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Posted: 12 years ago
OMG i've to read so many pages 😳 wish me all the best 😆 Anyway bookmarking the thread 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: LoranMaddiLee



awww omg i feel so bad! i hate when another girl is involved and she knows these moments because the guy tells them everything. 😕

i feel u boo! 🤗


well my bad...atleast i hav learnt never to look at committed men
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Posted: 12 years ago


Okaay went for a prayer break and come back to find so many more stories. Neeed to catch up before that I had to reply to this. Loool! Awww I still would've punched him tbh. Aw, over the phone? Bless you, I would've cried if it was face to face don't worry i'm a baby when it comes to fighting and being angry.

Aww you write too to get over him? Which one? The dancing one? Aww bless you, sooo cutee. I'll be extra careful when i'm reading now ;) ahahaha, and from my writings you must've figured out what goes on in my stupid head now hahaha.
And OMG! Sorry don't mean to laugh but your reaction at the end had me rolling. You're soo innoncent Monica, bless youuu! WTH? He disappeared? Well he's an idiot and we all know what he wanted. Great you said no to him eurghh!
And don't say that, you do not repel anyone. Those guys were jerks, there were no real attraction there. Don't worry true love will come your way, who'll let you know he's flirting with you and accept all your embarassing moments. He'll laugh at you and then cover it up so that noone else can. Don't you worry beautiful, here take my advice; let go of your past, hold onto your present and open your arms for the future. Trust me when I say true love hasn't knocked on your door yet, when it does it'll bring a whole loada happiness for you.

Omg where's the box of tissues?

Omg you're seriously so sweet. I teared up at that whole last paragraph. I wanna believe that so badly, trust me I do. But everyday I believe in it a little itty bit less and less. Hun you think you're emotional? Trust me whoever does come into my life will need a forklift to manoeuvre through my tonnage of emotional debris. I just don't usually share it haha. So I tend to come off as an emotionless person. I get super awkward. I can't even look a person in the eye for more than 5 seconds lol. Too intense. I still hope for it. I do. But oh well. Things happen when they happen, I guess.

Haha and the guy who disappeared, really didn't bother me. I never felt that way about him. But I did feel bad that he didn't manage to stay friends with me.

Thanks for the lovely advice though. I really love that quote: "let go of your past, hold onto your present and open your arms for the future"🤗



Okaay sorry couldn't get rid of the baggage above cus i'm on my phone. Awww blesss you lovely, don't worry we're both on the same boat. And no no, do not give up on love. The hopless lover in me refuses to accept that true love doesn't exist. It does and it will come to you. Trust meee, don't give up. Don't sit at home and cry when a sad bollywood song comes on like me but be happy. Be positive.
You know I have this feeling that tells me that no guy will be able to understand me because of this huge emotional baggage that I carry with me. I guess in some weird kinda way i'm seeeking acceptance... Like when I meet someone I tell them my whole life story... Not because i trust them but because I want them to understand me. Idk if that makes sense. I'm so weird. *sigh*
What is going on with our livesss?

Did you read my diary? Are you in my head? How- But- Cause-

I DO THE SAME THING. That is EXACTLY what I struggle with. It's the EXACT reason why I find it so hard to let any guy in. I end up telling a guy I've only known for a while (if I like him only, ironically) my whole life story TOO! And most of them either freak out, or get really awkward. Sigh. Trust me. We're both in the same boat on the weirdness factor. But I consider us unique, not weird.

And on the true love front, I don't know. I want to keep believing it. But sigh, everything in my life on that front seems to be pointing in the opposite direction. Everyone thinks I'm so obsessed with Qubool Hai. I can't tell them all that I'm living my dream love life through the show. Because I'm almost exactly like Asad. For different reasons, and I can express myself a little better than him. But for the most part, I'm the same. And I want someone outgoing, someone unafraid, someone crazy to take me out of my shell. But sigh, hasn't happened yet.


