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Posted: 11 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: -Mrinalini-

@Moni:

Well said! Beautiful Post! 👏
I completely agree.. Ruksar has actually shut herself and I really wish to bring her back to normal. 😊
The beautiful, amazing, funny, carefree, crazy and selfless Ruksar, as you said has to be brought back! 🤗

@Ruksar:

Hey darling, I'm sure there is something eating you from inside! You seem really broken and shattered. But it's my request, please open up sweetheart. Share your problems with us. 🤗 We are here to listen to you and bring you out of your shell! 😊 We love you loads sweety! ❤️ Please talk to us! 😊

xoxo
Mrina


Hi Mrina!!!!!
Thank you so much for the advice!!
Things were bad but I am slowly putting myself back together! 🥺
Thanks for the support dear!! 😃
An if I ever need to talk to anyone I know you guys will be there for me!😃

Ruksar ⭐️
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Posted: 11 years ago
#72
i'm not really good with speeches or encouraging people !
so i'll just say that
ruksar !! you are really a great girl and a lot of people love you !
you are not alone :)
dawn comes after the darkest hour :)
i'm sure you'll get back to that nice and crazy girl . afterall time heals everything and you should give time a little time instead of shutting yourself from the world :))
get well soon dear :)
we all are here for you :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
#73
Well, I guess I am a bit late in responding😳 I wasn't on IF for past few days. Ruksar dear, though I don't know you personally I could get a clear view of what you are from the post! Not many dare to live such a carefree and easy going life..never ever change that! Be what you are and remember that you really do have a wonderful set of friends! Monica, I truly respect you for this post. You have done a very good job to bring your dear friend back to herself! Kehte hain na.. A friend in need is a friend indeed..You are the one dear👏
I have read the note and am glad that you are back Ruksar😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#74
come on rukhsar...no trauma or mishap is bigger than this god gifted life we have!!! be urself n prove to the world that u r brave n strong...we all r with u!!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: mochhug

OMG OMG OMG OMG!!! YOU GUYS!!! IT WORKED!!!! SHE'S BACK!!!!!


SHE READ THEM ALL!!!! SHE'S BACK TO HER REGULAR CAREFREE CRAZY SELF!!!!



this is actually a very good news dear😃😃...God bless her with all d happiness😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: mochhug

Hey guys,


I really need your help. We need your help.


Remember Ruksar? Our amazing FF, SS, OS writer who was in an accident in May?


She's back on the forum, but she's, not herself.


Over the last 2 months, I've gotten to know her, gotten to become a really close friend with her. In fact, she's like a sister to me, and we haven't even met in person. She's amazing. She's so carefree, and fun, and fearless and the most selfless person you could ever meet in your life.


She does the craziest pranks on those she loves. She went as far as throwing one of the guys she knows in the pool! And she even managed to get another one's bed on the roof of their house. And when he woke up the next morning (he's a heavy sleeper) he fell into the pool as well!


She's done so much for others. She's a breath of fresh air. Shazia even told me how the first time she went on a roller coaster (in her life, and with Ruksar) things didn't go so well. It stopped in the middle, and they were hanging upside for a while. Everyone was freaked, but Ruksar was amazing and calmed and distracted, not only Shazia, but everyone else on the ride.


Her instincts started at a young age. She protected her friend from a bear, at the age of 8! She doesn't care what people think of her and she's big on trust. She's very forgiving though, and can't hold a grudge for too long, unless you really hurt her.


And she's the happiest person you'll ever meet. She's always full of energy! This year, a few days before Eid, she woke Shazia and Zarah (the other friend that went to meet Ruksar after her accident) by putting their fingers in hot tea! She's just so full of life and deserves to be the happiest human being alive, to me.


I'm sure a lot of you remember all the updates Shazia was giving us about her condition and how she was recovering from it all. She was doing okay, but then recently, she went through some traumatic ordeals. I won't get into the details. But what you guys should know, is that even her parents don't deserve her. Even they don't give a damn. They're too damn selfish.


But we're all here for her. And I know, you all are there for her as well. She's changed. She's afraid of getting hurt again, so she's trying to shut us all out, and become this cold, sterile, emotionless, and cold-hearted person. But we know she's still in there. The beautiful, amazing, funny, carefree, crazy and selfless Ruksar is still there. We've seen it. We just need to get through to her. Make her see she can be herself, and that no one will hurt her again. At least not us.


So please, guys, this is my humble request to you all. Encourage her. Support her. Just leave a short note telling her you love her. It's up to you what you say. I know a lot of you already love her a lot.


Please help us, get her back. She's in there somewhere, I know it. We all do.


Love you all, and hoping that this helps Ruksar open up again,


-Monica <3


P.S. Just a clarification guys, the accident, isn't what's causing her to react this way. She went through some worse things after. They were pretty bad, and traumatic. But she did come out of a lot of them. She's still digesting some of it, and that's why she's acting this way.


All your support for her is GREATLY appreciated. Really, it is.


P.P.S. So you guys want to hear a funny story? This girl is really insane. She's fearless I tell you! (This is told to me by one of her friends, so I'm telling it exactly as he told me. I sadly was not there, but damn! I wish had been.)

So she and her three guy friends, and Shazia are in San Francisco. They went for a drive to the Fisherman's Wharf. It's a beautiful bayside are in SF.

