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Posted: 12 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Kiraan...he traded her off at his own convenience and brought her back at his own sweet will. Do you really think he is different than his dad? Did he think of Zoya's safety for once?


What convenience? Saving someone's life? Was he 'oh so happy' to see her getting married off to his brother? And please for the love of God, don't compare him with Rashid at all. He's not a coward. He admits his mistakes and owns upto them. Now I ask you the same question. How is Zoya any different? Did she think about him before running away from the marriage? & What safety? What was gunna happen to her in SM? Didn't he ask Ayaan to take care of her? Why would he if he didn't care for her? How many times has Zoya done the exact same things? Did she not choose to find her own father and decided to stay mum when she agreed to Tanveer's deal? Wasn't that trade? She took her own sweet time to realize what she was doing was wrong and she was lucky she got some proofs to expose Tanveer else she was definitely going through with that deal! Why didn't you say anything then? Why didn't you say Zoya was ready to trade him at her own convenience? Why didn't you say that she didn't think about his safety especially after knowing how dangerous Tanveer was?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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kiran good one .
now i actually see that zoya also traded asad to evil tanveer actually asad is very lucky that god help him not zoya .
but in zoyaan track asad help xoya to getout of thst situstion .
thank u kiran
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Posted: 12 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


What convenience? Saving someone's life? Was he 'oh so happy' to see her getting married off to his brother? And please for the love of God, don't compare him with Rashid at all. He's not a coward. He admits his mistakes and owns upto them. Now I ask you the same question. How is Zoya any different? Did she think about him before running away from the marriage? & What safety? What was gunna happen to her in SM? Didn't he ask Ayaan to take care of her? Why would he if he didn't care for her? How many times has Zoya done the exact same things? Did she not choose to find her own father and decided to stay mum when she agreed to Tanveer's deal? Wasn't that trade? She took her own sweet time to realize what she was doing was wrong and she was lucky she got some proofs to expose Tanveer else she was definitely going through with that deal! Why didn't you say anything then? Why didn't you say Zoya was ready to trade him at her own convenience? Why didn't you say that she didn't think about his safety especially after knowing how dangerous Tanveer was?


RED:👏 you spoke my mind👏 Exactly what I wanted to ask those who is calling him Rashid and selfish.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


What convenience? Saving someone's life? Was he 'oh so happy' to see her getting married off to his brother? And please for the love of God, don't compare him with Rashid at all. He's not a coward. He admits his mistakes and owns upto them. Now I ask you the same question. How is Zoya any different? Did she think about him before running away from the marriage? & What safety? What was gunna happen to her in SM? Didn't he ask Ayaan to take care of her? Why would he if he didn't care for her? How many times has Zoya done the exact same things? Did she not choose to find her own father and decided to stay mum when she agreed to Tanveer's deal? Wasn't that trade? She took her own sweet time to realize what she was doing was wrong and she was lucky she got some proofs to expose Tanveer else she was definitely going through with that deal! Why didn't you say anything then? Why didn't you say Zoya was ready to trade him at her own convenience? Why didn't you say that she didn't think about his safety especially after knowing how dangerous Tanveer was?

Zoya was not his in the first place to trade away. He definitely did not have the right to trade her or coerce her to make any decisions. But he did. If his sister was on suicide mission she should have been admitted in a psychiatric hospital under suicide watch...Zoya wasn't a sacrificial goat.
Kiraan, also, I am not the one who is emphasizing on the word trade here...it has been emphasized by the writers time and again through Zoya's dialogues. She was indeed traded. Zoya rejected Tanveer's proposal by declining to know her father's identity. Zoya has always chosen Asad. At the end that it all that counts. Zoya didn't go through it and Asad did.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Took Zoya back in his life without knowing the invalidity of the nikaah?...let me see...the same nikaah which he validated by asking her to sign the papers. Anyways, Zoya is legally married to Ayaan. She shouldn't even be staying in KV. She should be in a hotel or back in NYC until the divorce takes place.

To answer your question He traded Zoya for nikhat/ Ayaan.

these papers were all in all formality to what they confessed in the community wedding,,, whose reality even these duffers themselves don't know... it was not like she was waiting for him at wedding aisle, and then asad took her away,, bestowing her to his lil bro...
she spent good hours to brood her Ms. Bond traits,, then admitted she got in nikah by mistake,, n then at the place where she had to utilize her out-spoken skills, she suppressed them... then now when he is already broken what is really purpose to call em selfish... when she even doesn't know what really happened in the past...

She already confessed in Raajveer's track that she does trust easily,, which makes her to get into a trouble... and rashid is also a fair example...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


You're clearly taking out Zoya's mistake here and putting the entire blame on him. Who signed the papers? Who ran away from the wedding? He's at fault for forcing her but he was forced as well. Do not forget that. And don't tell me she did it for his sister. if she had her reasons for running away, he was manipulated and forced to save his dying sister's life. Everyone was as much at fault in that entire situation. Just because Cvs conveniently pushed the entire blame on Asad just to show how mahaan Zoya doesn't mean her mistakes get brushed off under the carpet. She was the one who signed the paper. So it was not like Asad abandoned her, never looked back at her, cheated on her, married some other woman and had kids with her. He was very much in touch with her and didn't wait for 17 years to get back to her. She's the only one understands him? Like what? Always telling him to see the other side? You know what understanding is? When Asad asked her why is she hell bent on looking for her abbu when he didn't even try to get back at her. She had totally different opinion and he let her be. He didn't question it or tried to change it but helped her find abbu. That's what understanding and support is! Do you think Zoya would have come back to Asad has she not found out Asad and Tanveer fiasco was Tanveer's plan? No she wouldn't have but Dilshad is going back to the man who cheated her abandoned her, never stood up for her, never looked for her. So I don't see how your comparison is even valid.

