The hands you take and the hands you leave Part 63-Updated page 149 - Page 67

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Posted: 7 years ago
Was waiting for Ur post.My thoughts exactly. Anami telling Satrupa that she was not listening to any body was the limit.I wonder why Satrupa did not point this out to Anami. Interesting take about Sudha taking Dadi's place. I thought that this was somehow related to Sudha taking her place at some point of time.
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Posted: 7 years ago
So happy several posters in this thread know and like 'Enna Thavam'. I thought a lot before posting it, was not sure if it was relevant,people would even know about it and understand the context.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Shruthi, u think that was Dadi's dream? I thought she was too strong for that & it was real.

I loved the way Vikku comforted her. this is another loving couple after Pujan&Kamini😆

I like Bhima, he's so confident Pujan will help him. ADhi will be helped by Anami i think.She has said twice, she'll beat up the contract killer. Now she knows he was involved in Vatsyaly's attack too, she won't leave.

Anami's dialogue doesn't bother me She's a typical teen, full of shit😆

I think they've to reveal sudha's connection, this much of dragging is killing the suspense. Was she married to BD? I think second marriage is valid in India if one of the partner is not mentally sound.May be that's why she was confined to an asylum, rather than just kept away.
she keeps talking abt her family. Vikku talking about uprooting evil might mean bringing the infamous brother i guess.
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Posted: 7 years ago
We are definitely missing a huge piece of the puzzle. What exactly was the relationship between Baldev and Sudha ? Pujan refers to her as Sudha Babhi when speaking about her to Avdoot. He would not be so respectful in his reference if he did not call her that a while ago. She calls Gayathri Sasuma and is not corrected. She is allowed to wander around LM at will. Were Baldev and Sudha married at one point ? The photo points to a happy relationship, an intimate and loving one. Gayathri was involved in something. When LM wasis say Sudha is dangerous I feel like we have seen only their side of the story. For someone who lived in an insane asylum she seems very sane. Something is not adding up for me.
Gayathri is very much into Khoon and Khandaan. She was the one who tricked Satrupa into marrying Baldev and was instrumental in doing something to Sudha I think. Sudha seems to target Gayathri always, never Vikram, Baldev or even Satrupa. She actually said Satrupa was nice yesterday to Narottam.

I also want to know why Satrupa is defending LM and not Baldev. He is dressed up nicely, sitting in his room and listening to old Hindi songs. Vikram, Gayathri and Satrupa plan things, discuss and confide. with each other No one includes Baldev in anything. Why ? Like Nero fiddling when Rome was burning. Kuch parva nahin.

So many questions.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Anami is bratty, does not listen to anyone, thinks she knows everything, is reckless, is full of tevar. She will and should come down with a thud. But why are we excusing Satrupa here ? Has she done anything to bond with Anami ? Nothing. Now she is all pyaare Maa for Ladoo ? Will any of us trust Satrupa if we only see that part ? Not me. She is Matlabi, Matlabi, Matlabi.
What does Anami see in Sudha ? Shadow of Pantitayen. She does Puja, asks Anami to do darthi pranam, most of all Anna Datta. Anami says the world may move but Pantitayen's cooking stays the same while eating the Ladoo. Sudha cooks, makes her favorite food. Anami's love language is food, even Adhiraj knows that. Sudha is Anna Datta. Why wouldn't she bond with her ?

Sudha's true nature will come soon. But Anami bonding with Satrupa will happen only if she gets terribly injured for Ladoo. She is so disrespectful and ungrateful to Panditayen. Uses Ladoo. Satrupa needs to come down bad too. She is the attack dog of LM. People use her. Who genuinely loves her there ? Not dadi, she has more love and apnapan for Anami. Vikram just uses her when he needs to get rid of a problem. Baldev tho no relationship. Why after so long in that family no one except Vatsalya loved her ? They know she will do her duty always. Why is that ? Poonam is loyal to Anami before the saving from molestation. What made Satrupa accept it is ok for people for use her, do her duty with no return pyaar, apnapan ? Why is she so cold usually when she can be so warm with Vatsalya ? She is frozen, could be the Elsa of LM singing "Cold never bothered me anyway"

Both mother and daughter need to fall into earth with a thud and discover each other. They are annoying and irritating equally to me. But they are mirror images of each other in many ways, The Thevar, over confidence. What makes Anami tolerable is her kindness, warmth, not Satrupa version 2.0. and that is due to Panditayen.


