How and Why Asad is not wrong?

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GitaIyer

@GitaIyer

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Posted: 12 years ago

Why is everyone bashing Asad left right and centre?

After marriage, every girl goes to her husband's place. In all parts of the world, not only India.

What is wrong if Asad asks Zoya to go to Sm. A marriage is a marriage, even if by mistake.

All the 3 leads think that the marriage is for real, nowhere have they showed in the episodes that they know the marriage is fake.

So If asad had asked Zoya to stay that would have been character assassination.

And as for Zoya not putting her foot down. She may be modern and progressive, but she has always accepted Asad's decision for her - be it agreeing to the nakli sagai and nakli nikaah, leaving KM after Humeira poisoning. Now, when she knows that she has a made a mistake of unimaginable proportion and directly or indirectly lead to Nikhat's suiciede, she will agree to go to SM eventually.

So guys, please chill. There is no borrowing bro's wife or trading of women. Logically, Asad is right.

That's entirely my POV.

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anushreemishra

@anushreemishra

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Posted: 12 years ago

No asad isn't right..had he sent zoya to SM coz she got married to ayaan I would have stil understood his POv but still going there or not going there would have been zoya decision and he still would have had no right to force it on her...
And zoya did say it was a mistake and she didn't consider it a marriage and asad said he doesn't consider this a marriage...he is sending her there coz his selfish jerk brother emotionally blackmailed him...he is loaning his love to his brother till nikhat can get married...he isn't doing it because he thinks.zoya nd ayaan got married but because he wants to save his sister by sacrificing zoya...I get where he is coming from and his helplessness and hecan do whatever the help he wants with his life but he has no right to take that decision for zoya...and what irks me even more is that is that instead of asking her he just drags her out like she is some kind of a rug against her wishes...no manhas a right to do that to any woman...having said that even zoya is at fault o want het to speak up...

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Tanvi

@KulfiBai

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Posted: 12 years ago

Firstly, the marriage is invalid and it has been acknowledged. From what I remember, it was even acknowledged by Asad himself.

Secondly, Zoya doesn't owe that madhouse or the people that reside in it, anything. She made stupid mistakes and she should be made to face the consequences - but sending her to temporarily live in that house as Ayaan's wife is way too harsh!

Thirdly, Asad can dump her, ditch her, tell her to GTFO of his house, but he does NOT have the right to 'loan' her to his brother for a set period of time until her purpose there is fulfilled (ie. Nikhat married) and then chuck her back to Asad. That is disgusting.

In the precap she clearly says 'Yeh ek nikah nahin tha Mr. Khan' and yet he still drags her outta the room and presumably out of the house while she begs and pleads and resists.

Edited by KulfiBai - 12 years ago

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GitaIyer

@GitaIyer

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: KulfiBai
Firstly, the marriage is invalid and it has been acknowledged. From what I remember, it was even acknowledged by Asad himself.

No I don't think they know that the marriage is invalid. They are all just too shocked to accept it. Aayaan had accepted the validity of marriage when he couldn't hug back Zoya.

Zoya had some doubts, but when Aayan came and broke the news, she too thinks she had made a mistake.

The entire plot is palpable only if they think (even if wrongly) that the marriage is valid. Siddiqui and Razia are shown to accept that the nikaah is valid. Asad begs of ZOya to say that is a joke, but she confirms that it happened for real.

Yeah, you are right, Asad is wrong in making decisions for Zoya, but isn't that what he had done from the beginning. The 10-day nikaah challenge. Zoya was ready to even lie to her aapi for him, was ready for a fake marriage with him.

if you guys will think coolly, i am sure you will agree that each one of them was in their character. Asad's character is flawed from the beginning, Zoya is shown to be the only selfess character (except for hiding the Tannu Preggo report), and Aaayan has been selfish from the first episode.

No offence meant, this is entirely my POV. if Asad and Zoya know that the marriage is invalid, then i will agree with, word to word.

