Indecency? Adultery? I beg to differ. - Page 7

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Wow now that was a brilliant explanation and i think you almost convinced me.

exactly if asya will be maligned for their actions then i won't blame the society for it and it will asya's own fault and as long as they recognize it i will be fine by it

About love and commitment well i believe that since they promised to put up the facade for nikhat and then ayaan's sake then they better stick to it properly and if they can't do it then just tell everyone,why such indecisiveness?I just find both of them very fickleminded right now...They can't stay away and neither are they doing anything to correct their situations.They rely on their muqadar way too much and that is why i don't have any symapathies for them coz they are paying for their deeds so why cry and crib so much?

'Paying for their deeds'-I would say suffering because of a few poor decisions but they are human beings, my dear.

Looking forward to Next week's episodes...should be very dramatic!

This topic has flooded the forum . been reading adding my two cents but it still remains stagnant . when said the show had a twist .. they meant business. Everything we see now contradicts to the characters and what they stand for .Repeating the topics becomes tiresome for the readers . we all know this drama is way beyond what the show is about . the mistake .. pretend etc could have been resolved immediately because of the time we live in and the capability of the characters . but what about those who are being controlled by the norms of society and has to accept . . this has been going for generations and needs to be stopped .Now I am talking about Women and how they becomes just mere objects to society . Parents never puts a charge on their children for performing their duties towards them ..then why should society place a charge on parents .daughters are treated like the petals of a rose in their parents home but after all the years of sacrificing and begging god to always let them be happy ..as per society you have to give up all and send them off with a man whom they don't want to be with . Rape !!. brings attention when mention . do we really understand it's concept . Many will say yes .. a man forcing himself on a without her consent ..correct !!.but when a woman has to give herself to a man because she signed a legal document.. a man whom she does not want to be with .what do we call that .. consensual sex ..right. !!...wrong...its Legal rape. .this has to be stopped... but how ... because many don't want to accept change ..we see it right here . the laws of society surpassed the laws and wishes of parents .the suicide attempt .. the sacrifices ...the greed ..the abuse...the evil intentions.. are put before us . all is happening and cannot be stopped because of society .Women needs to be a part of society with the option to be able to have a say in the decisions made about their future. and still up keep to their religious traditions .. I do hope the coming episodes although may be dramatic at least make a little change to fulfill the hopes and brighten the future for women . .I want to share a vm with you it has nothing to do with the show but.. very sentimental ...the song !! http://youtu.be/1r7OTi6uqEc . Tell me where was society during these yrs ... why should a cost be laid out by them to parents .???

So the debate on conventionality of AsYa's act is still on? Swell! (Yeah,I still use the word. Don't judge me!)

Who the hell said it was indecent or adultery? :|

Originally posted by: Nikita_Smith

So Asad and Zoya hugging each other publicly at Haseena Bi's house and at SM is being termed as 'indecency' and 'adultery'.

Am sorry but I beg to differ.

A greater "indecency" for me would have been if Asad and Zoya had given up on their love and accepted this fake nikaah as real marriage.

And to which society should they hold high moral grounds for-The one of which those Qazis are the part who despite of clearly looking at the lack of consent from the Bride and Groom, did not declare the nikaah invalid, so that their honour as Religious Leaders stays intact!

The one of which someone like Haseena is a part -who herself is spineless, greedy and characterless but points fingers at innocent people at the drop of the hat.

The one of which Gaffoor, Rashid and Raziya are part(Like Lavita mentioned in her comments)

Or for those who believe that a Marriage is a Marriage, no matter in what circumstances it has taken place, no matter if it has been forced, no matter if the bride wants freedom from this knot and wants to reunite with her lover, no matter if the groom too wants to reunite with his beloved.

Asad and Zoya lived under the same roof as an engaged couple for so many days but never did they cross the line. Do they deserve to be called indecent simply because in the moments in which they direly needed each other, they did not abandon each other?

My answer would be NO.

Asad and Zoya hugging each other publicly is not adultery. They are wedded to each other in their hearts

"Mere dil par sirf ek naam likha hai-Asad Ahmed Khan"

"Mere muqqadar mein sirf ek naam likha hai -Zoya Farooqui"

Lord would bless them looking at their devotion towards each other. They are fulfilling the wedding vows-

" To have and to hold, from this day onwards, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to
love and to cherish 'till death do us
part. And hereto I pledge you my
faithfulness "

What is of greater value-The sanctity of a 'Kagazi Nikaah'(as Raziya very rightly call it yesterday) or The Sanctity of a Spiritual Nikaah(The one which now binds Asad and Zoya together, forever and ever)

Originally posted by: GoldenPanda.

Who the hell said it was indecent or adultery? :|

OMG !! Did I get held back in 1st grade for the past 100yrs
Please do tell .
I feel like a fatal disease is following me please in the near future if you stress on the words HUG to much u will walking in Asad's shoes for a moment like

Kudos to you for an wonderful post👏

Originally posted by: bheegi

i am surprised that we still have to keep defending AsYa

Great job Nikita

As Asad said- agar aapne vaada kiya hota tho khuda kasam main aapko kabhie thodne ke liye nahin kehta

That sums it up

This nikaah is a sham, not a vaada but a haadsa. The day Ayaan or Zoya want to make it into a Vaada, both Asad and Zoya will back off. They are very righteous people

Exactly Di!

Asad and Zoya needed each others emotional support, each others reassurance in a heartbreaking breaking and depressing situation like this...their hugs are nothing but just that...reassurances!

Asad's reassurance to Zoya that he would always be there for her...Zoya's reassurance to Asad that she still wants to marry him and him alone!


To be there for each other is not adultery or indecency-it's love!

Originally posted by: VashH

This topic has flooded the forum . been reading adding my two cents but it still remains stagnant . when said the show had a twist .. they meant business. Everything we see now contradicts to the characters and what they stand for .Repeating the topics becomes tiresome for the readers . we all know this drama is way beyond what the show is about . the mistake .. pretend etc could have been resolved immediately because of the time we live in and the capability of the characters . but what about those who are being controlled by the norms of society and has to accept . . this has been going for generations and needs to be stopped .Now I am talking about Women and how they becomes just mere objects to society . Parents never puts a charge on their children for performing their duties towards them ..then why should society place a charge on parents .daughters are treated like the petals of a rose in their parents home but after all the years of sacrificing and begging god to always let them be happy ..as per society you have to give up all and send them off with a man whom they don't want to be with . Rape !!. brings attention when mention . do we really understand it's concept . Many will say yes .. a man forcing himself on a without her consent ..correct !!.but when a woman has to give herself to a man because she signed a legal document.. a man whom she does not want to be with .what do we call that .. consensual sex ..right. !!...wrong...its Legal rape. .this has to be stopped... but how ... because many don't want to accept change ..we see it right here . the laws of society surpassed the laws and wishes of parents .the suicide attempt .. the sacrifices ...the greed ..the abuse...the evil intentions.. are put before us . all is happening and cannot be stopped because of society .Women needs to be a part of society with the option to be able to have a say in the decisions made about their future. and still up keep to their religious traditions .. I do hope the coming episodes although may be dramatic at least make a little change to fulfill the hopes and brighten the future for women . .I want to share a vm with you it has nothing to do with the show but.. very sentimental ...the song !! http://youtu.be/1r7OTi6uqEc . Tell me where was society during these yrs ... why should a cost be laid out by them to parents .???