Edited by Mangothyme - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
Life is replete with examples of people using others and walking around as though it is the norm or as though the giver is beholden to give. When blame and taunts are all you get in time you build a wall around yourself and express no emotions to the world around. It becomes a coping mechanism. To not pay deep attention to whatever is troubling or causing the hurt and pain. Have recieved this treatment from those around and safeguarding yourself from hurt, you begin to treat others with the same kind of coldness what you have been given. When you think it is safer to be this way, your actions also begin to stem from that. That I guess is what happened to an idealist that entered LM as a young bride.
The way Satrupa discusses fear with Ladoo is very clinical . She does seeds for questions in the mind of Ladoo to help lift the veil that shrouds Anamis understanding. The lens that is blinding her vision has to be plucked off. When she refuses to see it you need to introduce a medium that will improve vision, your vision must be aided with lenses that are the right fit for your eyes. In Satrupas view, Ladoo is the lens with which Anami will see things with clarity.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Satruoa has more attitude than that if Anami. But tattutude us not the reason why Anami should fall. She is ignoring and at times laughing off the concerns of her well wishers.She is endangering her own brother along with LM and RS.
Satrupa did try to bond with Anami initially. She never tried to take Madhu's place.She is not Madhu.She has never tried to take her place. Anami did not respond to it, rightfully so. She has all the right to spurn off Satrupa. But her ' parvarish' should have made her to atleast pause and think when Dadi told her that she had brought lot of misery to LM

Satrupa has already fallen enough. She has already learnt her lessons.She was ready to leave LM after vatsalya's death.She was persuaded by guruji to fight for the rights of her chikdren.She us fighting the final battle of her life . For me she is the ' karna' with a twist.
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Posted: 7 years ago
Usha I was thinking of Karna too as I penned my post above. Life dishes out to you circumstances of your making and also those others foist on you.
Satrupa definitely has her share of flaws yet unlike Sudha she can't be hated.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: usharanganathan

Satruoa has more attitude than that if Anami. But tattutude us not the reason why Anami should fall. She is ignoring and at times laughing off the concerns of her well wishers.She is endangering her own brother along with LM and RS.

Satrupa did try to bond with Anami initially. She never tried to take Madhu's place.She is not Madhu.She has never tried to take her place. Anami did not respond to it, rightfully so. She has all the right to spurn off Satrupa. But her ' parvarish' should have made her to atleast pause and think when Dadi told her that she had brought lot of misery to LM

Satrupa has already fallen enough. She has already learnt her lessons.She was ready to leave LM after vatsalya's death.She was persuaded by guruji to fight for the rights of her chikdren.She us fighting the final battle of her life . For me she is the ' karna' with a twist.


When Satrupa keeps saying 'Mein tumhari maa hoon' and keeps threatening Panditayen she is trying hard to replace her to me.

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Usha I was thinking of Karna too as I penned my post above. Life dishes out to you circumstances of your making and also those others foist on you.

Satrupa definitely has her share of flaws yet unlike Sudha she can't be hated.


I have heard nothing the LM people have said that does not make me have some sympathy for Sudha or make me want to hate her. She seems to have taken revenge but we don't know for what. She is manipulative, chalaak but was she a young, innocent girl in love once? . She says that much to Narottam when she says Satrupa was good once like her and is becoming bad now.

The people I strongly dislike are Baldev, Gayathri and Vikram because they seem to use people though I do not know how. But Dheeru, Satrupa, Sudha all have been used by them at various times I am quite sure though.
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