OMG! Are you my long lost twin? Seriously you're exactly like meee! This is actually unbelievable.
Kaay, yeah I agree with you... I don't think guys can handle serious girls that's why they freak out. Yes yes yes, we're uniqueee.
Please tell me you're in my head now please please? Same heree i'm living my dream lovestory through this show. Omg, i'm like Asad tooo! Yes yes yes girl, I need a crazy funny full of life type of guy to come into my life and turn it upside down. I want him to make me laugh till my stomach hurts and just fill my life with colour.
Although I've not come across a Maan (from Geet), Arnav or Asad, my ex was the perfect type of guy that I wanted as my prince charming. I keep comparing everyone to him, I want to fight like I used to with him and then fall in love. Four Lions show depict my ideal lovestory and that is why I prefer to cry over these than go rant to my friends. Because i think they've given up on me.


Oh My Gawd ! I really thought I was an emotional weirdo, which is why I never voiced out my thoughts! But now I am gaping at the screen BECAUSE you guys just described me !

Word - Monica, Mogo ( Gah, I feel left out. Both ur names start with M! ) The Bold is the story of my life and I was lyke I am a fool for thinking like that. Its like I tend to make up for my reality in the show ! *sigh* It feels good to know there are others out there !

You know its hard to think of you guys being bullied. From what I have gathered from your posts - you guys are beautiful people inside OUT . Yes Mogo quit telling yourself your not. I would have told you to smack your head if Monica hadnt already! You are perfect just the way you are, and we love you for that !
But yes I crave acceptance and love too for that matter. I feel crazy for feeling the way I do but sometimes, it gets overwhelming.
Still the romantic me refuses to die, no matter what I tell myself !
Hearts - the way Asad says, they're stubborn little creatures holding on to something that will perhaps never be ours !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@MrMrsAsyaKhan: MOJO! *DEATH GRIP TYPE OF HUG* Stop putting yourself down baby girl<3 you are AMAZINGGG, and I'll box out anyone, even you, who thinks otherwise. KAPEESH? (Is that how you even spell it though?) And I know you may have heard this before and it's easier to say than do, but talk to him. Maybe apologizing and talking things through will let you move on and also give you a chance to see if anything is going to happen there? Because living with the "what if" your whole life is the hardest thing ever. I guess start with a hi. Please. You need closure! So if you even see him anymore, try to do it for yourself. You never know if you are just wasting time and he may like you too!


And and and. No one in this world is ugly. It's just that some people are extremely lucky bas***ds and were blessed with good genes. KAY? And I know people are...BLAH and so looks do matter, so I won't say "looks don't matter" because I don't lie. But they aren't everything. KAY? So don't be sad! SO DON'T PUT YOURSELF DOWN. I have no idea what you look like, BUT YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL PERSON. and that only gets better with age like fine wine, while beauty goes Bye bye.


If I knew where you lived I'd probably be at your door with a tub of ice cream while I yelled at you and then fed you ice cream and watched chick flicks. YOU ARE SPECIAL. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE A AMAZINGLY TALENTED HILARIOUS PERSON.


Sorrry for all of that, I just can't stand it when people i like are sad. *hugs*


LMAO, you whacked a guy where the sun doesn't shine! Poor girl, I am cringing. But I guess he didn't mind since he fancied you ;) thats so british by the way, it immediately reminds me of pride and prejudice, "fancies". Watch me say it for weeks nowww! no seriously, I am sure he didn't mind if it makes you feel any better!


Wanna hear something infinitely worse. When i was still friends with my boyfriend I dropped ketchup on his crotch by mistake and I started freaking out. So I grabbed a napkin and started dabbing at his crotch and then trying to rub it off. It was only when he said "You really need to stop doing that" that I realized I had my hand on his thing. OMG. I was so mortified. And all my friends and the rest of the food court was just staring at our table! Most embarrassing moment of my life, I was red as the ketchup. And he still teases me about it. I just wanted the ground to move up and swallow me. I couldn't look at him in the eyes for like a few days.


