REPLIES: YOUR ABBU CAME FOR YOU.... - Page 19

Sumi ,


Right now it is not about asad should forgive rashid or not ...dil has taken right decision or wrong ...rashid is right or wrong ...it is about d way rashid has chosen ...

I know radil is end game but it ll never happen unless until shireen agrees to it n dis is wat dil had said to rashid ...but wat did he do ...he emotionally manilulated shireen to accept it ...n increased d hatred of shireen by anoder ounce ...now my ques is ...is he capable of protecting dil's dignity n respect if razia or shireen get started ...wat ll it result into ...if anyhw dil is insulted in sm asad's hatred towards rashid ll increase...

n wat was d case wid vo tumhaari ammi hone se pehle meri biwi h ...i mean hw cud he dare to say dat ...ll he dare to say in front of gazia ki vo meri pehli biwi h n defend her ...lets c ...of he does so ...i ll cknsider my decision ...

sumi u know u r sooo convincing ...n i agree wid u all ...i agree dere is nth rashid can do to deserve forgiveness except if asad finds him worthy n asad ll do so only after whole truth is out nt bfr dat...

Originally posted by: RandomSquared

im sorry in my opinion rashid is and will always be a scumbag. deserves no sympathy for being a coward all these years and never caring for dilshad or his children.

i just hope asad lets dilshad go and just moves on with life. i believe dilshad has the right to do what she wants. its just unfortunate that she out of all people who should have the strongest bond with asad has become so insensitive to his pain bc of her desperation to go back to her two timing husband who is "sorry" and now wants to live with both his wives. True Love for sure. and rashid proves that he will never be a father...he will always be selfish and will never understand the gravity of what he did to his children all those years ago.

but we can agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Shruti,

Extreme...what Zoya tries to break in Asad..it is not a trait she admires in him...she wants him to be more open...he will not like it...will hate her for it...but slowly he has learned to see her POV too...he has SEEN HER SCAR AND HER LOVE FOR HER ABBU..now it still does not help him...A greater scar awaits...rather a FRESH WOUND AWAITS ZOYA...will her handling that teach Asad something?

Dilshad is convinced of Rashid's innocence..Zoya is too...

Asad will be convinced with some truths...the point is there is no excuse for his INFIDELITY...and DILSHAD HAS FORGIVEN THE INEXCUSABLE...so he will have to too...U can hate him and bash him for learning to accommodate and respect anothe POV..but that is all that is going to be there..

QH is not fathomable to peope who have extreme POVs- however right or wrong- like Shireen, Raziya or even Asad...it isfor moderate thinkers like Zoya and Dilshad...and unless Asad COMES DOWN to their level...he will be lost too..😉

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Shruti,

U R seeing Rashid through Asad's eyes...exactly like that. That is why you call him a manipulator...something Dilshad is not able t convince Asad against...liek I am not able to convince you after so many discussions...so it is futile for Dilshad to even try and tell Asad why she wants to pardon Rashid.

T<font color="#0000FF">ry to see him through Dilshad's and Zoya's eyes...</font><font color="#FF0000">because one day Asad will do just that.😉</font>

i agree wid d fact ...ki one day asad ll do so ...

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

Sumi ,


Right now it is not about asad should forgive rashid or not ...dil has taken right decision or wrong ...rashid is right or wrong ...it is about d way rashid has chosen ...

I know radil is end game but it ll never happen unless until shireen agrees to it n dis is wat dil had said to rashid ...but wat did he do ...he emotionally manilulated shireen to accept it ...n increased d hatred of shireen by anoder ounce ...now my ques is ...is he capable of protecting dil's dignity n respect if razia or shireen get started ...wat ll it result into ...if anyhw dil is insulted in sm asad's hatred towards rashid ll increase...

n wat was d case wid vo tumhaari ammi hone se pehle meri biwi h ...i mean hw cud he dare to say dat ...ll he dare to say in front of gazia ki vo meri pehli biwi h n defend her ...lets c ...of he does so ...i ll cknsider my decision ...

sumi u know u r sooo convincing ...n i agree wid u all ...i agree dere is nth rashid can do to deserve forgiveness except if asad finds him worthy n asad ll do so only after whole truth is out nt bfr dat...

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

In that case...I am glad I cannot fathom QH...I am extremely happy with my 'extreme' notions...I don't believe in compromise...and I will again repeat..a POV cannot be right or wrong😊

All I hope for is she handles Asad in an appropriate fashion...but she has no brain to mouth filter...so I will keep my hopes to a bare minimum

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Sona,

1. Shireen cannot be mean to Dilshad in front of Rashid, because she loves him and fears for hsi life...that is why she chooses her shauhar over her self respect.

2. Shireen will be convinced only over course of time..time whoch Rashid thinks he does not have. He wants to tak ethe first step and take it AD FAR AS HE CAN before he dies...he knows he will die soon.

3. Tumhari Ammi hone se ehle meri biwi thi...Frustrated after months of rejectin from Asad...that he had the courage to speak like that itself shows he has teh courage to face teh entire world now..Asad was the biggest block in hsi path...now he has learned to overcome that...

4. Whole truth: Notyhing si to going to change the fact that he was unfaithful to his wife, and neglected his kids...so he will have to forgive that biggest, ugliest truth.😉

i guess dis is d first tym sumi dat v r on almost different pages ...i guess it has nt happened bfr ...

i myself tend to believe in forgiving n forgetting coz i believe it is d only thing i can do for my peace n i really get sick of m angry wid sumone ...

n i agree wid watever u ve written above ...n more i agree wid wen u said asad's opinion ll change wen he ll see zoya handling her newly found scars (i guess it was in ur reply to sumone ) ...i couldnt agree more ...but till den asad ll remain d same ...he ll nt forgive rashid in any case but dat doesnt make him wrong ...dil trusts rashid wid everything even after all dis ...but asad he has leafn nt to trust his father since childhood ...n hez doing dat only ...

i dont say dil is rong ...even if shez she has all rights to b rong ...but asad is also right considering previous encounters ...n i guess she ll cum back herself once she realizes ki ayaan left house only coz she was cuming ...n asad ll get one more reason to hate rashid .

Ahh...some gem of excerpts you have put forth here Soup!

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Shruti,

That is why you fail to see the beauty in QH...just like Shireen fails to understand Dilshad . One day she will learn to put her extremism aside...and learn to love her and respect her like a sister...

"People where you live," the little prince said, "grow five thousand roses in one garden... yet they don't find what they're looking for...

They don't find it," I answered.

And yet what they're looking for could be found in a single rose, or a little water..."

Of course," I answered.

And the little prince added, "But eyes are blind. You have to look with the heart."
Antoine de Saint-Exupry, The Little Prince

sumi u r having a real tough time 🤣