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Posted: 11 years ago
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After seeing d video, I really want Ahil to temporarily lose all his properties n live in property like Sanam's family had been living due to Tanveer. He had a horrible past but dat does not means he can be a jerk n insensitive. Why sud Sanam fall in love wid him just cuz he is hot n handsome? Luk at Rahat, d poor guy has lost his wife n unborn child. Does he behave like Ahil? Has he ever manhandled or insulted Haya? Ayaan has been butchered badly by Gul 4m ZoYaan track n his exit was forced due to VM leaving d show but he was a lot better than Asad n Ahil. Ayaan ran after n flirted wid girls but he never even touched or insulted them. He was his best wen he drank poisoned juice just to save Zoya 4m getn blamed even though knowing it was being poisoned by Razia n he did not even let her called a doctor. If Ayaan was not buthered by Gul then may be, I wud hv shipped for ZoYaan. Asad was never a gentleman which he always claimed to be.

Cumn to Ahil, I want Gul to come to her sense n show a suffereing man in poverty instead of showing all d female leads in dat way.My dream track is dat Ahil sud actually lose to Tanveer whp vl dump him like a dirt but he vl not be divorced to Sanam. But Sanam vl dump him cuz of wat all he had done to her including burning her dhaba, publicly humiliating her thru kissing pic in front of d media, making her worse than a slave. These crimes r unforgivable till there is proper redemption 4m Ahil. At dat time, I want d people 4m New York, London n Dubai to return wid all d riches. Then d situation vl be reversed wid Sanam hvng everything while Ahil roaming on d streets widout any money. Ahil sud roam on streets helplessly. He sud beg Sanam not to leave him but she sud only ignore him reminding him of how he had been a jerk all d time n never respected or cared for anyone. Then Sanam wud give him once to redeem himself by temporarily being her slave n live in her house where he vl be hated by everyone including her. Sanam sud also make him rebuild her dhaba wid his hardwork which he destroyed so easily. He sud learn d hardships pf Sanam's family of how they lost everything like him due to d same woman Tanveer. Sanam sud then accept him after a long time. Then both of them sud team 2gthr along wid others to bring down Tanveer n get Ahil back his property. These type of track vl surly bring more TRPs. Why only women suffer in all d serials due to poverty? Let men suffer too. Hope cvs show sumthn like dis instead of showing Sanam forgiving him just after a small sorry. Cvs sud better learn sumthn 4m female leads of Paanch, Main Na Bhoolungi n Ek Haseena Thi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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So the insult start. Good. Gul ka favourite track hain na. And i know what happened after this. Either ahil say a small sorry and sanam fell for him just like her mom fell for asad after getting insulted so much.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

<font size="2">After seeing d video, I really want Ahil to temporarily lose all his properties n live in property like Sanam's family had been living due to Tanveer. He had a horrible past but dat does not means he can be a jerk n insensitive. Why sud Sanam fall in love wid him just cuz he is hot n handsome? Luk at Rahat, d poor guy has lost his wife n unborn child. Does he behave like Ahil? Has he ever manhandled or insulted Haya? Ayaan has been butchered badly by Gul 4m ZoYaan track n his exit was forced due to VM leaving d show but he was a lot better than Asad n Ahil. Ayaan ran after n flirted wid girls but he never even touched or insulted them. He was his best wen he drank poisoned juice just to save Zoya 4m getn blamed even though knowing it was being poisoned by Razia n he did not even let her called a doctor. If Ayaan was not buthered by Gul then may be, I wud hv shipped for ZoYaan. Asad was never a gentleman which he always claimed to be.</font>


