totally agree with you Anu... I have stated this before as well... Its an open forum where 12 to 60 year olds visit... and the atmosphere needs to be clean for all to participate.... PMs can often be very crude... If member to member PMs are can be so explosive that all of us may have experienced some time or the other - we can imagine what would be the content of the PMs that our Mods recieve! They do a highly commendable job of dealing with the dirt so that sanity of this place is maintained.. We need to agree and trust that the steps they are taking are for the betterment of the forum... We (as in all of us) may not be matured enough to handle all the transparency...
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Posted: 19 years ago

Edited on the request of Barnalidi

Edited by kabhi_21 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: Abhilash D


Too many restrictions actually make things worse. Not many people can live under heavy restrictions. Yesterday, I had gone to Christ College for a quiz. It's a feckin' Jail! Especially the moral policing, segregation of guys and girls, etc. But then, my teammate and I were joblessly strolling around in the Field when we saw a packet of used condoms lying prettily though ashamedly in a hollow of grass. I think you're getting my point.

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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: Abhilash D



I saw your post to the so called Charges, Bhaskar, and honestly, I am much disappointed, if I am allowed to be. You haven't addressed one single charge to the point and have nearly always argued on a tangent and that too with a frustrated and dismissive tone. Will not go into details; but this is certainly not expected from you; the one mod we all held in esteem. Sadly, more than half the forum now feels you've betrayed their trust and faith in you. And I have to agree with them, again, if I am allowed to.

This is a sincere request. Do not try to standardise anything and everything here. Do not make way too many rules and restrictions. And for heaven's sake, behave like grownups. If a Faction-1 member says Bush sucks, and though a Faction-2 member agrees, he she won't, and will stupidly oppose it because they favour two other participants. That's stupid with a capital U for Uber-Demented. Do not carry this mentality everywhere.

I appeal to the younger members - Do not be dismissive of everything and view everything as black and white, standarising things with the notions of Cool and Uncool. The real world does not work that way, and trust me, if you don't learn to discern and decide now, you'll be royally screwed later.

And adults, let's not be a party to such juvenile acts, and act with maturity that bespeaks of our age. I am inclined to totally agree with Rahul regarding the restrictions on the forum. They're way too many and its not good for the growth of the forum.

Oh yeah, and people, learn to take Humour and Sarcasm for what they're bloody worth. Don't go sulking like a pig in a 30 minute painful orgasm that's gone wrong. Pah...



Briliant Post Abhi... 👏👏👏

and I agree with you lot of things Now looks like storm has stoped.. IF is back to normal 😃😃😃


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Posted: 19 years ago

Edited on the request of Barnalidi

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Posted: 19 years ago


I thought, all of us just said that let bygones be bygones and lets all make a fresh start! 😕
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Posted: 19 years ago
WELL... I just mentioned looks like storm stopped .. Abhi now what is with you??? Bhaiya today is Appa ji' birthday... 😕 😕 😕
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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

Ok I have gone through the posts and can see that Neither mods have done anything nor Appa.......

Mods have two reasons:
1. Favouring Appa
2. Revenge from me for allegations against them
Or it is mods duty to not allow persons name to be figured like that in different font and colour........

Now its between me and Appa face to face........
Appa a birthday gift from me....... The list of charges I levelled against you will be posted here soon verbatim with what I did two days back behind the scenes.........

Please Abhi, I don't need the list of charges. I can add two and two together. You want proof, here you go. You should have been more cautious in your posts.

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Posted: September 13 2006 at 7:25am | IP Logged

Many of this group were issued warnings after a long time. I will specially say this statement only because of one person on forum. This is the person whose 80 to 90% of the posts comprise of personal attacks. Everyone knows who he/she is. The person is also issued notices but has not changed. Whenever the other person on whom he/she attacked tries to answer, many a times mods have given him notice but not given notice to this person. The person is also a big reason for many people leaving the forum. So the Mods are doing their best but knowingly or unknowingly they are being partly partial towards certain people. But they are human beings and they are doing the work for all of us and because they have certain strong relation with someone, they cant be called as favouring them.


Edited by kabhi_21 on September 13 2006 at 9:32am

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Posted: September 13 2006 at 12:21pm | IP Logged
gauri_2 wrote:

Abhi, I am still not able to guess that name of that person. Since most people here already know it and they PMed you as well and were 100% correct....would you please share the name with the remaining of us who did not get it? Just a request....will appreciate it if you could let us know.

I said "most of the people PMed me " tht means only 5 Pmed me and they guessed it right....... I cant share it with members mods already have the name.......😊 sorry to disappoint u😊



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Posted: September 14 2006 at 11:11pm | IP Logged
apparaohoare wrote:

You too Priya. This is contradictory. Don't you know the common belief of this forum? I am supposed to be the close friend of the dev. team. Phir bhi tum mujhe phassi dene ke liye taiyar ho.





Now here is a dialogue of Mr. Apparao..... I am not surprised that the name given by me only to mods is leaked even to the person who I named and his friends

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Edited by apparaohoare - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: uknaik99

WELL... I just mentioned looks like storm stopped .. Abhi now what is with you??? Bhaiya today is Appa ji' birthday... 😕 😕 😕

Kavita ji,

On my birthday, it is very important that I clean all the mud from my name.

Don't worry, it is perfectly OK. We will have a healthy debate.

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Posted: 19 years ago
hey Abhi bhai (that's Abhilash D), loved the writing style, the forcefulness, the power- wish it were possible to see more of it but somehow i doubt that'll happen. like Appa said, it's the metaphors!

on the issues, agree with almost all points except the one relating to moderation. i think we've ended up with all these restrictions thanks to all the clamor on the forum to clamp down on everyone else's free expression, except one's own. someone doesn't like chatty threads, someone else wants it to be just on the current program that's running, someone else finds a joke off-color, and so on till we have an endless list.

it's a pity that rather than learn and enhance one's own skills using a low-threat virtual environment, we just fly off the handle whenever we find an expression we dont like, an idea we cant counter effectively. classic case of the least common denominator principle at work, where we've been working hard to pull each other down to the most sanitized and insipid form of interaction, one where there's not a whole lot of tolerance for other differing styles etc. now what to do? after all we've got to play it safe since we do not want to have folks taking offense.

to a large extent, that's us members doing that, not the mods. just check out what has gone on in this thread and elsewhere. so many of us finding numerous occasions to hunt down the other guy. the mods are basically reflecting what different folks want and are doing perhaps the best job they can under difficult circumstances. unfortunately based on our track record, i think whatever they do, some of us will always find fault there.

btw, did they ever catch the grasshoppers? 😆
Edited by chatbuster - 19 years ago

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