Omg, you wanna know what I do when someone is embarrassing themselves on screen? I like pause the video and then play it watching it with one eye as I cringe. I had the hardest time watching Khushi make a fool outta herself in IPKKND. Like the date scene and when she dresses up weirdly. I was hitting TJ pause button so much! And then I say "no no no". It's like I am the one being embarrassed. It's so weird!





@nikki.171: aw, you poor thing. I feel you. It's a pain being a girl, I make my friends check me after I get up every single time because I am terrified of that. DID YOU TALK TO HIM AFTER?







Grr., Humph. Yes, it is a pain being a girl sometimes !
Lol. I make my friend do that EVERY time I get up - check my seat I mean . Hell, I make them walk behind me most of the times !
Well... I did talk to him ! But could never see him in the eye. Umm.. never did anyway but couldnt even look at him directly ! You need to read my reply to Maddy and Mojo for more details tho.
I Cant go throught it again.

Call Out - Mojo ! Read that essay umm @astonm ( Dunno you!) has written for you and take it to heart !
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Posted: 12 years ago
Okay so I finally managed to get through all these pages *pheeew* and I mustered up the courage to speak about my very own embarrassing moments:

Okay so I was in the 7th grade and I really had a huge crush on this guy name Cameron, he was one of the popular boys and I was friendly with everyone him included. We sort off had a love hate relationship. So one day I was out with my family and we were chatting and he started flirting with me. My battery was about to die and I was enjoying our convo so much so I decided to swap SIM cards with my mothers phone BIGGEST mistake ever. So eventually I got home and I deleted all the messages I sent from my mothers cell but didn't delete the Inbox messages. A few days later my mother saw all these messages and she didn't know who it was, she msg'd him and told him he should stop messaging her or else she was gonna call police. I almost died! Thank God he didn't find out and today we are still good friends

My second one was last year. It was my first year of college and I met this guy and we instantly became friends and gradually I developed a crush , in July we became much closer and he told me he loved me, at first I didn't know what to do so being the oblivious person I am I started to fight with him and told him if he didn't mean it he should just shut up and not say stupid things like that. He eventually had a turn to speak and cleared up the misunderstanding and explained how he loved me as a friend etc.

Still with the same guy we were at his house watching a movie and I fell asleep on his shoulder I tend to make a lot of noises in my sleep that sound like slight moans and so i think he eventually placed me so I was comfortable and sleeping on his lap or I just moved in my sleep and gradually fell to his lap and he decided not to move me so I wouldn't wake up. When I eventually woke up I was shocked to find my face in his 'area' I looked up to find him smiling and asked "'nice dream?" Probably cos of my moaning sounds. I was so embarrassed I just woke up and slept on the other side of the couch. I fell asleep again and I think I was talking in my sleep cos I woke up to the sound of him talking back to me😆

Eventually my crush went away and we still are best friends.
When I remember more I shall post them😊

Dhanesh :)
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Dhanesh27

Okay so I finally managed to get through all these pages *pheeew* and I mustered up the courage to speak about my very own embarrassing moments:


Okay so I was in the 7th grade and I really had a huge crush on this guy name Cameron, he was one of the popular boys and I was friendly with everyone him included. We sort off had a love hate relationship. So one day I was out with my family and we were chatting and he started flirting with me. My battery was about to die and I was enjoying our convo so much so I decided to swap SIM cards with my mothers phone BIGGEST mistake ever. So eventually I got home and I deleted all the messages I sent from my mothers cell but didn't delete the Inbox messages. A few days later my mother saw all these messages and she didn't know who it was, she msg'd him and told him he should stop messaging her or else she was gonna call police. I almost died! Thank God he didn't find out and today we are still good friends

My second one was last year. It was my first year of college and I met this guy and we instantly became friends and gradually I developed a crush , in July we became much closer and he told me he loved me, at first I didn't know what to do so being the oblivious person I am I started to fight with him and told him if he didn't mean it he should just shut up and not say stupid things like that. He eventually had a turn to speak and cleared up the misunderstanding and explained how he loved me as a friend etc.