<font size="2">Cumn to Ahil, I want Gul to come to her sense n show a suffereing man in poverty instead of showing all d female leads in dat way.</font><font size="2">My dream track is dat Ahil sud actually lose to Tanveer whp vl dump him like a dirt but he vl not be divorced to Sanam. But Sanam vl dump him cuz of wat all he had done to her including burning her dhaba, publicly humiliating her thru kissing pic in front of d media, making her worse than a slave. These crimes r unforgivable till there is proper redemption 4m Ahil. At dat time, I want d people 4m New York, London n Dubai to return wid all d riches. Then d situation vl be reversed wid Sanam hvng everything while Ahil roaming on d streets widout any money.Ahil sud roam on streets helplessly. He sud beg Sanam not to leave him but she sud only ignore him reminding him of how he had been a jerk all d time n never respected or cared for anyone. Then Sanam wud give him once to redeem himself by temporarily being her slave n live in her house where he vl be hated by everyone including her. Sanam sud also make him rebuild her dhaba wid his hardwork which he destroyed so easily. He sud learn d hardships pf Sanam's family of how they lost everything like him due to d same woman Tanveer. Sanam sud then accept him after a long time. Then both of them sud team 2gthr along wid others to bring down Tanveer n get Ahil back his property. These type of track vl surly bring more TRPs. Why only women suffer in all d serials due to poverty? Let men suffer too. Hope cvs show sumthn like dis instead of showing Sanam forgiving him just after a small sorry. Cvs sud better learn sumthn 4m female leads of Paanch, Main Na Bhoolungi n Ek Haseena Thi.</font>


but unfortunately this is not going to happen. Instead sanam fell for the jerk. And forget about redemption
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: RAJLUVASYA

So the insult start. Good. Gul ka favourite track hain na. And i know what happened after this. Either ahil say a small sorry and sanam fell for him just like her mom fell for asad after getting insulted so much.


i can't tolerate this abuse insult track 🤢 u were so sure raj that gul will show aaahil abusing sanam but we all said that this time gul will not repeat this mistake but i fear she is not learning 😭

again a article billi wants to kill sanam after razia told she is asya daughter of course after getting aahil will money 🤢 how boring🤢

will billi instigate aahil to abuse sanam in future😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: typhoon


i can't tolerate this abuse insult track🤢 u were so sure raj that gul will show aaahil abusing sanam but we all said that this time gul will not repeat this mistake but i fear she is not learning😭

again a article billi wants to kill sanam after razia told she is asya daughter of course after getting aahil will money🤢 how boring🤢

will billi instigate aahil to abuse sanam in future😕

gul never change. I m sure the forum will support him and will said they enjoy this intense scene. Ahil is hot possessive, i love him etc etc. Well i dont care anymore now. I moved on now. Nowadays i even stop coming in this forum. And hopefully after some days able to quit it permanently.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

After seeing d video, I really want Ahil to temporarily lose all his properties n live in property like Sanam's family had been living due to Tanveer. He had a horrible past but dat does not means he can be a jerk n insensitive. Why sud Sanam fall in love wid him just cuz he is hot n handsome? Luk at Rahat, d poor guy has lost his wife n unborn child. Does he behave like Ahil? Has he ever manhandled or insulted Haya? Ayaan has been butchered badly by Gul 4m ZoYaan track n his exit was forced due to VM leaving d show but he was a lot better than Asad n Ahil. Ayaan ran after n flirted wid girls but he never even touched or insulted them. He was his best wen he drank poisoned juice just to save Zoya 4m getn blamed even though knowing it was being poisoned by Razia n he did not even let her called a doctor. If Ayaan was not buthered by Gul then may be, I wud hv shipped for ZoYaan. Asad was never a gentleman which he always claimed to be.


