girls need advice

i'm 24 n suddenly out of no where mom came n told me that one guy has accepted you and his family also likes you n he is from london n a doctor,
the worst part is my parents liked his family n dey r takin me to london to meet the guy n his family
vn i said i'm nt ready my mom talked to me as if i'm 42 n v'll never get marry if i don't marry now
and damn sure that mera shaadi hoga n my mom already called my close n extended family and told them abt the guy n dey r callin me to wish me
i need ur advice
1)i'm just 24 is it right or too late or early to get married now?
2)i'm not ready fr huge responsibility n my parents r nt ready to listen to me,wt shld i do?
3) if marriage is fixed how to prepare myself fr this?
4)my cousin n siblings r hapi wishin me n vry bad at advice so thought that i shld ask my frens n unknown
pls help me rite now i'm 🤢 my mind is nt workin thinkin that i ve to go n stay in someone's home n i'll ve huge responsibility n all that,,,,

I'm 21...My nikkah also fixed. . . 😭

well i'll try to ans ur questions!!
. according to my knowledge, 22-25 is the best age for girls to get married

. this age has its own colours, so its better to listen ur parents, cuz they have their life experience!! n no parents will try to destroy their child's happiness or life!!

. u should give yourself n this marraige a chance!! im sure all will go smooth n fine!! just b honest to ur partener n expect the same from him.. n also luk in ur parent's eyes, u'll be happy cuz of their happy faces!!

. its gud u r asking for advice, may be ths can help u!! 😊

KAbhi-fan:-Thanks dear for your advice... 😳

Originally posted by: sumaiya14

I'm 21...My nikkah also fixed. . . 😭

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Honestly to tell u...I am 25 and I am going through this...coz my parents are on a guy hunting spree...24 to 27 is a good age to settle down...

Originally posted by: KaBhi-FAN

well i'll try to ans ur questions!!
. according to my knowledge, 22-25 is the best age for girls to get married

. this age has its own colours, so its better to listen ur parents, cuz they have their life experience!! n no parents will try to destroy their child's happiness or life!!

. u should give yourself n this marraige a chance!! im sure all will go smooth n fine!! just b honest to ur partener n expect the same from him.. n also luk in ur parent's eyes, u'll be happy cuz of their happy faces!!

. its gud u r asking for advice, may be ths can help u!! 😊

i knw just because of my dad i gve them chance,hope everything goes fine
just that thought of responsibility is actually scarin me
thanks fr advice😊

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Honestly to tell u...I am 25 and I am going through this...coz my parents are on a guy hunting spree...24 to 27 is a good age to settle down...

Meet the guy...if u still do not think u are on the same page...then try to make your parents understand...abhi do not brush it away without giving it any consideration...

I am sure ur parents will not force you..ultimately...it's your life. it's your call...all the best...

thanks fr advice
plannin to meet him

If ur not ready u shouldn't an to me 24 is young... I think 27 28 is perfect