Why do we turn to dark? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Dilshad is the only one to be blamed here...I am not going to comment on the spineless moron Rashid because if Dilshad would have declined his proposal he wouldn't have the audacity to come and open his disgusting and pathetic mouth in front of Asad. Dilshad and only Dilsahd is to be blamed here entirely. Yes, she has every right to live her life but she is also aware of the turmoil Asad went through since his childhood...Everything has a perfect tme and place and the way she chose to disclose her decision was not the right time or place. She should have given Asad the time to digest such a decision. Asad a person who was abandoned by his father at a very young age already has psychological issues ...but Dilshad's decision will not go well with him. He will,see this as the ultimate betrayal and I wouldn't be surprised him he completely turns negative...it is very plausible and of-course zoya has to handle this situation very carefully.

PS: Dilshad seemed very desperate and it was extremely disgusting. I really liked her character.

Also, this Qureshi drama is getting unbearable.

Originally posted by: KulfiBai

I'm not a mother but I can say I'd honestly put my children before my husband. Especially if my bas***d husband cheated on me, left, came back, then left again to live with the other woman and then 17 years later has the audacity to want to part me from the son who stuck with me through thick and thin and chose me when his asshole father gave him the choice to come live a life of luxury with him.

Originally posted by: KulfiBai

I'm not a mother but I can say I'd honestly put my children before my husband. Especially if my bas***d husband cheated on me, left, came back, then left again to live with the other woman and then 17 years later has the audacity to want to part me from the son who stuck with me through thick and thin and chose me when his asshole father gave him the choice to come live a life of luxury with him.

Originally posted by: Go4welkin

All of us want to be happy and to be with our loved ones but some times fate have its own way to throw curve balls at us, how we handle the curve ball makes all the difference to you and people around you. It was heart breaking to see Asad's shattered emotions when Dilshad let him know her decision to go with Rashid in a very crudest and unbecoming style.

Why did Dilshad choose to leave Asad for Rashid? Is it really because of her love and longing for him or she didn't want to hold their past against him as she realized he is emotionally vulnerable and need her emotional support? Dilshad is not going to have it any easy at SM, therefore, it is more than just desperation to be with Rashid. While I am not here to discuss inherent reasons or judge Dilshads's decision, I seriously felt that she could have communicated to Asad in a better way on why she is taking this drastic step than abruptly blurting out her decision in an angry tone. Asad may not have approved her going to SM but at least would have not felt this betrayed if only Dilshad took time and spoke to Asad about it. This lack of communication may be perceived as betrayal and it could emotionally destroy Asad and push him to the dark side of the spectrum. Human relations are delicate and complex but a genuine open discussion can avert Tsunami of negative emotions. Hope Zoya will be able to give right support in consoling Asad in his most difficult time.

Originally posted by: Oldestfan

And this is the crux of the matter. In almost all debates on this fierce forum, the arguments are centered on a single point of contention. But real life is never about single points, its about multiple points and this is one of them!

Mohabbat ki jeet, does not mean sochna band karein.

Lets say rashid came out and said... I have been blackmailed and cheated these 17 years. I thought I had killed somebody. But it turns out i did mot. I want my life back. In that case, not only would he want dilshad back, he would want his whole family back. He would want his son back as well!

His motivation i feel stems from the drame of asad fighting for his love, fighting against that insidious badi bi and her crap about mukaddar, laying his heart at zoyas feet and zoya picking it up and holding it close to her as she also faced down siddiqui farm and walked out with her man. He thinks he can do what his son did. Its one dimensional thinking at its worst!

A man and a woman are free to follow their hearts. But it does not mean what they do is justifiable. No one is an island. Furthermore, the only thing that is constant is change. Things have changed. If rashid wants to atone for his mistakes, then this is not the way.

Exactly what is the purpose of this track? Its not bro clash, as Ayaan leaves. Its not about Zoyas divorce as that has been effectively put off. Its not about razias pardaphash as haider sheikh is all set to make his entrance. I am not clear at all about this. There are a million other positive, dramatic ways to go about the reunification process. Not this rubibish, where the final good character of kv gets put on the chopping block.

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

A very mature post, but QH lacks maturity and actually lots of people do to. Very good post dear👏👏

Originally posted by: Go4welkin

All of us want to be happy and to be with our loved ones but some times fate have its own way to throw curve balls at us, how we handle the curve ball makes all the difference to you and people around you. It was heart breaking to see Asad's shattered emotions when Dilshad let him know her decision to go with Rashid in a very crudest and unbecoming style.

Why did Dilshad choose to leave Asad for Rashid? Is it really because of her love and longing for him or she didn't want to hold their past against him as she realized he is emotionally vulnerable and need her emotional support? Dilshad is not going to have it any easy at SM, therefore, it is more than just desperation to be with Rashid. While I am not here to discuss inherent reasons or judge Dilshads's decision, I seriously felt that she could have communicated to Asad in a better way on why she is taking this drastic step than abruptly blurting out her decision in an angry tone. Asad may not have approved her going to SM but at least would have not felt this betrayed if only Dilshad took time and spoke to Asad about it. This lack of communication may be perceived as betrayal and it could emotionally destroy Asad and push him to the dark side of the spectrum. Human relations are delicate and complex but a genuine open discussion can avert Tsunami of negative emotions. Hope Zoya will be able to give right support in consoling Asad in his most difficult time.

Originally posted by: ranz

I just cannot believe the Dilshad we know can become the Dilshad she is today! Doesnt she realise how she is destroying her son?

Originally posted by: ChamakChallo91

Awesome post!! :)