Behne De...Aug 2 - Page 4

Originally posted by: s120

Great post di!

Some people have complained that SJ is not up to the mark in these romantic scenes but I disagree- she is playing her character very well. Watch the second teri meri dance and you will know what I am saying- she can really be romantic and sensuous. Zoya is just not ready for it yet. She can laugh it off and say, "aap kya kar rahe hain Mr.Khan? Itni khushi mujhse bardasht nahin hogi, kahin nazar na lag jaaye." Zoya has had no problem in expressing and giving love to others but when someone gets too close, she hasn't learnt to open all the doors to her heart completely. That's why she still has to go through some more pain, some growth and realization which perhaps her fifth wish will grant her. Then she will learn to swim freely in this river of love.

Loved these lines. Very well said. And I agree with you. There is nothing wrong about SJ's performance. But its just that Zoya feels awkward and gets nervous the moment Asad tries to get close to her. And Asad is a changed man now. Tanveer taught him a lesson. The same way, Gaffur will teach Zoya a lesson. Tanveer was a test for Asad and now Gaffur will be a test for Zoya.

Originally posted by: sujataraje

perfectly explained sangi...👏

there can not be better explanation of these characters and their situation at this point of time

Thanks sujata😊

ASAD -is man of extremes when he hates he does it to extreme and when it comes to love he does the same...be it his hate for rashid whom he never forgave or love for his mother,brother and now for zoya...now when he has accepted that he loves zoya and his life revolves around her..he has no shame in expressing what he feels...i still remember one line from TT video when karan said-once asad will accept that he loves zoya..he will be vocal about it and tell the world that she belongs to him😳

Yes, you are so right- Asad is actually a very emotional man- he hates and loves someone with the bottom of his heart

till now he restrained himself falling in love...but his emotions and feelings took over him and the walls around his heart broke down...

then some storms came and turned his life upside down...he ultimately came out of it and learnt that now he can not lose what he has and what means to him...

now he has has come to point where he can do anything to make zoya happy and go to extremes to fulfil her wishes.no matter if it brings lots of pain for him along with .

ZOYA- as you explained is still living in some subconscious fears...she is loving whatever is happening with her ..she is loving how his me khan doing every single thing for his happiness..she knows she is nothing without him..but still something is making her conscious...may be her fears of being alone,losing ones you love or anything else...

she is always vocal when it comes to teasing but she becomes mute and baffled when it comes to intimacy and emotional bonding..she doesn't speak..her eyes speak volumes though..she wants things to be like this forever...and fears that what if it changes!!!!!!!

exactly Sujata! She has to overcome these fears before she can run freely into Asad's arms

AYAAN- is latecomer in class of love but a quick learner...reason might be the good teacher(rajini) or pressure to perform well in class(vikram)

whatever it is...no matter he understand its deep meaning or not..he wants things like he wishes...he is impulsive and he does not let anyone to bully him in class...

he is learning,he is feeling and he is making his way to love..and thats enough for us and him

Ayaan is the tube light but thanks to VS, will learn to turn on the lights sooner than later

HUMEIRA/RAJINI--a girl whose life was all about to love ayaan and to be loved by him...first part she always did with all her heart..second she could not see happening...her bas luck...

now rajini is a girl who is vocal about her feelings..she is confident as she knows someone loves her(vikram) and thats her biggest strength..she believes that her love story is perfect and she has got world' best husband...as we all know its her alter personality...but at subconscious level...she can not connect to vikarn ..she connects with ayaan..because he is her love ...she hold her back when vikram xoem close but..she does not hold herself back when it comes to ayaan..may be she cant because thats what she wants at subconscious level..

yes, Rajni's alter ego is living that dream of having a perfect life partner who loves her a lot

every love story is a journey..it has its own share of beautiful sight,bumps,confusing turnsand check posts ...the one who crosses all this makes to destination of love...and i am sure these four will reach there no matter who reaches first or last...they gonna reach and wait for their soul mates there. Well said Sujata👏

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Great post...asad has surely come a long way...he is expressing himself and talking his heart out...smiling seeing zoya flash her famous dimples and is not shy to show how happy zoya's presence makes him..."the jannat wala and the dimple wala dialogues were so cute"😳and not for a moment did he hesitate to show his affection towards zoya...

I agree zoya isn't any less emotionally challenged than asad and now wen asad is changing so much i think she is the one who is more emotionally challenged...i mean its always asad who takes the initiative and she still a little apprehensive wen it comes to physical proximity between them...and i think SJ is amazing is showing the coy love struck girl who hasn't really reached there where she could be very comfortable with physical intimacy..

I loved ayaan today...ayaan feeling guilty for making humeira sad was just a treat to watch and man hats off to vikrant...and the gesture of giving humeira back the mangalsutra shows that how ayaan is changing in love...a selfish and self centered person overcoming his jealousy to see the love of his life happy...m so happy with ayaan's progress..

I just feel bad for humeira...she is so torn between her unsaid love for ayaan and duty as a wife...i hope we get humeira back soon not that i mind rajini she is awesome

I loved today's episode...couldn't have asked for a better 200th episode😊

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

I agree with Sangeeta Di - Zoya was a tom boy - so with guys she could fight and compete and argue very well well and she did so confidently with Mr Khan - but as Asad had said she is also very innocent and she has never had a guy who makes her feel the way romantic Asad does where her heart beats so fast that she is flustered and not sure how to react. Coz she is a confident girl of 21st century brought and raised in NY she can not go all shy like hindi serial drama bahu playing with their dupatas!

Also if u note Asad says Zoya a lot more and often as he feels comfortable with her on that intimate level - now he only says Ms Farooqui when mon and sister are there as a respect or when he wants to sort of emotionally / physically distant him self from her as they are not married or engaged yet -

Zoya on the other hand still calls him Mr khan - even at the cliff she had screamed "I love you Mr. Khan" not " i love you Asad" as you would do so for someone u are close to on an emotional and intimate level - she feels close to him on an emotional level but is not ready on a physical level therefore when Asad gets too close she gets unsure of herself. i think we will see this until their SR or until she goes away physically and misses him not being there around her or until she finds her ground around this new Asad

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

Wow sangi... Marvellous post...
U r right... Zoya is still not ready for this new relationship with Asad ... But as time passes like Asad learnt his lessons... She will too get ready to swim along with the flow of the river of love...

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

Beautiful beautiful post today 👏