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Posted: 11 years ago
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When you right . You could only be damn RIGHT.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Although i don't consider asya public hugs indecency and adultery because no one belives in this marriage but the three of them decided to put up a facade for the society and so i expect them to carry it on.Asad and zoya made a commitment that zoya will pretend to be ayaan's wife so yes asya should live upto that and IMO they haven't lived upto it so any insults coming their way is on them and not the hypocititcal society



Anushree, love, care, craving to be with someone you truly love, are all emotions, sentiments. And emotions cannot always be governed by mind or as per the norms of the society.

Asad, Zoya and Ayaan did live upto their committment in the best possible manner they could have.

Can we really blame Asad for not restraining himself from hugging Zoya at Haseena Bi's house? Should Zoya be considered as someone at fault if in an emotional moment, when she saw her lover waiting with open arms to embrace her, she did not back off, she did not care about what the people will think?

Why should Asad and Zoya let the norms of society take precedence over their love for each other, now that there doesn't exist the reason for which Ayaan and Zoya signed the nikaahnama? So that they are not held culpable by the society for committing adultery?

Asad and Zoya are out of that framework of mind. And why shouldn't they be? Why not think about the person you love, first?

It's obvious that the people who don't know as to why and how Ayaan and Zoya's 'nikaah' happened will be rightful in their place for accussing Zoya of committing infidelity and Asad for having an affair with his younger brother's wife. But as lovers, if Asad and Zoya find it more important to cater to each others' emotional demands more than catering to demands of 'righteousness' from these complete strangers, then I find nothing wrong in it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: VashH

When you right . You could only be damn RIGHT.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sona_naksh

awesum post ..agree wid u ...



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChamakChallo91

Amazing post!! Agree!👏



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maheerah

A much needed post...well said...👏



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Though for selfish motives, what Razia said yesterday was 100 percent true. A mere piece of paper does not mean you are married unless you accept it from within and the marriage has taken place with your consent. Love is supreme to marriage, it holds lot more meaning than the papers you signed. And I still dont get what is so indecent or adultrous about hugging?

And, does Shirin really think there isnt anything between Asad and Zoya? They were going to get married, they loved wach other, just because of one accidental marriage, she expects them to forget overnight what they feel for each other? Really?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikita_Smith



Anushree, love, care, craving to be with someone you truly love, are all emotions, sentiments. And emotions cannot always be governed by mind or as per the norms of the society.

Asad, Zoya and Ayaan did live upto their committment in the best possible manner they could have.

Can we really blame Asad for not restraining himself from hugging Zoya at Haseena Bi's house? Should Zoya be considered as someone at fault if in an emotional moment, when she saw her lover waiting with open arms to embrace her, she did not back off, she did not care about what the people will think?

Why should Asad and Zoya let the norms of society take precedence over their love for each other, now that there doesn't exist the reason for which Ayaan and Zoya signed the nikaahnama? So that they are not held culpable by the society for committing adultery?

Asad and Zoya are out of that framework of mind. And why shouldn't they be? Why not think about the person you love, first?

It's obvious that the people who don't know as to why and how Ayaan and Zoya's 'nikaah' happened will be rightful in their place for accussing Zoya of committing infidelity and Asad for having an affair with his younger brother's wife. But as lovers, if Asad and Zoya find it more important to cater to each others' emotional demands more than catering to demands of 'righteousness' from these complete strangers, then I find nothing wrong in it.


Wow now that was a brilliant explanation and i think you almost convinced me.
exactly if asya will be maligned for their actions then i won't blame the society for it and it will asya's own fault and as long as they recognize it i will be fine by it
About love and commitment well i believe that since they promised to put up the facade for nikhat and then ayaan's sake then they better stick to it properly and if they can't do it then just tell everyone,why such indecisiveness?I just find both of them very fickleminded right now...They can't stay away and neither are they doing anything to correct their situations.They rely on their muqadar way too much and that is why i don't have any symapathies for them coz they are paying for their deeds so why cry and crib so much?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said. Totally agree with u.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I beg to differ. Love is the most beautiful emotion but there should be a boundary. I dont mean yo hurt anyones sentiment but if they are so devoted to each other then they should quickly get over this divorce and reunite. Right now, she is legally Ayaan's wife and they both willingly or unwillingly signed the Nikahnama in concious state so they both must respect that. one should try to overcome their desires in such situation.

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