So does a woman have the right to marry again if the man is infertile? - Page 4

Originally posted by: msin

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A couple may chose not to have a child... If they are career oriented, or some other interest oriented.. Why should it be considered a sin..

If the parents know they don't have the means or time to bring up a child rather than make him feel unwanted like rudra not have a child..

I have a friend who is in her mid thirties... She had 6-7 abortion after her first female child... Be cause she wanted her second to be a male one..and she told me blatantly she is. Not the only one there are Many ladies who have done this in singapore .. As we get to know the sex of the foetus..

I found the matter disgusting..

I also have a couple of friends who have 2 daughters.. Who have been mocked at by their friends ..I am not talking about rural india..

These are Non resident Indians where most of the ladies are college educated and are holding on to some jobs..

If this is their thinking how can we point fingers at mohini who has not stepped foot out of her village...

Originally posted by: SherryGS

Wow, that is just horrible, your friend feeling the pressure to have a male child in that way. I have 2 daughters myself and I live in a very well developed country and still I hear absolutely stupid comments from people of all backgrounds about having a male child. I find it disgusting. I make no bones about saying so as well. 😃 When I get asked if I am not going to have a boy (like I can determine this) I ask why I would want to do that? LOL. It sort of shocks people. hahaha. Stupid questions deserve stupid answers. hahah.

Anyway, its sad that we still live with nonsense like this in this day and age in all parts of the world.

As I said earlier, the only part of this storyline I can stomach is that it brings enlightenment to people of the issues facing so many couples and especially women.

Originally posted by: swatiluthra

Really nice post. If only women had this right or the voice to say their feelings regarding such matters, many countries would have been a better place.

Originally posted by: msin

See samrat has not yet revealed that it is his problem... I have a hunch samrat is infertile and it will be revealed later...or very soon by next week..

but lack of child or lack of make child is a very dominant issue in indian families even in singapore...I see some of my friends who are childless being gently nudge which is damn irritating,,,

A couple may chose not to have a child... If they are career oriented, or some other interest oriented.. Why should it be considered a sin..

If the parents know they don't have the means or time to bring up a child rather than make him feel unwanted like rudra not have a child..

I have a friend who is in her mid thirties... She had 6-7 abortion after her first female child... Be cause she wanted her second to be a male one..and she told me blatantly she is. Not the only one there are Many ladies who have done this in singapore .. As we get to know the sex of the foetus..

I found the matter disgusting..

I also have a couple of friends who have 2 daughters.. Who have been mocked at by their friends..I am not talking about rural india..

These are Non resident Indians where most of the ladies are college educated and are holding on to some jobs..

If this is their thinking how can we point fingers at mohini who has not stepped foot out of her village...

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

Rapunzale...Shweta...Hope...the actress who plays Maithili talks about the scene where she stops Samrat from telling his mother that he's responsible for their lack of children in this video, she starts talking about it from 3:47 onwards:

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRGNoLn_WfI[/YOUTUBE]

Originally posted by: SherryGS

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Wow, that is just horrible, your friend feeling the pressure to have a male child in that way. I have 2 daughters myself and I live in a very well developed country and still I hear absolutely stupid comments from people of all backgrounds about having a male child. I find it disgusting. I make no bones about saying so as well. 😃When I get asked if I am not going to have a boy (like I can determine this) I ask why I would want to do that? LOL. It sort of shocks people. hahaha. Stupid questions deserve stupid answers. hahah.

Anyway, its sad that we still live with nonsense like this in this day and age in all parts of the world.

As I said earlier, the only part of this storyline I can stomach is that it brings enlightenment to people of the issues facing so many couples and especially women.

Originally posted by: bluemoon255

unfortunately it is always the woman who gets blamed even if the problems lies in the husband. our society have this tendency to blame only women for whatever goes wrong. it is really sad that each time it is the women who become the victim.

coming to rr, I did not like how cvs are dealing with the situation. the words used by mohini while talking about mythili was beyond disgusting. I don't understand why cvs are using such dialogue. I mean there are so many woman who are not able to have children and hearing something like this will cause a lot of pain to them. I think cvs should have taken extra care while handling a sensitive issue like this.