Cumn to Ahil, I want Gul to come to her sense n show a suffereing man in poverty instead of showing all d female leads in dat way.My dream track is dat Ahil sud actually lose to Tanveer whp vl dump him like a dirt but he vl not be divorced to Sanam. But Sanam vl dump him cuz of wat all he had done to her including burning her dhaba, publicly humiliating her thru kissing pic in front of d media, making her worse than a slave. These crimes r unforgivable till there is proper redemption 4m Ahil. At dat time, I want d people 4m New York, London n Dubai to return wid all d riches. Then d situation vl be reversed wid Sanam hvng everything while Ahil roaming on d streets widout any money. Ahil sud roam on streets helplessly. He sud beg Sanam not to leave him but she sud only ignore him reminding him of how he had been a jerk all d time n never respected or cared for anyone. Then Sanam wud give him once to redeem himself by temporarily being her slave n live in her house where he vl be hated by everyone including her. Sanam sud also make him rebuild her dhaba wid his hardwork which he destroyed so easily. He sud learn d hardships pf Sanam's family of how they lost everything like him due to d same woman Tanveer. Sanam sud then accept him after a long time. Then both of them sud team 2gthr along wid others to bring down Tanveer n get Ahil back his property. These type of track vl surly bring more TRPs. Why only women suffer in all d serials due to poverty? Let men suffer too. Hope cvs show sumthn like dis instead of showing Sanam forgiving him just after a small sorry. Cvs sud better learn sumthn 4m female leads of Paanch, Main Na Bhoolungi n Ek Haseena Thi.


Aahil and Rahat are different because Aahil had been screwed up from when he was a child. Tanveer did a huge number on him and gave him a twisted upbringing. It's Aahil's own good nature that doesn't make him exactly as Tanveer wants him to be--she said he could never love and is like a barren desert, just one example.

Why should Aahil lose his wealth and property to Tanveer when that is what she wants, and that is the victory of the woman who manipulated and twisted everything this way so she can get what she wants?

Aahil I agree should not have done what he did at the Dhabba. I made a topic on it. Sanam raised her hand to slap him, and he had the right to stop her. He did. She raised her other hand and slapped him. Here it does not justify what Gul had him do which was retaliate with threat of sexual intimidation. It should not have been done as it is very much problematic, even if he, unlike her earlier heroes, got a whack for doing so.

As for his burning the dhabba. That is exactly what Tanveer taught him, also it's combined with his cynical belief that everyone could be bought off with money. That's what he said, everyone has their price. And so, he burnt the dhabba and gave her money to cover the losses and perhaps more. That was the point behind it, and Sanam instead of taking it, burnt his car and threw his money back in his face.

What Aahil did with the media is wrong. And they showed us he was wrong and in that very same episode, they showed Tanveer's messed up life lessons to Aahil. And Sanam gave it back to him by telling him off and insulting his upbringing (which was right, but later she took back and insulted him and not his mother, but it doesn't take away from the point which was made in the episode and story itself).

He really didn't make her worse than a slave. Come on. He paid for the operation and actually seemed to have let it go regarding Sanam. He didn't seek her out to tell her he paid for the operation and that she is indebted to him. He went on with his activities and didn't bother with Sanam until she came back to thank Rehan. And when she decided to thank him, he reacted against her good words--as he himself does not/did not think of himself as a good person. This was demonstrated with Rehan too, where Rehan would insist to him he can say he's a bad person all he wants but Rehan knows he's a good person.

Aahil himself is cynical about money. Though yes, it's always good to have it and enjoy it. But he's had enough psychological damage done to him by Tanveer where he hasn't had peace or any real happiness for his whole life. He doesn't need to go through the lack of money, he will soon get the biggest shock and pain of his life when truth of Tanveer comes out.

All his jackassery comes more from what Tanveer has done to him, more so than money.

And no, let Aahil and Sanam keep their rightful money and not lose it (again in Sanam's case) to Tanveer.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: RAJLUVASYA

gul never change. I m sure the forum will support him and will said they enjoy this intense scene. Ahil is hot possessive, i love him etc etc. Well i dont care anymore now. I moved on now. Nowadays i even stop coming in this forum. And hopefully after some days able to quit it permanently.


