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Originally posted by: KhatamKahani
My issue is not that he is dancing with another girl.1) Married or taken people can dance with others who are not their significant other. It's not always sexual or romantic. It happens often.2) He may be dancing I think perhaps to make Sanam jealous or make a point to her. Here, I don't really care if he wants to dance with other girls since he and Sanam are not "really married" according to them. So if he wants to make some point to her, it's one thing.. But the issue is how he's humiliating Sanam in the process of doing so.My topic is first regarding the BS blame that Rehan is getting for wiping Sanam's tears, because apparently he shouldn't be doing it since she's Aahil's wife. Ummm, Aahil insulted her in the first place.Second my issue is his public insult and then how he is dancing with her forcefully and hurting her in the process--at least that's how it comes off in the segments.If Aahil is jealous and reacts by pulling her into a dance. That's fine. But what's NOT fine, romantic, or enjoyable is to see her strung around like a doll and him hurting her. What is enjoyable about this? What was the point of that? They don't know any other way to show passion and intensity and jealousy? Is this all they know?Next, he stops dancing with Sanam and goes on to dance with the other girl. I think perhaps this is because she keeps telling him to leave her, and so he does and he dances with the other girl. (Don't know, just assuming from one clip I saw.) But see, the problem is that Sanam had already been insulted in front of all of them by him. And the way he and the other girls are going about, they not even acknowledging Sanam's position as wife. Instead they seem to be belittling her and not deeming her worthy of the respect, thus humiliating her.And yeah, None of this is enjoyable to watch. At all.Intense scenes, emotional scenes. scenes where they both lash out at each other. All are fine. Even if we feel for the characters and want to cry and feel a sting in our hearts, what we watch is still enjoyable. But what was shown in the segments didn't seem enjoyable at all. Instead we saw humiliation of Sanam and Aahil acting physically with her. Do these writers and CVs know nothing else?
Exactly where the problem lies, its about who did what or when its about whats wrong and right at this point. Aahil is mad at her fine, he wants to make her jealous fine, but forcibly dancing like that is just plain wrong, thats inhumane. No matter what, you are not allowed to do something a girl feels uncomfortable in be it in privacy or in public there is no excuse.
He wants her to hate him right, but why do it in a manner where it reaches to a point where the girls reputations is on ice, when one begins to play with ice thats when the real hell breaks loose. Making her uncomfortable, making a joke outta of her is WRONG and what makes it worse is that at the end Cvs is not going to go back to these scenes and Sanam is going to fall in love with him and no one is going to remember the past cruelties.
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