Indecency? Adultery? I beg to differ.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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So Asad and Zoya hugging each other publicly at Haseena Bi's house and at SM is being termed as 'indecency' and 'adultery'.

Am sorry but I beg to differ.

A greater "indecency" for me would have been if Asad and Zoya had given up on their love and accepted this fake nikaah as real marriage.

And to which society should they hold high moral grounds for-The one of which those Qazis are the part who despite of clearly looking at the lack of consent from the Bride and Groom, did not declare the nikaah invalid, so that their honour as Religious Leaders stays intact!

The one of which someone like Haseena is a part -who herself is spineless, greedy and characterless but points fingers at innocent people at the drop of the hat.

The one of which Gaffoor, Rashid and Raziya are part(Like Lavita mentioned in her comments)

Or for those who believe that a Marriage is a Marriage, no matter in what circumstances it has taken place, no matter if it has been forced, no matter if the bride wants freedom from this knot and wants to reunite with her lover, no matter if the groom too wants to reunite with his beloved.

Asad and Zoya lived under the same roof as an engaged couple for so many days but never did they cross the line. Do they deserve to be called indecent simply because in the moments in which they direly needed each other, they did not abandon each other?

My answer would be NO.

Asad and Zoya hugging each other publicly is not adultery. They are wedded to each other in their hearts

"Mere dil par sirf ek naam likha hai-Asad Ahmed Khan"

"Mere muqqadar mein sirf ek naam likha hai -Zoya Farooqui"

Lord would bless them looking at their devotion towards each other. They are fulfilling the wedding vows-

" To have and to hold, from this day onwards, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to
love and to cherish 'till death do us
part. And hereto I pledge you my
faithfulness "

What is of greater value-The sanctity of a 'Kagazi Nikaah'(as Raziya very rightly call it yesterday) or The Sanctity of a Spiritual Nikaah(The one which now binds Asad and Zoya together, forever and ever)


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: riageever

VERY WELL SAID..šŸ‘



Thank you :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Society to which Asad and Zoya belong is full of duplicitous, selfish, mean and sluggish ppl. SM too is full with self-centered, narrow-minded and two-faced dishonest ppl.

Society and its double standards!😔😔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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incredible post!
Kudos!šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ¼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow i agree with ur word.
Pure love always appraciated by ppl
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said.
And what can the society do? They are not doing it behind closed doors, but publicly in front of everyone - ishq pe zor nahin in true sense

What could haseena do? Nothing
What did shireen do? Justified them as friends
What did Razia do? Spoke some truths (they are inseparable, zoyaan is only paper nikaah and you don't forget your first love. - Haa love Razia for these)

Society can do something to them only if they care about the society. But they don't give a damn to the society.
The only persons who can harm asya are asya themselves. Others just don't count.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: GitaIyer

well said.

And what can the society do? They are not doing it behind closed doors, but publicly in front of everyone - ishq pe zor nahin in true sense

What could haseena do? <font color="#0000ff">Nothing</font>
What did shireen do? <font color="#0000ff">Justified them as friends</font>
What did Razia do? <font color="#0000ff">Spoke some truths (they are inseparable, zoyaan is only paper nikaah and you don't forget your first love. - Haa love Razia for these)</font>

Society can do something to them only if they care about the society. But they don't give a damn to the society.
The only persons who can harm asya are asya themselves. Others just don't count.



Well said Gita šŸ‘šŸ¼

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree completely! Very very well said. These two have been married to eachother in their heads for such a long time. Even post SR Asad imagined Zoya welcoming him home as his wife and on the same bed!
Inke dil baut pehle jud gaye the! Shadi dil se hoti hai and they love eachother! No ONE involved (Asad, Ayaan, Zoya, and Humera) consider this a marriage. Asad still calls Zoya Ms. Farooki! She is still his and he is sill hers and both will ALWAYS belong to only eachother!

How is this adultery i don't get either!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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just what I wanted to say...awesome!!!

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