Raj, come on to be fair. Plenty of us have spoken up against it. Till now we have not had a reason to call Aahil abusive. That's the truth. A story can be balanced and that was what it was till now. And all of Gul's heroes have been abusive and jackasses. And we have been happily proven wrong till now with Aahil. And whatever happens next week, we will no doubt react accordingly to that too.
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👏Once again very well said!!👏The scenario reminds me of Arnav and Khushi where Khushi fell for him before his redemption track began. Later, Arnav gave her many gifts and khushi just got carried away. There was never a scene where Arnav clarified before the entire family that he was the one who forced Khushi for the contract marriage while everyone kept punching khushi left right centre like she was some punching bag. in those days, many forum members used to defend Arnav in spite of his abusive behaviour just because they had the hots for him. I don't want the same to happen here. I honestly don't find anything lovable or romantic or justifiable when such chauvinistic behaviour is shown by the male lead. Therefore, I really wish Aahil sincerely apologizes instead of showering her with gifts and expecting her to forget the grudges. On many occasions, Aahil misbehaved with Rehan (when Rehan used to be concerned for his seizures due to the traumatic experiences of his childhood) and then later gifted him something so that he would forget. However, within a few days Aahil would revert to being a meannie to Rehan and then pat Rehan on the shoulder saying, "O Rehan miyaa!!"

Anyways, I just want Sanam's presence to create an impact such that he comes to realize that most of the time gifts and sugar-coated words can be outweighed by a sincere apology that comes straight from the heart. Sometimes you just have to mean what you say and say what you mean. 😛
@Bold: Totally agree. I second that. If Sanam being a cook in the mansion can stand up and advice a stranger like Nida about behavioural ethics, then why can't she stand up for herself and give Aahil the long awaited reality check?😃


Thank you. Exactly, understood Khushi was a character who forgave and forgot rather quickly however I always looked forward and hoped for the part where Arnav would tell everyone somewhere that he was the one who forced Khushi into the relationship and it was not the other way around. I agree just cause you have a traumatic past it hell doesnt give you an excuse to abuse a person, once fine twice okay three times UH NO!

See I understand Ahil didnt want anyone to see him such an vulnerable state hence his rude behavior but it should be amended later on. See im not saying that they need to be perfect for Khushi and Sanam were and are wrong in many places as well but they still dont deserve such behavior, taunts or blames.

Anyway back to Sanam, Shes his wife now and she is going to witness his vulnerable moments where Aahil is going to need another beside him for support like that night he had no clue as to what happened, instead of him waking up to her trying to get that dupatta outta his grasp why couldnt he wake up to him hugging real tight and sleeping on her lap?

TBH Nida insulted the shit outta Sanam so many times and even Sanam stood there shut, TBH i cant blame her but than again i can, LOL hypocritical much, she needs to stay with the job as its a need for living but than again why tolerate that BS, your a human too.

I wont mind anything That Aahil does right now if they are ALL reminded, and amended later on PROPERLY no loathing or just a sorry will work properly, real regret.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Raj-

well cvs are just trying to show how aahil is in reality. he always wants to show that he IS a player and a bad boy and can never be anything beyond that. it is only to sanam in person has he showed his real side. in front of hos friends he just lived up to his fake image. being a feminist myself i felt like giving aahil good and hope that he gives a good public apology and sanam doesn't tolerate such nonsense. aahil is one character we hate and love at the same time. good they made the transition to a good boy much more realistic. and i think it was ego that made him react than his doubts on rehan's intentions.

Good post!!


My issue is not that he is dancing with another girl.

1) Married or taken people can dance with others who are not their significant other. It's not always sexual or romantic. It happens often.

2) He may be dancing I think perhaps to make Sanam jealous or make a point to her. Here, I don't really care if he wants to dance with other girls since he and Sanam are not "really married" according to them. So if he wants to make some point to her, it's one thing.. But the issue is how he's humiliating Sanam in the process of doing so.

