If Aahil doesn't respect wife, why should Rehan respect the marriage? - Page 11

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

Wow 13 pages. I guess I missed the weekend twist in the tale.

Just now saw the section. Agree with most of your post but not all.

Agree

Rehaan wiping tears is ok, in fact more than ok.

This comes from an ardent Saahil fan.😉

Sanam is all alone there and she needs a friend.

Ahil getting J, yes, that's how a hubby who thinks he knows his wife's past would react.

So far so good.

Ahil Getting angry at Sanam is fine. Even if Ahil would've shouted at her, that wouldnt have been so bothering.

But insulting her is a big No.

Unlike her mom, who got riled up only when her clothes were questioned, and never gave back to her lover, I sincerely hope Sanam gives it back to Ahil. And I think she will, Sanam has not let us down till now.

Disagree

I don't agree that Rehaan should not respect the marriage. Both of them said QH with full knowledge of who/how the other person is. Am not saying marriage is for keeps, but it shouldn't be disregarded without at least giving it a try. Whether Sanam and AHil are good / bad for each other, is for them to decide, and till they come to a decision regarding their mrg, Rehaan cannot disrepsect the mrg. But yes he can wipe the tears and maybe make it clear to Ahil that He hasn't yet proposed to Sanam.

Edit - I think Ahil saw them together when he came with his friends and the dance and insults were post the wiping of tears.

Pre - wiping of tears, I'm sure Tanveer must've instigated AHil against Sanam. But that doesn't make his crime any less punishable.

Ahil needs a solid redemption track, before Sanam can/should develop any feelings for him.

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

@bold - Word.

How can Insult and force be romantic?

Originally posted by: deepa_lak

video link plz

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

Wow 13 pages. I guess I missed the weekend twist in the tale.

Just now saw the section. Agree with most of your post but not all.

Agree

Rehaan wiping tears is ok, in fact more than ok.

This comes from an ardent Saahil fan.😉

Sanam is all alone there and she needs a friend.

Ahil getting J, yes, that's how a hubby who thinks he knows his wife's past would react.

So far so good.

Ahil Getting angry at Sanam is fine. Even if Ahil would've shouted at her, that wouldnt have been so bothering.

But insulting her is a big No.

Unlike her mom, who got riled up only when her clothes were questioned, and never gave back to her lover, I sincerely hope Sanam gives it back to Ahil. And I think she will, Sanam has not let us down till now.

Disagree

I don't agree that Rehaan should not respect the marriage. Both of them said QH with full knowledge of who/how the other person is. Am not saying marriage is for keeps, but it shouldn't be disregarded without at least giving it a try. Whether Sanam and AHil are good / bad for each other, is for them to decide, and till they come to a decision regarding their mrg, Rehaan cannot disrepsect the mrg. But yes he can wipe the tears and maybe make it clear to Ahil that He hasn't yet proposed to Sanam.

Edit - I think Ahil saw them together when he came with his friends and the dance and insults were post the wiping of tears.

Pre - wiping of tears, I'm sure Tanveer must've instigated AHil against Sanam. But that doesn't make his crime any less punishable.

Ahil needs a solid redemption track, before Sanam can/should develop any feelings for him.

Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

Well, there was a serial called PKYEK which I started watching 4m Season after d male lead's elder bro dies. There was a character Panchi who was female lead's elder sister. She was heartbroken in love twice. I don't know how. Some may know d serial. D serial tuk a year leap after d Season 1. Dat female dated several guys for days n dumped them to break their hearts. She did dat to satisfy herself so dat no one else cud break her heart. But she was nice to d people she loved. All had problem wid wat she was doing. So, wat do u want to say abt her? A female stud or a s**t. If a guy flirts then he is called a stud n if a girl flirts then she is called a s**t. Why dis difference, guys? In my opinion, she was doing wrong. In d same way, Ahil was also doing wrong by flirting, dating, sleeping n dumping girls. But dat girl did not slept wid those guys or even kissed them. She had some decency. I think dat was d 1st time dat one of d female leads or parallel leads got to do such role even for a short period of time. Here, people justify Ahil being a playboy giving d reasons of him lukn for a distraction due to his past. Its rubbish to even think abt it. Wud Ahil hv married Sanam if was only like Panchi who dated guys n dumped them(widout kissing or sleeping wid them)? Wud u hv blamed Sanam then n called her bad?

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

About the disagree part, my topic title was in response to the view that Rehan was overstepping his boundaries in wiping Sanam's tears and not taking Sanam's married status into account. The very first reply I got gave that view I don't know if you read all 13 pages,😆 but I made that clear in a few posts.

When I made the post (granted it was while I was busy and I didn't watch everything) it seemed like Aahil insulted her first, she cries and Aahil sees her and Rehan, then the dance. But maybe not, I didn't watch all the vids still.

I am not protesting Aahil's jealously or possessiveness to seeing Rehan and Sanam. That is natural and I have no problems. I am protesting at his actions. And I was protesting some of the views on the forum regarding Rehan's wiping the tears.

Originally posted by: Tamara27

You'd be surprised what you will hear...

It his jealousy, because he loves her so much. It's his possessiveness because he can't stand to see another man near his wife, blah blah blah...

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

No, I didnt go thru 13 pages. Just now saw a few responses now. 😆

@bold - I'm no Rehaan lover, have never defended him, but in this instance (of wiping sanam's tearms not his tears though), I agree he was not wrong and neither was he overstepping.

There's one more in ssb today, Sanam and Rehaan holding hands, wishing Friendship day I guess.

Now, who will be blamed, I wonder?😆