Hi SJ . Perfect post ! My feeling exactly .initially I was attracted to this show because it is different . It was man's story . Angry man . Story of A misogynist . .Misogynists are not born, they are made.
I agree with the you that female touch is missing . Writes Reminds me of Sidmund Freud .
A frequent criticism of Freud is that he did not understand women and that his theory of personality is mostly a theory oriented toward men. There is a large measure of truth to this criticism, and Freud acknowledged that he lacked a complete understanding of the female psyche. Near the end of his life, he was still asking, "What does woman want?" .
POV is For TRP and to attract audience they are focusing on mythology . Rudra and Parvati .
Paro is firm believer of That everything happens for a reason . Following this principle she is suffering from sexual harassment( she was force to marry Rudra ) verbal and physical abuse and being treated like a doormat .
We grow up reading mythological stories but in modern age they don't help us infact they hurt us . But if they prefer to use mythology then Parvati also had kali avatar we don't see that with Paro .
Lots of women writers who have suffered pain and tragedy are able to write better for women. Paro believes she is destine for Rudra .she believes in commitment , an expression of love , to endure unkindness or cruelty to forgive and forget .Shivji never insulted Parvati or shoved her against the wall .or called her characterless . I really wanted to see Paro walking out of that haveli and say ****you !! That would have been prefect Paro
Rudra comes across very bipolar . In one second his hate turns into affection . . I cannot enjoy this romance it's very forced on me . No one is capable of loving man how pushes and shoves you ,Publicly humiliates you and throws you out of house unless you are heartless pathetic human being and Paro is not that person . We don't know who she is ! We don't know what she feels expect " Parvati supposed to be for Rudra "
PS . I read few of the fantastic responses . I intend to read all of the posts .
My special request to NB , I read that you see YHM . Please join us on YHM forum we need writers like you and SJ on that forum .
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Edited by Heema22 - 11 years ago