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FarhaadkiMahi

@FarhaadkiMahi

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Posted: 12 years ago

Agree.deep down asad know she got married to ayaan. Even zoya consider herself she got married to ayaan. Zoya have to face this problem without asad. May be zoya ditch asad n accept this marriage .
Asad is not at all fault this time

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Tanvi

@KulfiBai

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+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

No I don't think they know that the marriage is invalid. They are all just too shocked to accept it. Aayaan had accepted the validity of marriage when he couldn't hug back Zoya.

Zoya had some doubts, but when Aayan came and broke the news, she too thinks she had made a mistake.

The entire plot is palpable only if they think (even if wrongly) that the marriage is valid. Siddiqui and Razia are shown to accept that the nikaah is valid. Asad begs of ZOya to say that is a joke, but she confirms that it happened for real.

Yeah, you are right, Asad is wrong in making decisions for Zoya, but isn't that what he had done from the beginning. The 10-day nikaah challenge. Zoya was ready to even lie to her aapi for him, was ready for a fake marriage with him.

if you guys will think coolly, i am sure you will agree that each one of them was in their character. Asad's character is flawed from the beginning, Zoya is shown to be the only selfess character (except for hiding the Tannu Preggo report), and Aaayan has been selfish from the first episode.

No offence meant, this is entirely my POV. if Asad and Zoya know that the marriage is invalid, then i will agree with, word to word.

I agree with you on the front that they were all in character today. As for the rest I'm holding my stance until the next episode, at this point even I'm kinda confused 😆

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GitaIyer

@GitaIyer

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with you on the front that they were all in character today. As for the rest I'm holding my stance until the next episode, at this point even I'm kinda confused 😆

@ red - You are not alone.

The writers, actors, producers, audience, critics, supporters, everyone is in a confused state. 😭

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anushreemishra

@anushreemishra

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Posted: 12 years ago

If they actually thought it was a valid nikaah why would ayaan say that he wants zoya only till nikhat got married,why did zoya say that it was a mistake,why did asad say that ki wo is nikaah ko nahi maanta
Chalo maan liya ki marriage is valid still that doesn't give ayaan to force rhis on zoya...she is his wife not something she bought and if indeed he considered that they got married why ask asad why not zoya that is coz he knpws this marriage doesn't mean nything and even if asad considers that zoya is marrief he stillhas no right to force this decision on her...no one but zoya has the right to make this decision for herself

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karikarinainan

@karikarinainan

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Posted: 12 years ago

Let us not write and justify a crap from CVs.

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GitaIyer

@GitaIyer

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: anushreemishra
No asad isn't right..had he sent zoya to SM coz she got married to ayaan I would have stil understood his POv but still going there or not going there would have been zoya decision and he still would have had no right to force it on her...
And zoya did say it was a mistake and she didn't consider it a marriage and asad said he doesn't consider this a marriage...he is sending her there coz his selfish jerk brother emotionally blackmailed him...he is loaning his love to his brother till nikhat can get married...he isn't doing it because he thinks.zoya nd ayaan got married but because he wants to save his sister by sacrificing zoya...I get where he is coming from and his helplessness and hecan do whatever the help he wants with his life but he has no right to take that decision for zoya...and what irks me even more is that is that instead of asking her he just drags her out like she is some kind of a rug against her wishes...no manhas a right to do that to any woman...having said that even zoya is at fault o want het to speak up...

But still, marriage is a marriage, whether it was a mistake or not, whether you accept it or not.

Only the audience know that it was invalid bcoz the name of hte bride was not correct. Till now, none of the characters in the QH know about this. I repeat, they do not know. Only then does all this drama make sense. I know i am trying to make sense of nonsense, but am hopelessly addicted to QH.

Anyways will have to watch today's episode to see what prompted Asad to take that decision. We have only seen the dragging part, it will be interesting to see what happened before that and most importantly what happens after that.

Wouldn't it be a good surprise, if he takes her and does nikaah with her or send her away to US till he gets time to sort this mess.

😛