My topic is first regarding the BS blame that Rehan is getting for wiping Sanam's tears, because apparently he shouldn't be doing it since she's Aahil's wife. Ummm, Aahil insulted her in the first place.

Second my issue is his public insult and then how he is dancing with her forcefully and hurting her in the process--at least that's how it comes off in the segments.

If Aahil is jealous and reacts by pulling her into a dance. That's fine. But what's NOT fine, romantic, or enjoyable is to see her strung around like a doll and him hurting her. What is enjoyable about this? What was the point of that? They don't know any other way to show passion and intensity and jealousy? Is this all they know?

Next, he stops dancing with Sanam and goes on to dance with the other girl. I think perhaps this is because she keeps telling him to leave her, and so he does and he dances with the other girl. (Don't know, just assuming from one clip I saw.) But see, the problem is that Sanam had already been insulted in front of all of them by him. And the way he and the other girls are going about, they not even acknowledging Sanam's position as wife. Instead they seem to be belittling her and not deeming her worthy of the respect, thus humiliating her.

And yeah, None of this is enjoyable to watch. At all.

Intense scenes, emotional scenes. scenes where they both lash out at each other. All are fine. Even if we feel for the characters and want to cry and feel a sting in our hearts, what we watch is still enjoyable. But what was shown in the segments didn't seem enjoyable at all. Instead we saw humiliation of Sanam and Aahil acting physically with her. Do these writers and CVs know nothing else?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you. Exactly, understood Khushi was a character who forgave and forgot rather quickly however I always looked forward and hoped for the part where Arnav would tell everyone somewhere that he was the one who forced Khushi into the relationship and it was not the other way around. I agree just cause you have a traumatic past it hell doesnt give you an excuse to abuse a person, once fine twice okay three times UH NO!

See I understand Ahil didnt want anyone to see him such an vulnerable state hence his rude behavior but it should be amended later on. See im not saying that they need to be perfect for Khushi and Sanam were and are wrong in many places as well but they still dont deserve such behavior, taunts or blames.

Anyway back to Sanam, Shes his wife now and she is going to witness his vulnerable moments where Aahil is going to need another beside him for support like that night he had no clue as to what happened, instead of him waking up to her trying to get that dupatta outta his grasp why couldnt he wake up to him hugging real tight and sleeping on her lap?

TBH Nida insulted the shit outta Sanam so many times and even Sanam stood there shut, TBH i cant blame her but than again i can, LOL hypocritical much, she needs to stay with the job as its a need for living but than again why tolerate that BS, your a human too.

I wont mind anything That Aahil does right now if they are ALL reminded, and amended later on PROPERLY no loathing or just a sorry will work properly, real regret.




@bold I am fine with him not knowing what happened. Because their progress needs to be developed and not too quickly. But similar to what you said, the key point is that all of this is leading somewhere and things and issues are given the proper treatment and focus.

For instance. They shouldn't drop the panic attack thing just with that one instance. It should come back. One example is how this can happen two more times. Maybe by the second time Sanam figures out it's something to do with his father as she observes something earlier in the day and puts the pieces together when he gets the same nightmare again. Same thing happens, with him cradling himself in her lap. She is not so surprised. Morning comes she lays him back and he maybe grabs onto her dupatta. She lets her dupatta stay with him and he wakes with him draped in her dupatta.

Third time same thing happens. But this time he wakes up in her lap but before he can react she too wakes up and goes about the process of laying him down on his side, and giving him his dupatta. But this time he's actually awake (but not letting her know) and aware of what's happening.

And now, the pieces come together for him and he realizes/figures out what must have happened the previous two times. And he realizes why he's had peaceful sleep when normally he would not have.

Just an example out of my head. The point I'm trying to make is that there should be development and progress and not just one scene here and then move on to the next thing, forgetting about the other scene and not ever going back to it. They shouldn't just drop his panic attacks and his nightmares just like that. What happened that night need to be brought back in retrospect to both Aahil and Sanam.

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