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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Chick: Najma has forgiven her Abbu because when Rashid left them she was too small to realise about what was going on on the other Hand Asad could understand everything.
He saw his mother's unbearable tears, he saw her sufferring with her life fighting her destiny for her children and for what? Because her Husband left her without any chioice.
And a person can forgive a man who hurted him (eg.Tanveer) but can never ever forget someone who messed up and cheated his/her loved ones. That bitterness stays in them forever.
And for Asad, Najma actually didn't have to struggle so much with father's absense she really have not understand the financial and emotional breakdown because Asad was always there to protect them.
So Najma forgiving him was justified.
But how can Asad when he saw his mother struggling for 17years without that Man. when he saw that man is happy with another women whereas his mother is sad.
He has a picture of his father that he left them for money.
Rashid never ever shared the Gudiya Factory ka raaz with Dilshad nor with Zoya then How would Asad forgive him.
For him his father is a cheater, a murderer and a greedy man.

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Posted: 11 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: chicksoup


It will set you free for sure...and you don't have to accept the other person back to feel that...just forgive for your sake- what Dilshad did first...

Accepting back is a big step...only true love can help you do that...and if that person is worth loving...despite his faults...

If it was a question of only Dilshad I would have agreed but taking this step what has it caused to
Asad's breakdown
Ayan leaving the house
Nikat and Najma sure will get taunting in her sasural
And Najma let's hope some respected family agrees to marry her
If he loved so much to dilshad then aren't 3babies with another women whom you don't love is a bit more😕😆
And Now being a Father should he take this step which will damage all their children's life who are not at fault also.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Soup, please see my edited post on page 4! 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ah, when did Najma forgive Abbu?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


It will set you free for sure...and you don't have to accept the other person back to feel that...just forgive for your sake- what Dilshad did first...

Accepting back is a big step...only true love can help you do that...and if that person is worth loving...despite his faults...


I am sure Dilshad will be getting hurt all over again

Razia will accuse her of attempt to murder

Forgiveness is good but sometimes things cannot be undone
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Ah, when did Najma forgive Abbu?



Najma doesn't have much feeling for Rashid good or bad
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I want to say something
I like chick souo's posts a lot and I agree with her 99 percent

Here also I agree with the forgiveness part it's only the method shiv puch I think is wrong
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Soup, please see my edited post on page 4! 😆


Ussi ka reply diya tha...😳 I almost missed your reply- caught the edited one.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nandiniraizaada



Najma doesn't have much feeling for Rashid good or bad


Najma forgave Rashid- that is why she went to invite him for her nikah...and was awarded the haq of the FIRST daughter by Nikhat.👏

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