DISAPPOINTED WITH ZOYA TODAY! - Page 8

Originally posted by: studentofdayear

to u it is not selfish, for me it is!! and u cannot change my opinion! plus u r not even presenting an arguement!

Originally posted by: nupsie

Zoya Selfish?? How??😲

She was humiliated a million times by this man who claims to love her!!

He always chose his frend over his love!!

she came to Inda with the sole purpose of finding her father!! n she still doesn't knw the truth of her father!! If Asad is innocent according to ppl then Zoya s innocent too...she doesn't knw the truth!!

and how exactly is she selfish?? She came back to him even after that horrendous sight she witness on her wedding day!! only to be Rejected once again by the saint who chose reponsibility over love!! He has hurt her in every way possible!! n she had always tried to help him in every way possible!!

then why can't Zoya choose father over love??? Any gal/boy wud do that!!

She still stayed in his house even after so mucch humiliation and so many death attacks by Asad's bestie and the man never tried to knw wat was happening in his house!! He was so lost in himself n his own pain that he never tried to knw wat is Zoya goin through!!

he is lucky that Zoya wud still forgive him after all this and they are back together, coz if I were Zoya I wud never done that...the man never trust her🤢

She tried a hundered times to show him the truth to tell him everything but never let her speak,. or even wen he let her he never trust her!!

So Zoya's decision of choosing father over this man was absolutely right...coz I don't knw why ppl expect Zoya to fight for Asad wen he is just accepts everything blindly and is not willing to see the truth!! She madde the right choice until she herself comes to knw the truth of her father just like Asad cums to knw Tanveer's truth!!!

but well, nothin new..I hav always seen this that Asad is innocent, in guilt n Zoya is selfish blah blah...well, the man never tried to make it up to her instead left her at the wedding twice🤢

If Asad had faced so many death attacks coz of sum frend of Zoya or she wud have left him at the wedding day twice, humiliated him at every given point... the forum wud hav gone to God knows wat extent to hate on Zoya...but Asad is allowed anything n everything...and Zoya is always selfish🤢...yeah right🥱

Originally posted by: delena90

I applaud the cvs for portraying zoya as human and not the self-sacrificial selfish heroines we see on Indian Telly. Zoya has always longed to know her indentity. She has a right to know where and who she came from. She has a right and thirst to ask her father why he abandoned her and her mother. She deserves those answers. It's very hard for us to understand how an orphan or an abandoned child feels. They yearn to know their parents. There is nothing more cruel than a child beig denied parental love and zoya has every right to question and seek that love out. So, for me, it was poignant that for a minute she struggled with her conflict. It was even more poignant that she made the right choice despite the steep cost to her.

To the tm - yes she was selfish because human beings are inherently selfish. If we were not we would amount to nothing in life.

Originally posted by: studentofdayear

a human will choose their innocent love over a jackass father!! why would she endanger people's lives over her selfish reasons??

Originally posted by: delena90

First a love between a man and a woman is anything but innocent.

Second, asad chose his friend many times over zoya, would you call him selfish?

Third, zoya doesn't know that her father is a jackass. She just knows that he left. She has a inate curiosity to know who her father is. That has been her one purpose in life.

I understand that you cannot sympathize with zoya and that's your choice and opinion. She made a very human decision but despite her longing chose to do the right thing in the end.

Also contrary to popular fictional culture, people in love don't sacrifice themselves or their aspirations for each other. It is human to be selfish and if we weren't we would never have evolved.

Originally posted by: SwatiBeanyBrown

as said by many over here that being selfish is after all human. very true. moreover,her selfishness,if that can be called so,which to me is not, was just momentary. after she heard dilshad,she has already made up her mind which was shown clearly yesterday. still, don't get this asad v/s zoya quarrel!

Originally posted by: studentofdayear

I am talking about ZOYA here not Asad! u can make a separate post to bash him!

Originally posted by: nupsie

I agree nups

Zoya is in a dilemma and she is praying to get an answer

whats wrong in that?