What a self-serving ass! - Page 45

Originally posted by: VashH

Asad's Character ???.
First of all marriage or no - marriage his decision to drag her literally drag her out like that was totally wrong ..wrong ..wrong ..
No justification for that . I don't care what the circumstances were . Come - on !! This is the woman you claim to love and you will handle her in this manner . Please !! Everyone hear me out . Zoya's parents whoever they are did not walk on four feet so therefore she is not an animal .Who died and gave him that privilege over her ? Turned a deaf ear to her plead. !!
Not once - did he ask her to give an acceptance of any decisions made on her behalf by him as per Ayaan's Bold and shameless request . As for Ayaan I have no sympathy for him for that (and none for Asad for accepting) Ayaan has no shame what so ever to make such a request . Was he sitting on his brain . This is what he calls protecting family honor !!!. Obviously they don't know the meaning of the phrase . As for Nikat I always thought she cared for family but proved otherwise to be a very selfish girl . I don't pity her now . Sorry to say. Every move she made was down right selfish selfish .. selfish .. no need to explain her double standard or also address where the residents of the SM failed as parents .Anyway Asad admitted he was wrong after the fact .. a little to late . As for Ayaan not explaining the trade plan to the family anyone would assume Hassena lives in the mansion will annul her son's marriage if she finds out they are not a couple . Everyone knows they are not . She was moments away from her marriage to Asad .As for Asad he is paying dearly for his mistake and Ayaan it may later reveal he does not love his brother as much as he wants to be him and posses everything he owns .As for Zoya all the wrong decisions she made in life does not start to even out to the decisions the two brothers made here. Please don't get me wrong ..this is only my personal opinion based on the decision made by Asad in the whole fiasco .. It has nothing to do with the continuation of the confusing storyline

http://youtu.be/_UgxAP2g1bA

Originally posted by: VashH

Asad's Character ???.
First of all marriage or no - marriage his decision to drag her literally drag her out like that was totally wrong ..wrong ..wrong ..
No justification for that . I don't care what the circumstances were . Come - on !! This is the woman you claim to love and you will handle her in this manner . Please !! Everyone hear me out . Zoya's parents whoever they are did not walk on four feet so therefore she is not an animal .Who died and gave him that privilege over her ? Turned a deaf ear to her plead. !!
Not once - did he ask her to give an acceptance of any decisions made on her behalf by him as per Ayaan's Bold and shameless request . As for Ayaan I have no sympathy for him for that (and none for Asad for accepting) Ayaan has no shame what so ever to make such a request . Was he sitting on his brain . This is what he calls protecting family honor !!!. Obviously they don't know the meaning of the phrase . As for Nikat I always thought she cared for family but proved otherwise to be a very selfish girl . I don't pity her now . Sorry to say. Every move she made was down right selfish selfish .. selfish .. no need to explain her double standard or also address where the residents of the SM failed as parents .Anyway Asad admitted he was wrong after the fact .. a little to late . As for Ayaan not explaining the trade plan to the family anyone would assume Hassena lives in the mansion will annul her son's marriage if she finds out they are not a couple . Everyone knows they are not . She was moments away from her marriage to Asad .As for Asad he is paying dearly for his mistake and Ayaan it may later reveal he does not love his brother as much as he wants to be him and posses everything he owns .As for Zoya all the wrong decisions she made in life does not start to even out to the decisions the two brothers made here. Please don't get me wrong ..this is only my personal opinion based on the decision made by Asad in the whole fiasco .. It has nothing to do with the continuation of the confusing storyline

http://youtu.be/_UgxAP2g1bA

Just WORD!!!!

WORD to everything you just said! 👏

Originally posted by: VashH

Asad's Character ???.
First of all marriage or no - marriage his decision to drag her literally drag her out like that was totally wrong ..wrong ..wrong ..
No justification for that . I don't care what the circumstances were . Come - on !! This is the woman you claim to love and you will handle her in this manner . Please !! Everyone hear me out . Zoya's parents whoever they are did not walk on four feet so therefore she is not an animal .Who died and gave him that privilege over her ? Turned a deaf ear to her plead. !!
Not once - did he ask her to give an acceptance of any decisions made on her behalf by him as per Ayaan's Bold and shameless request . As for Ayaan I have no sympathy for him for that (and none for Asad for accepting) Ayaan has no shame what so ever to make such a request . Was he sitting on his brain . This is what he calls protecting family honor !!!. Obviously they don't know the meaning of the phrase . As for Nikat I always thought she cared for family but proved otherwise to be a very selfish girl . I don't pity her now . Sorry to say. Every move she made was down right selfish selfish .. selfish .. no need to explain her double standard or also address where the residents of the SM failed as parents .Anyway Asad admitted he was wrong after the fact .. a little to late . As for Ayaan not explaining the trade plan to the family anyone would assume Hassena lives in the mansion will annul her son's marriage if she finds out they are not a couple . Everyone knows they are not . She was moments away from her marriage to Asad .As for Asad he is paying dearly for his mistake and Ayaan it may later reveal he does not love his brother as much as he wants to be him and posses everything he owns .As for Zoya all the wrong decisions she made in life does not start to even out to the decisions the two brothers made here. Please don't get me wrong ..this is only my personal opinion based on the decision made by Asad in the whole fiasco .. It has nothing to do with the continuation of the confusing storyline

http://youtu.be/_UgxAP2g1bA

Word to everything Vash!👏...and that is exactly why Asya is dead and buried for me...I cannot accept them as a couple anymore...it actually disgusts me to see them in one screen together. A couple no matter what cannot go back to normalcy after what occurred. Asya is dead and zoyaan will not happen. It's really absurd to even comprehend that one fine day Asad is going to get back his balls and go marching and claim her. It's utter nonsense the prospect of him claiming her...man, yet again she is not your property...let her make that decision herself. If she is hesitant then you guys seriously have a problematic relationship...infact there isn't any relationship at all.