So they were all standing on the street, and next to them there was a bunch of cops, and their bikes, all in a line. Ruksar looks at them, and smiles. And decides to start imitating one of them. It was hilarious!

The other cops and her friends were all laughing. But the cop wasn't amused. She even had one of the other cops give her a hat and shirt to improve the show. She was walking like him and imitating his voice.

As she was doing this, she didn't see where she was going, and she ended up bumping into him! He looked mad. But she didn't seem affected by it, or the least bit scared. Her friends were all worried he'd arrest her, and them by extension haha.

But she just kept looking at him. And that made him more angry. He walked towards her, and she walked backwards. A few steps later, he ended up tackling her. She was about to step on the street, so he was protecting her from possibly getting hit by a car.

But in that whole tussle, they ended up knocking all the bikes over! And he ended up laying on top of her, on the ground haha. You'd think she'd have been embarrassed right? Guess again!

"Ugh, you're so heavy! You're crushing me!" she said to him. And man oh man how he blushed! She smiled at that. And you'd think any sane, or normal person would tell him to get off, and then apologize right? Not Ruksar. Oh no. She smirked, and said,"Aww look at that! He's blushing like a teenager!"

Everyone's jaws were dropped, but they all laughed. It was pretty funny. He finally got off her, and helped her up. She looked at him and asked him:

"So are you going to arrest me now?" with mischievous smile.

"No," he said, "you're too beautiful to be in handcuffs or in the back of a squad car," and they all laughed at that.

Does the story end there? Not a chance! He took out his pad and gave her his number, and asked her out for the week after. What did Ruksar do?

She kissed him on the cheek, ruffled his hair, and said "You're a sweet guy!"

What other person taunts a cop, and ends up with a DATE!?


There's waaay more stories like this, but this gives you guys a glimpse of the kind of crazy person she is. But we love her for it. :)


RES RES RES!!!!

LOL SORRY BABES!!! 😆
Had to do it 😛

I will read it and post a lovely comment for this lovely post that you made for me!!! <3

Will be back soon 😊


UNRES!!

HEY HUN!!!
First of all I want to thank you for this lovely and really amazing post! You have no idea just how much this means to me! You've been an angel through all this. Even though we haven't met in person I truly consider you to be my sister! You've helped me through so much you just don't realize it! That's why I have to constantly keep reminding you about it! 😉

Gosh I am so happy that I joined this forum. Because if I didn't I would have never met you! 👏

Hmmm I love how you describe me as being a breathe of fresh air! Makes me feel like I'm the wind blowing around from one place to another everyday... LOL if that makes any sense.. 😆

YES YES!! Full of energy I am!! That's why I am so excited to meet you! You better be coming down for Eid next year! I will sending you a invitation personally! If you don't come then I will be very very mad at you! 😡... Lol JK! I can never be mad at you! Cause your just to wonderful! Lol but yes I am so excited you will come and we all will go Eid shopping and get the best clothes! Then we both will watch Shazia and Zarah fight over a pair of clothes that don't fit either of them 😆🤣... LOL

Then two nights before I will do your guys mehendi! and we can sit around and just talk. Lol I love Eid so much!

But I can't wait till March!! Bilal told me that you want to come with us to celebrate my 21st B-DAY!! Lol it's still not decided whether I want to do it in Vegas or Florida but I will figure that out soon. 😃

Now that you mention Shazia both of you have been just so lovely and amazing for updating on my behalf on the forum! I appreciate it so much! An I AM SO HAPPY TO HAVE SISTERS LIKE YOU GUYS!!!
😊⭐️

And thank you for having so much faith in me from pulling through all this. Yes it was tough and I wanted to give up so many times but thanks to you and all the support I got from my friends, the forum and YOU I pulled through. So thank you so much! I just don't know how to thank you enough. I know a mere thank you is not enough but it truly means so much to me it really does. ❤️❤️❤️

Yes I am crazy but I only do it to make others laugh...besides I think I am like a magnet to attract cops.. ...just like how the last time I told you I fell right on top of one.. 😵

gosh that was super super embarrassing!! 😒

yes and when you do come..we will play TRUTH AND DARE!! and no being a chicken and picking truth! that's no fun! 😆
we will have fun and a great time and we can all prank the guys together!! When they are sleeping.. especially jamil and arfaaz!! 😃
We will even go to SF and act crazy just pray we don't get arrested 😃

You know how I am...

LOL.. But yeah I can't wait! I AM SUPER EXCITED!!

Thanks for the post BABES!!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! ❤️

Okay I'll stop.. I probably took up a whole bunch of room! Lol 😉

BYE!!! 😃

YOURS...

SMEXY😆

JUST KIDDING...

Ruksar 😊

Edited by rockstarrfn786 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#77
Monica... Please give us her ID so we can reach her.
I remember all those updates and was relieved to know she recovered but what I didnt know this.
Already I feel an attachment with her and would love to know her better and do my bit to pull her through.
She sounds like an amazing person. Yes, perhaps I dont know her but I still love her !
Edited by nikki.171 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: nikki.171

Monica... Please give us her ID so we can reach her.
I remember all those updates and was relieved to know she recovered but what I didnt know this.
Already I feel an attachment with her and would love to know her better and do my bit to pull her through.
She sounds like an amazing person. Yes, perhaps I dont know her but I still love her !



Its the one right above your post 😆

And I know what you mean. She's something else. Truly.

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