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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


I have read your post completely Sowmy...but why don't u understand what I am trying to say...Imraan Tanveer could be the problem...but at least she should have let them know Tanveer was around...Imraan involved hai yeh bataane ki zaroorat kya hai...she has doubts on him right? She can keep it to herself...just say na maine Tanveer ko garden mein dekha...bina bataye Imraan ko investigate karne ghar ke bahar jaati hai..lekin ek safed jhooth nahi bol sakti...taaki saanp bhi mar jaye aur lathi bhi na toote...uske batane ke baad agar Asad kehta ki tumko galat fahmi hui hai aur tumne kisi aur ko dekha hoga...toh main bolti kya pagal aadmi hai...but for a girl as smart as Zoya, the way she interrogated Immy about his lost phone...yeh kahani gadhna koi badi baat nahi thi

I understand what ur trying to say but at tht point she was more curious about imraan-tanveer somuch tht maybe she thought she will know it full and reveal it infront of all the family!
and im also telling tht this has happnd for a reason!
this is all about asya relationship only!
first i was very angry on asad as to why he didn't ask her and all tht but slowly i understood his pov!
he thinks of her and himself as one and tht if she made a mistake tht too a very big one and in his eyes because of her and ayaan tht nikhat's life is at stake!
now ayaan is ready to redeem himself by doing whatever he asked his bhaijaan but zoya was not ready!
she is all confused! and he will not let anybody blame her for anything and also knows tht he cant leave her and tht they r meant to be together!
so what shld he do at tht point so tht no one will point fingers at them?
make her do this then after everyhting sets right atleast tht family will have no obligations against them what so ever!
after all when a person has done a mistake they have to bear the consequences of it also!
this is what is going in asad's mind!
now the fact remains tht he shld know tht she got herself involved in all this just for him and his family only!
what will he do after he knows this truth?
how will their relationship change?
can he prioritise anyone else other than her next time?
knowing how idiotically selfless and hopeless in love with him she is?


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

On Dilshad :

Sm mansion is the place that took her happiness and now her sons .
She knows that it's Asad's fault and was ready to go back that night to SM , which would have been heart rending ant gut wrenching for her , but still she was ready , then Asad told her that she is Ayaan's wife. Dilshad is a mature , self respecting female. She knows that AsYa and Ayaan are planning for this to end soon and she is hoping for that day to come and eagerly waiting for it.
Again , right now any one's interference changes the narrative.

But the evry next day she said it wasn't asad's fault and he should stop beating himself about it and it was all desting when she should ahve said ki you made a big mistake but you need to correct it now instead of moping...this was inconsistency in her character...
If i was married even in my mom's rival house and i had to stay there only for 7 days but i was in pain no one in this worl could stop my mother from visiting me...does a mother lose a right to visit her daughter when she gets married?and for a mother nothing is above her child...
and even if she coudln't go there which still made no sense to me what was stopping her from calling zoya?😕
Dilshad as a mother failed IMO big time
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

thanks Anu...I lost her when I was 6...and recently I lost my brother and SIL in an accident. As I said life is very real and unpredictable. My husband and I have adopted my two little nephews. We have a daughter too. We are all trying to settle down. I did feel what would be like to have my mom around.


Sorry to hear of your lost dear. We all some how have a tale to tell. May God bless you and your hubby for taking in your nephews and may they turn out to be wonderful sons to both of you.

You brought tears to me. 😭
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


Sorry about your loss dear...life will find a way Priyanka😊

thanks Shruti...yes, my husband really supports me...I guess turned lucky.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

] thanks Anu...I lost her when I was 6...and recently I lost my brother and SIL in an accident. As I said life is very real and unpredictable. My husband and I have adopted my two little nephews. We have a daughter too. We are all trying to settle down. I did feel what would be like to have my mom around.

sorry about you loss pri...i just hope the two kids are able to adjust well now
yes mom's are the biggest support in your life...everyone can leave you but not your mother
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


It is amounting to infidelity now..for many..Zoya has never backed out of a problem...and never shied away from taking responsibility...if she thought she was married...she would have stepped up...a married woman needs to stay in hubby's house...chalo I assume Zoya refuses...she is a married woman...cannot stay in KV anymore...she has to leave coz living with your ex amounts to infidelity...where will she go...when the initial shock dies down...she realizes she cannot stay at KV..if she cannot save her life now...save Nik's at least..and then our beloved Zoe lands in SM...that realization would have hit her in a couple of hours that she was married..believe me..and I assure you that this drama would have been lapped up...abhi jo ho raha hai that is pukeworthy

See shruti there comes the classes vs masses thing. Catering to both , and also we as audience know everything , but these characters are not privy to all the information , so they behave differently.
I believe that when we start hating something even their breathing and eating and walking irks us.
I will still maintain that the whole is greater than sum of its parts and am maybe the only one who feels that Asad's character not butchered by this but was butchered by Salman Khan dance and cheesy romance , so far that is the only out of character thing he did .
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu


Sorry to hear of your lost dear. We all some how have a tale to tell. May God bless you and your hubby for taking in your nephews and may they turn out to be wonderful sons to both of you.

You brought tears to me. 😭

no Sheila...please don't cry...yes they are our sons...I love them so much.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

I am so sorry for your loss pri.

Circumstances define who we are. Kudos to you,.

thanks amber...it was just me my brother and dad. But, I still cannot complain because life has given me a lot too.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

sorry about you loss pri...i just hope the two kids are able to adjust well now
yes mom's are the biggest support in your life...everyone can leave you but not your mother

yes, they are adjusting. They are very young 5 and 2...only. It's hard because they miss their parents.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

yes, they are adjusting. They are very young 5 and 2...only. It's hard because they miss their parents.

hmm but i guess once they get used to this things will become a little easier...had they been in their teens it woul have been very difficul to handle them

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