Friends, here is another interesting story regarding Radha Krishna love towards each other. --
आजु दोउ, झूलन महँ झगरे ।
जब ह्वै गयो श्रृंगार सबै विधि, झूलन कदम परे ।
तब प्यारी प्रीतम सोँ इमि कह, वचन गुमान भरे ।
'तुम झूलो या हम झूलेँ, निहं, दोउ इक संग सरे' ।
पिवु कह 'दोउ इक सँग झूलेँ या, रह दोउ सँग खरे'।
कह 'कृपालु' दोउ एकिहं तब का, आपुिहं आपु लरे ॥
(Prem Ras Madir)
Radha-Krishna's love for each other is very interesting. Both want to give pleasure to the other. So that is why the fight arises. when the two are standing in front of a Jhula and one says ‘first you’ and the other says ‘no, first you’. So a fight arised. So what is the fight in this Jhulan leela.---
The gopis, they made all kinds of arrangements, they decorated the Jhula on the bank of the Yamuna by a tree and they decorated it very nicely and once the arrangements were completed they invited Radha and Krishna to come there. So Radha Krishna reached there but then Radha thought that Shri Krishna gets pleasure in serving me so She said that today I will sit on the Jhula (swing) and Shyamsundar will push me. At the same moment Shri Krishna thought that Radha gets pleasure in my service so let me give Her my service today. So He said, today I will sit on the swing and Radha will push. So now the fight started.
Radha and Krishna, the both, were not willing to concede. So all the arrangements that had been made, the whole Leela stopped there. The gopis were trying to convince them to agree to the other person but neither of them is agreeing. Krishna is saying that 'I will sit on the swing and Radha will swing me' and Radha is saying,' no I will sit on the swing and Krishna will swing me'. So this fight has arisen for the sake of the happiness of the other.
There is an internal secret to it – the fights in the world are the cause of sorrow and misery and those fights in Golok have got Divine Ras, Divine Bliss in them, which is experienced in that fight – fighting for seva, so the things that we see in this world, anger, greed, envy – these defects which we see in worldly personalities; these defects exist even in Golok, they also have anger, they also have greed but the difference is that the defects in them are Divine. They are not for their own happiness. They are for the sake of Shri Krishna’s seva.
So those defects have got divine ras in them – Divine bliss. But the difference is internal. In the world, these defects are due to Maya and in Golok these defects and due to Yogmaya. So in the world, these defects result in unlimited sorrow and misery. And in Golok these same actions result in unlimited divine bliss. So the area of the two is different although the activity is the same.
So here this fight was going on for the sake of each other’s happiness and the gopis were trying to convince both but neither Radha nor Shri Krishna was listening. Then finally when there was no solution in sight then the gopis asked both of them, to sit on the swing and they'll push the swing – there is no need to fight. For that solution, Radha Krishna both laughed and they sat on the swing for having a blissful moment.