Still with the same guy we were at his house watching a movie and I fell asleep on his shoulder I tend to make a lot of noises in my sleep that sound like slight moans and so i think he eventually placed me so I was comfortable and sleeping on his lap or I just moved in my sleep and gradually fell to his lap and he decided not to move me so I wouldn't wake up. When I eventually woke up I was shocked to find my face in his 'area' I looked up to find him smiling and asked "'nice dream?" Probably cos of my moaning sounds. I was so embarrassed I just woke up and slept on the other side of the couch. I fell asleep again and I think I was talking in my sleep cos I woke up to the sound of him talking back to me😆

Eventually my crush went away and we still are best friends.
When I remember more I shall post them😊

Dhanesh :)



Oh my gawd ! The first one. I can totally sympathize! Lol did you muster up the courage to tell your mom who it was and why he was sending you those msgs ?

Haha! I think the second guy and your stories with him are romantic !😳 I think he likes you !
I mean the smile and the 'nice dream' 😳 however double meaning, makes me think so.
He said he loved you and then changed his statement ? I guess was tryna make an escape attempt. I might be wrong tho.


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@ SAMIRA ! Seeing you after ages! Okay... so you might not remmbr me but oh well...
Your story had me cringing and cracking at the same time. 😆 So what happened later? How'd it end ?

@Jazzy. Lol. Your stories are hilariouus ! I had a tummy ache from laughing so much and hiding my face in the sofa ! 😆

@Shweta ! I lau you for making this topic ! This is one addictive thread and I love it !


SO I just finished reading! Girls .. I am just gone for the night and you guys make a 20+ page progress ! But by gawd, all of the stories here are hilarious and cringe worthy.
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Oh my gawd ! The first one. I can totally sympathize! Lol did you muster up the courage to tell your mom who it was and why he was sending you those msgs ?

Haha! I think the second guy and your stories with him are romantic !😳 I think he likes you !
I mean the smile and the 'nice dream' 😳 however double meaning, makes me think so.
He said he loved you and then changed his statement ? I guess was tryna make an escape attempt. I might be wrong tho.


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@ SAMIRA ! Seeing you after ages! Okay... so you might not remmbr me but oh well...
Your story had me cringing and cracking at the same time. 😆 So what happened later? How'd it end ?

@Jazzy. Lol. Your stories are hilariouus ! I had a tummy ache from laughing so much and hiding my face in the sofa ! 😆

@Shweta ! I lau you for making this topic ! This is one addictive thread and I love it !


SO I just finished reading! Girls .. I am just gone for the night and you guys make a 20+ page progress ! But by gawd, all of the stories here are hilarious and cringe worthy.



Why does everyone assume I never remember them! I REMEMBER YOU NIKKI! 😆.

So
much more happened. I'll type it up when I can be bothered haha.
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Posted: 12 years ago
I guess I m one of those teenage girl who doesn't have any hormonal rush ... I mean I freaking don't have any crush n I m 19 ... but yhh 2 guys asked me out n I was like "but I thought of you as my brother" n u can tell they were really stunned shocked n embarrassed. But ur story n d rest if every1's stories us lol worthy hahaha
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: nikki.171



Oh my gawd ! The first one. I can totally sympathize! Lol did you muster up the courage to tell your mom who it was and why he was sending you those msgs ?

Haha! I think the second guy and your stories with him are romantic !😳 I think he likes you !
I mean the smile and the 'nice dream' 😳 however double meaning, makes me think so.
He said he loved you and then changed his statement ? I guess was tryna make an escape attempt. I might be wrong tho.



No I never told her because I would probably be chopped into incy wincy teeny tiny pieces. She was very strict when I was younger so the consequences would have not been good😃

Yeah the second guy and I we sort off ended up having a thing but we decided that we were better as friends so now we are back to our crazy selves😆😊
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Why does everyone assume I never remember them! I REMEMBER YOU NIKKI! 😆.

So
much more happened. I'll type it up when I can be bothered haha.



That is because you are famous for your disappearing acts😆 and well we're just one in the many people you know . But boy am I glad you remember me. Haha. Type it up soon. I'll wait to read it.

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