Why do we turn to dark?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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All of us want to be happy and to be with our loved ones but some times fate have its own way to throw curve balls at us, how we handle the curve ball makes all the difference to you and people around you. It was heart breaking to see Asad's shattered emotions when Dilshad let him know her decision to go with Rashid in a very crudest and unbecoming style.
Why did Dilshad choose to leave Asad for Rashid? Is it really because of her love and longing for him or she didn't want to hold their past against him as she realized he is emotionally vulnerable and need her emotional support? Dilshad is not going to have it any easy at SM, therefore, it is more than just desperation to be with Rashid. While I am not here to discuss inherent reasons or judge Dilshads's decision, I seriously felt that she could have communicated to Asad in a better way on why she is taking this drastic step than abruptly blurting out her decision in an angry tone. Asad may not have approved her going to SM but at least would have not felt this betrayed if only Dilshad took time and spoke to Asad about it. This lack of communication may be perceived as betrayal and it could emotionally destroy Asad and push him to the dark side of the spectrum. Human relations are delicate and complex but a genuine open discussion can avert Tsunami of negative emotions. Hope Zoya will be able to give right support in consoling Asad in his most difficult time.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I completely agree.
Her decision may not be entirely wrong but the way it was communicated to Asad was incredibly insensitive and cruel.
Today Dilshad was so desperate to defend Rashid and go with him that she failed to offer even an iota of understanding to his son's emotions. Never expected this of the woman I considered the best TV mom ever!
Now there's no character in QH which has not been butchered, None!

Edited by -KSGsmitten- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm not a mother but I can say I'd honestly put my children before my husband. Especially if my bas***d husband cheated on me, left, came back, then left again to live with the other woman and then 17 years later has the audacity to want to part me from the son who stuck with me through thick and thin and chose me when his asshole father gave him the choice to come live a life of luxury with him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I just cannot believe the Dilshad we know can become the Dilshad she is today! Doesnt she realise how she is destroying her son?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think Asad will go dark after this. I mean his trust has been shattered completely and he is now living through the same trauma he faced as a child. It's so sad that his parents don't seem to understand or care about his pain. More than Dilshad's decision, its just the way she said it. I'm leaving you for your scumbag father, you just need to accept it...
I hope Asad says im emancipating myself from all of you crazy people, and you just have to accept it

But honestly, I'm totally game for a darker Asad now. I just hope Zoya understands his pain and I hope he doesn't take his anger out on her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dilshad is the only one to be blamed here...I am not going to comment on the spineless moron Rashid because if Dilshad would have declined his proposal he wouldn't have the audacity to come and open his disgusting and pathetic mouth in front of Asad. Dilshad and only Dilsahd is to be blamed here entirely. Yes, she has every right to live her life but she is also aware of the turmoil Asad went through since his childhood...Everything has a perfect tme and place and the way she chose to disclose her decision was not the right time or place. She should have given Asad the time to digest such a decision. Asad a person who was abandoned by his father at a very young age already has psychological issues ...but Dilshad's decision will not go well with him. He will,see this as the ultimate betrayal and I wouldn't be surprised him he completely turns negative...it is very plausible and of-course zoya has to handle this situation very carefully.
PS: Dilshad seemed very desperate and it was extremely disgusting. I really liked her character.
Also, this Qureshi drama is getting unbearable.
Edited by Rupunzale - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree! Hope Zoya Supports Him !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well, i saw parts of the epi cos one of my friends was gushing about it and am just copy pasting the discussion i had with her😆
How can a mother even think of abandoning her son for a hubby who deserted her years ago?😕 I mean i understand she loves Rashid with all his flaws and i also get that she wants to live with him..But what i don get is how she is so ready to abandon her son..The least she could have done is try to explain the situation and tell him that she wants to live with her hubby..Not throw the decision on his face and ask him to deal with it..Thats insensitive as hell😲 Honestly, even at this stage, if Dilshad wants Asad to choose between her and Zoya, he'l choose his ammi without a second thought..He'l even give up on Ayaan for his mom's sake😆 Ar one point, i almost thought he has borderline Oedipus complex issues😆 He is that obsessed about his ammi.. And this is what he gets in return?I really really hope he falls sick 😆 And Najma gets back, sees her bhaijaan's state and goes & blasts Dilshad😆😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -KSGsmitten-

I completely agree.

Her decision may not be entirely wrong but the way it was communicated to Asad was incredibly insensitive and cruel.
Today Dilshad was so desperate to defend Rashid and go with him that she failed to offer even an iota of understanding to his son's emotions. Never expected this of the woman I considered the best TV mom ever!
Now there's no character in QH which has not been butchered, None!


Dilshad was insensitive to the core, she will realize her mistake once she steps in to SM, for sure Razia and Shireen will make direct and indirect comments on Dilshad to insult her, lets see if Rashid have guts to stands up against Razia and Shireen to protect Dishad's dignity.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MagicalRed

Agree! Hope Zoya Supports Him !


Zoya is the only support he is left with at the moment.

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