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Posted: 11 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I don't disagree that he hasn't gone through pain and suffering and he has visualized his mother. But yet again it's Dilshad's decision to make. If Dilshad in the last 17 years haven't gotten over Rashid...if in all these 17 years undergoing the pain and suffering that she has gone hasn't been able be acquire any self respect , she will definitely will not now. Yes, we all have rights over her parents and children but at the end of the day it's their decision.


So didn't he leave it to Dilshaad to make her choice? But he has every right to be hurt, to question her and to not accept her choice and not to agree with it. if Zoya can't understand his pain, then she can at least keep her lectures to herself and stay out!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#72

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If Zoya suspected Imran and Tanveer she should've told Asad about it. She would've had a partner in playing spy games when she tried to catch them. But she didnt. Its the same thing. Zoya chose to be the sacrificial goat.

yes, absolutely, she should have confided in him and shouldn't have ran away from the wedding. It was absolutely wrong but she still didn't deserve to be treated the way she was.
Saying that I just wanted to mention that in no way am I supporting Dilshad's decision in this matter. I would personally never forgive a man like Rashid/Asad but I do believe in personal choice and here it is Dilshad's choice. Yes Asad wants to protect his mother but the fact is some people only learns after the ultimate betrayal and in this case Dilshad needs to see Rashid's true face in SM.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#73
hey girls dont debate we all know that
zoya is devi she is always right
asad is human he learn from his mistake .
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Posted: 11 years ago
#74
Zoya was not his in the first place to trade away. He definitely did not have the right to trade her or coerce her to make any decisions. But he did. If his sister was on suicide mission she should have been admitted in a psychiatric hospital under suicide watch...Zoya wasn't a sacrificial goat.
Kiraan, also, I am not the one who is emphasizing on the word trade here...it has been emphasized by the writers time and again through Zoya's dialogues. She was indeed traded. Zoya rejected Tanveer's proposal by declining to know her father's identity. Zoya has always chosen Asad. At the end that it all that counts. Zoya didn't go through it and Asad did.
@ bold,, i may add up zoya was on the verge of trading him...when she received the maternity reports of tannu... she went to his room to tell him...but soon tanveer's words rang in her brain..one step of yours would throw you away from your abu by 10 steps...and she stopped there...not telling him unles he himself got to know...

ps yes it was not his right to trade her,, but she could resist if she wanted to,, afterall she was not a sacrificial goat
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Posted: 11 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


NO! It's the thought that counts. If Asad traded her, Zoya was about to go through with that trade. It's just that Cvs had to show mahaan Zoya so Dilshaad saved her from trading Zoya. Her father was her priority not Asad. So many times Zoya has shown, Asad hasn't been her priority. Like right now, It's Dilshaad who's her priority not Asad's. So where did you get the though that Asad has always been her priority? No he hasn't been and so many times she has put him in trouble. Why didn't she think of his safety? What happened in mangalpur? They both were almost dead. It was Asad who saved her! But I always see you questioning Asad and not Zoya even once!

I understand your point but I will just try to explain the only way it works in the real world...a person cannot be arrested or convicted if he is suspected of committing a crime...the crime has to be done. Here, Zoya might have dwelt with the thought of knowing her dad's identity at the cost of losing Asad but she actually declined whereas Asad coerced Zoya I yo something that she never wanted to do. This is the way I see it. We all see things differently kirann and II believe in respecting everyone's opinion.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#76
By your yardstick nobody deserves anybody.
then is that the end of the world as we know it ?
Sadly we all are humans and life is not an exact science.
Humans err ... and will keep doing so...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rupunzale

yes, absolutely, she should have confided in him and shouldn't have ran away from the wedding. It was absolutely wrong but she still didn't deserve to be treated the way she was.

Saying that I just wanted to mention that in no way am I supporting Dilshad's decision in this matter. I would personally never forgive a man like Rashid/Asad but I do believe in personal choice and here it is Dilshad's choice. Yes Asad wants to protect his mother but the fact is some people only learns after the ultimate betrayal and in this case Dilshad needs to see Rashid's true face in SM.


Did Asad deserve to be raped by Tanveer for trusting her? Does Asad deserve to be abandoned by his mom after being abandoned by his dad? Did Asad deserve to be called sautela by Ayaan after doing everything for him? He's been everyone's last choice despite giving everything to them. He still goes through it. When was the last time life was fair? Zoya ain't the only one but you seem to be just bringing up Zoya's as if Asad's some monster here who treats her like shit when he clearly doesn't. Okay so here you said it's Dilshaad's choice and even though you don't agree with it, you very well understand it's her call, so when Zoya does the same and chooses Asad, you have totally different reactions.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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You know what I never blame the character because it's not their fault they are being portrayed like this but the people who are writing this, so if you wanna argue, argue and debate over how inconsistent they are in their writing and their non characters growth besides asad. Every time he is always blame for everything because simply they want it that way, as was said by the producer herself. He is the scape goat of QH. I have nothing more to add. Feel free to disagree but I just simply stated my opinion on the matter.
Edited by B3ll3... - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


So didn't he leave it to Dilshaad to make her choice? But he has every right to be hurt, to question her and to not accept her choice and not to agree with it. if Zoya can't understand his pain, then she can at least keep her lectures to herself and stay out!

yes, Zoya should definitely stay out of the situation from now on or should move out of the house since Dilshad is leaving and since Asad clearly doesn't consider her family enough to have an opinion.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: B3ll3...

You know what I never blame the character because it's not their fault they are being portrayed like this but the people who are writing this, so if you wanna argue, argue and debate over how inconsistent they are in their writing and their non characters growth besides asad. Every time he is always blame for everything because simply they want it that way, as was said by the producer herself. He is the scape goat of QH. I have nothing more to add. Feel free to disagree but I just simply stated my opinion on the matter.


Yes exactly my point. i dont get why ppl r busy in debating and playing the blame game. The writer is to be blamed. It seems as if its a child writer who cant write logically and instead of the lovers supporting each other alwaysss they r more involved in opposing each other😡Im so sorry but i have to say this. I cant stand either Asad or Zoya nowadays🤢🤢
Edited by sana_sugarbun - 11 years ago

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