& He has every damn right to decide for Dilshad, question her choice. he's the one who sacrificed his childhood to give his mom and his sister happiness. he's the one stood up for her and with her through thick and thin. He's the one who worked his ass off to provide them with proper food and shelter. He\'s the one who stood up for his mom every time she was insulted thanks to the man she's leaving him for. SO why doesn't he have any right?

I don't disagree that he hasn't gone through pain and suffering and he has visualized his mother. But yet again it's Dilshad's decision to make. If Dilshad in the last 17 years haven't gotten over Rashid...if in all these 17 years undergoing the pain and suffering that she has gone hasn't been able be acquire any self respect , she will definitely will not now. Yes, we all have rights over her parents and children but at the end of the day it's their decision.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Zoya was not his in the first place to trade away. He definitely did not have the right to trade her or coerce her to make any decisions. But he did. If his sister was on suicide mission she should have been admitted in a psychiatric hospital under suicide watch...Zoya wasn't a sacrificial goat.

Kiraan, also, I am not the one who is emphasizing on the word trade here...it has been emphasized by the writers time and again through Zoya's dialogues. She was indeed traded. Zoya rejected Tanveer's proposal by declining to know her father's identity. Zoya has always chosen Asad. At the end that it all that counts. Zoya didn't go through it and Asad did.


If Zoya suspected Imran and Tanveer she should've told Asad about it. She would've had a partner in playing spy games when she tried to catch them. But she didnt. Its the same thing. Zoya chose to be the sacrificial goat.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


What convenience? Saving someone's life? Was he 'oh so happy' to see her getting married off to his brother? And please for the love of God, don't compare him with Rashid at all. He's not a coward. He admits his mistakes and owns upto them. Now I ask you the same question. How is Zoya any different? Did she think about him before running away from the marriage? & What safety? What was gunna happen to her in SM? Didn't he ask Ayaan to take care of her? Why would he if he didn't care for her? How many times has Zoya done the exact same things? Did she not choose to find her own father and decided to stay mum when she agreed to Tanveer's deal? Wasn't that trade? She took her own sweet time to realize what she was doing was wrong and she was lucky she got some proofs to expose Tanveer else she was definitely going through with that deal! Why didn't you say anything then? Why didn't you say Zoya was ready to trade him at her own convenience? Why didn't you say that she didn't think about his safety especially after knowing how dangerous Tanveer was?

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This is what is my point...what enchantment o pleasure he got, by getting zoya married to ayaan...and he was not even the one who made them get married,, they foolishly got married at the halls,, she was still trying to make her marriage work...like doing all rituals thing...
n what his own convenience?? this is what i can't get... & sweet will?? oh this is wow...he was all happy during zoyaan nikah n zoyaan wedding...i missed even watching his clear eyes,,, who were always lined by the tears...
and zoya is not different..she is just adaptive...she molds herself n her words according to scenario...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Zoya was not his in the first place to trade away. He definitely did not have the right to trade her or coerce her to make any decisions. But he did. If his sister was on suicide mission she should have been admitted in a psychiatric hospital under suicide watch...Zoya wasn't a sacrificial goat.

Kiraan, also, I am not the one who is emphasizing on the word trade here...it has been emphasized by the writers time and again through Zoya's dialogues. She was indeed traded. Zoya rejected Tanveer's proposal by declining to know her father's identity. Zoya has always chosen Asad. At the end that it all that counts. Zoya didn't go through it and Asad did.


NO! It's the thought that counts. If Asad traded her, Zoya was about to go through with that trade. It's just that Cvs had to show mahaan Zoya so Dilshaad saved her from trading Zoya. Her father was her priority not Asad. So many times Zoya has shown, Asad hasn't been her priority. Like right now, It's Dilshaad who's her priority not Asad's. So where did you get the though that Asad has always been her priority? No he hasn't been and so many times she has put him in trouble. Why didn't she think of his safety? What happened in mangalpur? They both were almost dead. It was Asad who saved her! But I always see you questioning Asad and not Zoya even once!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Zoya was not his in the first place to trade away. He definitely did not have the right to trade her or coerce her to make any decisions. But he did. If his sister was on suicide mission she should have been admitted in a psychiatric hospital under suicide watch...Zoya wasn't a sacrificial goat.

Kiraan, also, I am not the one who is emphasizing on the word trade here...it has been emphasized by the writers time and again through Zoya's dialogues. She was indeed traded. Zoya rejected Tanveer's proposal by declining to know her father's identity. Zoya has always chosen Asad. At the end that it all that counts. Zoya didn't go through it and Asad did.


And Asad wasn't Zoya's to consider trading either. Even if she didn't go through with it she still thought about it. And technically she did go through with it because the first time, she kept away from Asad and chose not to tell him anything so she could find out where her father was which in return Tanveer told her he was at the Mosque. During the Tanveer track, Asad was also being played as a sacrificial goat, and that too without his knowledge, but where was all this then? No one seemed to have a problem with it at that time. Because it was him. Shouldn't the same have applied to him? Zoya knew and was very aware of everything going on during this nikah track, Asad was not during the Tanveer track.
Also another thing we're forgetting, those papers were formality, just for record, but the Nikah already took place. The end. It was done, she was married to Ayaan. So if her staying in KV right now is wrong, her coming back then to Asad and going on with the wedding was probably worse. She still chose to keep him in the dark after all that.
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