^ Agree..totally. .but their lame attempts to victimise Zoya at this moment are having a reverse effect. .at least on me...ab woh bechari nahi...bevakoof hai...she stopped being a bechari after her few outbursts. ..Asad may have been a real moron...but if she would even have little sense she would stay out of Ayaan's way. .only for Humeira's sake ...the character is not worth the sacrifice of so many others especially those who did not have any choice in this matter

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

^ Agree..totally. .but their lame attempts to victimise Zoya at this moment are having a reverse effect. .at least on me...ab woh bechari nahi...bevakoof hai...she stopped being a bechari after her few outbursts. ..Asad may have been a real moron...but if she would even have little sense she would stay out of Ayaan's way. .only for Humeira's sake ...the character is not worth the sacrifice of so many others especially those who did not have any choice in this matter

But Shruti...I don't think they are trying to victimize Zoya here...on the contrary someone like me who have always supported Zoya feels not an ounce of sympathy for her...damn she has no self respect and cannot tolerate women like her who has none. But saying that I do feel that Zoya is not obligated to Humeira for anything...she is not falling for Ayaan or planning to do so...if anyone it's Ayaan's responsibility and not Zoya's. She has done a huge favor to Asad/Ayaan/the goddamn SM family...she should actually be treated like a queen there.

^ Truly well said. ..but my point in this whole argument is not a real ZoYaan coz that won't happen...my point here is that writing is at fault. .I despite not being a professional gave u a better way of execution without even Zoya losing her self respect. ..the writers did not think of this?? I refuse to believe. ..so many loopholes and character butchering only so that the audience can be riled up and scared? Of a real ZoYaan...my question is if ZoYaan is so important to her why did she not stick to the original synopsis...aap yeh mat samjho I m fighting over characters here...they are all dead..no point fighting over them...I just want to know why all this was so deliberately ghusaofied even when the script did not demand it ATM

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

But Shruti...I don't think they are trying to victimize Zoya here...on the contrary someone like me who have always supported Zoya feels not an ounce of sympathy for her...damn she has no self respect and cannot tolerate women like her who has none. But saying that I do feel that Zoya is not obligated to Humeira for anything...she is not falling for Ayaan or planning to do so...if anyone it's Ayaan's responsibility and not Zoya's. She has done a huge favor to Asad/Ayaan/the goddamn SM family...she should actually be treated like a queen there.

And again life is unpredictable...and things happen. Everyone in love don't get married...and everyone married doesn't fall in love...so I cannot sympathize with Humeira just because she is in love with Ayaan...as a matter of fact Ayaan has to be equally in love with her too for their relationship,to work. He seems to be smitten with Zoya. Yes, she has a hole in the heart...a surgery can fix it. I have a friend who runs a marathon with me who survived a lung cancer. I don't sympathize with women like Humeira who has been handed over everything in a silver platter...and Ayaan is her candy now. Zoya doesn't owe anything to Humeira.

Humeira is the most sympathetic character in this scenario however I agree with you - it is not on Zoya to make her feel secure or even consider her. Ayaan claims to love the woman so that's his job.

At the end of the day neither man deserves the woman they are in love with. They are high-handed, regressive and petty and frankly despite the women's non-progressive outlook, can do much better.

now guys i never did say tht asad is NOT wrong here!
he is actually very very wrong but he is a bit better than before where he reacted much more brutally.
noone complained when he did much more worst things because he is still in the phase of development now also he is in the phase of deelopment only!
he is having manny shades and they r lettng them out one by one!

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

^ Truly well said. ..but my point in this whole argument is not a real ZoYaan coz that won't happen...my point here is that writing is at fault. .I despite not being a professional gave u a better way of execution without even Zoya losing her self respect. ..the writers did not think of this?? I refuse to believe. ..so many loopholes and character butchering only so that the audience can be riled up and scared? Of a real ZoYaan...my question is if ZoYaan is so important to her why did she not stick to the original synopsis...aap yeh mat samjho I m fighting over characters here...they are all dead..no point fighting over them...I just want to know why all this was so deliberately ghusaofied even when the script did not demand it ATM

I know Shruti...I understand and remember I really liked your theory about the whole thing 😆...but just the way you don't like watching Zoya shown as a bechari...I get frustrated when characters try to get sympathy using their sickness as a weapon. Humeira is one such weak character. I hate the way she looks at Zoya as if Zoya is some parasite. Zoya wouldn't be laughing and enjoying a friendship with Ayaan if he wasn't responding back to Zoya. She should Look at him with those accusatory looks instead.

Originally posted by: delena90

Humeira is the most sympathetic character in this scenario however I agree with you - it is not on Zoya to make her feel secure or even consider her. Ayaan claims to love the woman so that's his job.

At the end of the day neither man deserves the woman they are in love with. They are high-handed, regressive and petty and frankly despite the women's non-progressive outlook, can do much better.

yes, humaira had no say in any of this...but I cannot sympathize with her after the way she repeatedly looks at Zoya as if she is the one all over Ayaan...she should have the accusatory attitude towards Ayaan.