Zoya is still not family...is she?

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Tanvi

@KulfiBai

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Posted: 11 years ago

#41

Oh come on how can you say he's selfish and unworthy of Zoya, after all they've been through together!

He is losing his mother to the man who abandoned them 17 years ago and never looked back - he's not going to be in the right frame of mind, so I did expect he'd say something like this. Zoya is still slightly immature and doesn't completely understand the pain they've endured over these years, she's only looking at the situation through her Phupi's eyes, at the moment.

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Andrea

@DreA

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Posted: 11 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Rupunzale
Zoya is the same woman who took back the very man who traded her at his own convenience. I hope that answers your question. I am afraid she is the only one who understands him and that is why she forgave him. It is not Asad's place to decide for Dilshad...he needs to accept Dilshad's decision irrespective of what he feels for Rashid. He is being extremely selfish here. Asad traded Zoya just the way Rashid abandoned Dilshad. Zoya took him back and so will Dilshad. It's all the same...men using women at their convenience and women having no self respect.

Why should he accept it just because? Why cant he question? He was the one who had to struggle with her to make ends meet. He's the one who witnessed all the pain she went through because of that man. He's to sit back quietly while she goes back into the same situation? No I dont think so. He doesnt want her to go through the same thing again. Rashit is not to be trusted.

Today tomorrow my mother comes to me and tells me she's leaving me alone to go back to my father that cause her a world of pain, You can bet I'll scream bloody murder before I let her go just like that.

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

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Posted: 11 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Ah well, sorry for interrupting but noone forced Zoya to shut up and accept Asad's decision..On the other hand, Dilshad had no other option when Rashid abandoned them 17 years back..There were kids involved too..There is a huge difference between the two scenarios..Asad has a right to question Dilshad cos she is his mom..His life got ruined 17 years back cos of her loser hubby..He lost out on his childhood cos of that same hubby..He has seen his mom suffer and bear all the humiliation..And he & his sister have suffered the most thanks to Rashid's mistake.,.Of course he'l question her..He just asked her to make a choice..She chose her hubby, so good for her😆

Zoya did have a choice and she said no. I don't understand why people forget to see the part where she was dragged in. I am afraid there is no difference in the nature of abandonment. Exactly, their life got ruined for the last 17 years and Dilshad still chose Rashid over him. She might not have him he didn't give her an ultimatum.

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shreya mehra

@shreya11mehra

Stunner

Posted: 11 years ago

#44

Stop bashing zoya plz..asad n zoya both r RITE AT THEIR OWN POV...

END OF DA DAY THY WANT DILSHAD HAPPINESS

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FarhaadkiMahi

@FarhaadkiMahi

Achiever

Posted: 11 years ago

#45

@rupu.
asad not traded zoya asad just solve the mistake which was done by zoya n ayaan .if asad support zoya n somthing happen to nikhat that time than ur devi zoya never forgive hetself in whole life.
dont compare asya n ayra to radilshi they r parent they responsbility towards their chidren .
here only rashid is at fault.

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LaVita-E-Bella

@LaVita-E-Bella

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#46

If Asad is extremely selfish and not worthy of Zoya, then Zoya is just as selfish and doesn't deserve Asad. If Zoya's importance is nonexistent then Asad's is just as much. If Asad asking Zoya to stay away from this matter is inappropriate, then Zoya butting into the matter when she doesn't understand the full depth it is also inappropriate. Inappropriate and insensitive. Instead of telling him to try to understand maybe she should give it a try herself first?

Zoya claims to love Asad so much right, yet is unable to stand by the man she loves so much. Is unable to even TRY to understand the man she just loves so much. Asad has understood her pain and her longing for her father every single step of the way. He helped her try to find her father even though he had disagreed with her on trying to find a man who abandoned her, and whether he would even be happy to see her. Yet he still helped her and understood her when she said she had to see him just once. So why can't Zoya do the same? Why can't she support him and understand that he wants nothing to do with the man who left him and his family in misery for 17 years.

It's okay for Zoya to get mad at Asad, say whatever she wants to him without regarding his feelings, but it's not okay for Asad to do the same. He just has to be wrong every single step of the way doesn't he? When Zoya will come to know about the woman who was in the factory being her mother, we'll see where her dialogues from today go. She'll expect everyone to support her and side with her, even her dear phuppi. She'll forget all about the love between phuppi and Rashid because for her he'll be the man who took away her mother, but he can just never be the man who took away Asad's father from him, his brother away from him, his whole childhood from him, and today his mother away from him. Nope, never, because it's always all about Zoya.

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-AppleOfMaEye-

@-AppleOfMaEye-

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: Rupunzale
Zoya is the same woman who took back the very man who traded her at his own convenience. I hope that answers your question. I am afraid she is the only one who understands him and that is why she forgave him. It is not Asad's place to decide for Dilshad...he needs to accept Dilshad's decision irrespective of what he feels for Rashid. He is being extremely selfish here. Asad traded Zoya just the way Rashid abandoned Dilshad. Zoya took him back and so will Dilshad. It's all the same...men using women at their convenience and women having no self respect.

why don't you say Asad is the Man who still took back zoya into his life,, cox uptill he doesn't know the reality and invalidity of nikah,, stll he did trust her like blinds...
and passing a word like trade is so so judgmental...sorry but it is,,, he traded? what he got in return.. i don't remember any enchantment or pleasure he got by trading her in...i don't remmeber any... but zoya got alot of Apno ka pyaar,, cute pillow fight with her v.own hubby cum friend...n not to forget a series of disgusting hugs...

Is she really only one who understands him well.. sorry to burst your bubble,,, she is the one who always put YES where Asad places a NO... oh its very easy to say that he should calmly admit dillu's decision...buh for 1 minute imagine a real case.. i wouldn't ever even spit on the face of a Man who would do the same with my Mom..Mom who sacrificed her each n every joy in last 17 years...

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Andrea

@DreA

Stunner

Posted: 11 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: Rupunzale
Zoya did have a choice and she said no. I don't understand why people forget to see the part where she was dragged in. I am afraid there is no difference in the nature of abandonment. Exactly, their life got ruined for the last 17 years and Dilshad still chose Rashid over him. She might not have him he didn't give her an ultimatum.

She didnt want to go the first time. And when she got there, she ran away. She accepted what Asad told her when he caught up with her. That means she chose to be in that situation. She didnt get dragged the second time. When she signed that certificate it was all her.

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-AppleOfMaEye-

@-AppleOfMaEye-

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo
When feminism becomes a liability rather than an asset it is no longer a good thing !

WORD👏👏👏

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: KulfiBai
Oh come on how can you say he's selfish and unworthy of Zoya, after all they've been through together!

He is losing his mother to the man who abandoned them 17 years ago and never looked back - he's not going to be in the right frame of mind, so I did expect he'd say something like this. Zoya is still slightly immature and doesn't completely understand the pain they've endured over these years, she's only looking at the situation through her Phupi's eyes, at the moment.

Hi Tanvi, I know they went through a lot of pain and Zoya might not understand what they went through but in no way should he shut her off in this place in their relationship. She has every right to have her opinion.

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