Hey guys,
I really need your help. We need your help.
Remember Ruksar? Our amazing FF, SS, OS writer who was in an accident in May?
She's back on the forum, but she's, not herself.
Over the last 2 months, I've gotten to know her, gotten to become a really close friend with her. In fact, she's like a sister to me, and we haven't even met in person. She's amazing. She's so carefree, and fun, and fearless and the most selfless person you could ever meet in your life.
She does the craziest pranks on those she loves. She went as far as throwing one of the guys she knows in the pool! And she even managed to get another one's bed on the roof of their house. And when he woke up the next morning (he's a heavy sleeper) he fell into the pool as well!
She's done so much for others. She's a breath of fresh air. Shazia even told me how the first time she went on a roller coaster (in her life, and with Ruksar) things didn't go so well. It stopped in the middle, and they were hanging upside for a while. Everyone was freaked, but Ruksar was amazing and calmed and distracted, not only Shazia, but everyone else on the ride.
Her instincts started at a young age. She protected her friend from a bear, at the age of 8! She doesn't care what people think of her and she's big on trust. She's very forgiving though, and can't hold a grudge for too long, unless you really hurt her.
And she's the happiest person you'll ever meet. She's always full of energy! This year, a few days before Eid, she woke Shazia and Zarah (the other friend that went to meet Ruksar after her accident) by putting their fingers in hot tea! She's just so full of life and deserves to be the happiest human being alive, to me.
I'm sure a lot of you remember all the updates Shazia was giving us about her condition and how she was recovering from it all. She was doing okay, but then recently, she went through some traumatic ordeals. I won't get into the details. But what you guys should know, is that even her parents don't deserve her. Even they don't give a damn. They're too damn selfish.
But we're all here for her. And I know, you all are there for her as well. She's changed. She's afraid of getting hurt again, so she's trying to shut us all out, and become this cold, sterile, emotionless, and cold-hearted person. But we know she's still in there. The beautiful, amazing, funny, carefree, crazy and selfless Ruksar is still there. We've seen it. We just need to get through to her. Make her see she can be herself, and that no one will hurt her again. At least not us.
So please, guys, this is my humble request to you all. Encourage her. Support her. Just leave a short note telling her you love her. It's up to you what you say. I know a lot of you already love her a lot.
Please help us, get her back. She's in there somewhere, I know it. We all do.
Love you all, and hoping that this helps Ruksar open up again,
-Monica <3
P.S. Just a clarification guys, the accident, isn't what's causing her to react this way. She went through some worse things after. They were pretty bad, and traumatic. But she did come out of a lot of them. She's still digesting some of it, and that's why she's acting this way.
All your support for her is GREATLY appreciated. Really, it is.
P.P.S. So you guys want to hear a funny story? This girl is really insane. She's fearless I tell you! (This is told to me by one of her friends, so I'm telling it exactly as he told me. I sadly was not there, but damn! I wish had been.)
So she and her three guy friends, and Shazia are in San Francisco. They went for a drive to the Fisherman's Wharf. It's a beautiful bayside are in SF.
So they were all standing on the street, and next to them there was a bunch of cops, and their bikes, all in a line. Ruksar looks at them, and smiles. And decides to start imitating one of them. It was hilarious!
The other cops and her friends were all laughing. But the cop wasn't amused. She even had one of the other cops give her a hat and shirt to improve the show. She was walking like him and imitating his voice.
As she was doing this, she didn't see where she was going, and she ended up bumping into him! He looked mad. But she didn't seem affected by it, or the least bit scared. Her friends were all worried he'd arrest her, and them by extension haha.
But she just kept looking at him. And that made him more angry. He walked towards her, and she walked backwards. A few steps later, he ended up tackling her. She was about to step on the street, so he was protecting her from possibly getting hit by a car.
But in that whole tussle, they ended up knocking all the bikes over! And he ended up laying on top of her, on the ground haha. You'd think she'd have been embarrassed right? Guess again!
"Ugh, you're so heavy! You're crushing me!" she said to him. And man oh man how he blushed! She smiled at that. And you'd think any sane, or normal person would tell him to get off, and then apologize right? Not Ruksar. Oh no. She smirked, and said,"Aww look at that! He's blushing like a teenager!"
Everyone's jaws were dropped, but they all laughed. It was pretty funny. He finally got off her, and helped her up. She looked at him and asked him:
"So are you going to arrest me now?" with mischievous smile.
"No," he said, "you're too beautiful to be in handcuffs or in the back of a squad car," and they all laughed at that.
Does the story end there? Not a chance! He took out his pad and gave her his number, and asked her out for the week after. What did Ruksar do?
She kissed him on the cheek, ruffled his hair, and said "You're a sweet guy!"
What other person taunts a cop, and ends up with a DATE!?
There's waaay more stories like this, but this gives you guys a glimpse of the kind of crazy person she is. But we love her for it. :)
Anupamaa
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