Can someone explain this? - Page 2

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Wow..That was brilliant..Am almost convinced😆 Despite the betrayal, Asad was selfish enough to pursue Zoya but the moment the responsibility card was played, he broke down and couldn't take it any longer..That makes a lot of sense..But i still don get his behavior with Tanveer..He thinks he forced himself on her right? Despite all this, Tannu is mahaan enough to not accuse him and silently support him in his endevour to marry Zoya..This is what Asad thinks right? But i din see even a tinge of guilt or awkwardness in his interactions with Tannu😕 He is convinced he has wronged Zoe and hence deserves to be punished..But what about his best fiend whose life he has ruined? He still thinks Tannu is an angel right?😆 So his behavior with Tannu honestly doesn't add up..

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

he is selfish with tannu also...honestly if u see usko kuch khaas padi nahi hai tannu ki...😆..agar woh 'jammy main maa banne ne waali hoon' nahi bolti toh Jammy chal diya tha Zoya se nikaah karne...Asad is a complicated man...more than the rest of them in QH...i do not see it as an assassination of his character..Asad was never the ideal man...only his heart was and is still pure...

there is a dialogue from the Dark Knight...the Joker says it to the Batman...

'when the chips are down...these civilized people will eat each other'...that is the most basic truth of a human being..chahe woh koi bhi ho...self preservation is the key to survival

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Ah you are very convincing man😆 I still think it would have been a lot more realistic if there was some awkwardness in their interactions cos its kinda hard to believe that he was back to calling her Tannu even after being convinced that he forced himself on her😆

From where I see it he didn't want her back in his life, because he has accepted the fact that he does not deserve her. IMO he only wanted to talk to her once, ask for forgiveness to feel less burdened than he was. He had wanted to when she left the Khan mansion, he wanted to when he found her at the madrasa (excuse me if I spelled that wrong) and he wanted to talk to her once and for all when he met her at Ajmer. He's told her he doesn't know if she'll ever want to meet him, see his face again or talk to him but he has to tell her whats in his heart and he did. I don't think he ever intended to pursue her. His prayer at the dargah was heartfelt because he loves Zoya and in spite of everything he wanted some miracle to have her back in his life, doesn't mean he'd go all out ti pursue her if he knows he is wrong :P

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

From where I see it he didn't want her back in his life, because he has accepted the fact that he does not deserve her. IMO he only wanted to talk to her once, ask for forgiveness to feel less burdened than he was. He had wanted to when she left the Khan mansion, he wanted to when he found her at the madrasa (excuse me if I spelled that wrong) and he wanted to talk to her once and for all when he met her at Ajmer. He's told her he doesn't know if she'll ever want to meet him, see his face again or talk to him but he has to tell her whats in his heart and he did. I don't think he ever intended to pursue her. His prayer at the dargah was heartfelt because he loves Zoya and in spite of everything he wanted some miracle to have her back in his life, doesn't mean he'd go all out ti pursue her if he knows he is wrong :P

Even if I know I wrote crap in a paper I keep praying that I clear the exam so yeah ^😆

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Wow..That was brilliant..Am almost convinced😆 Despite the betrayal, Asad was selfish enough to pursue Zoya but the moment the responsibility card was played, he broke down and couldn't take it any longer..That makes a lot of sense..But i still don get his behavior with Tanveer..He thinks he forced himself on her right? Despite all this, Tannu is mahaan enough to not accuse him and silently support him in his endevour to marry Zoya..This is what Asad thinks right? But i din see even a tinge of guilt or awkwardness in his interactions with Tannu😕 He is convinced he has wronged Zoe and hence deserves to be punished..But what about his best fiend whose life he has ruined? He still thinks Tannu is an angel right?😆 So his behavior with Tannu honestly doesn't add up..

@ rogerrocks.. you have raised a very valid point regarding Asad's character.
@starsinmyeyes, i liked the way you have analyzed Asad.. well done. only one point i cannot agree. that is asad is acting selfish.. may be a little.. but i think his behaviour here is not due to selfishness..

Asad is having conflict of emotions... he confessed to Zoya at ajmer because he simply wanted Zoya to knwo how he he feels about her.. he feels that Zoya deserved to know that truth.. he does want Zoya to be in his life, but when he confessed he did not expect anything in return.. even though he said please, he did not really expect her to come back to him.. that was that moment.. but yea he did pray at darga for Zoya's return in his life also.. so he does definitely wanted Zoya back.. that is because i think he feels that what ever happened between him and Tanu was an unfortunate incident.. and Tanu was later acting as if she was ok with it.. and she was a married woman.. so its not like Asad was the cause of her loss of virginity.. he did say initially say to her that he will not let anything happen to her.. then later he was too depressed by the loss of Zoya and the only thing that was on his mind is finding Zoya..so may be yea he is a bit selfish..but this selfishness arose from his need for Zoya and the fact that tanu was acting as if she was ok with what ever happened that night and it was just an unfortunate event that happened between him and a woman who was married before .

but now his decision to marry tanu is because of a baby which is entirely different than just sleeping with a woman who as married and who acted as if she was ok with it.. tanu made sure that he felt guilty by stressing on the word responsibility and her drama of hum dono jheelenge.. if she hadn't stressed on that word, i feel Asad wouldn't have taken this decision so soon. he would again have been torn by conflict of emotions wondering what to do because his need for Zoya is too much and he cannot let Zoya go away so easily.. and he would have delayed his desicion and perhaps even discussed it with Zoya.. but his emotions are being played upon by Tanu and although Zoya says that Asad is emotionally challenged, Asad is actually always driven by emotions and does things based on his emotions.. mangalpur, stopping Zoya at airport , Rashid's court case all are examples.

Originally posted by: kaussar

@ rogerrocks.. you have raised a very valid point regarding Asad's character.
@starsinmyeyes, i liked the way you have analyzed Asad.. well done. only one point i cannot agree. that is asad is acting selfish.. may be a little.. but i think his behaviour here is not due to selfishness..

Asad is having conflict of emotions... he confessed to Zoya at ajmer because he simply wanted Zoya to knwo how he he feels about her.. he feels that Zoya deserved to know that truth.. he does want Zoya to be in his life, but when he confessed he did not expect anything in return.. even though he said please, he did not really expect her to come back to him.. that was that moment.. but yea he did pray at darga for Zoya's return in his life also.. so he does definitely wanted Zoya back.. that is because i think he feels that what ever happened between him and Tanu was an unfortunate incident.. and Tanu was later acting as if she was ok with it.. and she was a married woman.. so its not like Asad was the cause of her loss of virginity.. he did say initially say to her that he will not let anything happen to her.. then later he was too depressed by the loss of Zoya and the only thing that was on his mind is finding Zoya..so may be yea he is a bit selfish..but this selfishness arose from his need for Zoya and the fact that tanu was acting as if she was ok with what ever happened that night and it was just an unfortunate event that happened between him and a woman who was married before .

but now his decision to marry tanu is because of a baby which is entirely different than just sleeping with a woman who as married and who acted as if she was ok with it.. tanu made sure that he felt guilty by stressing on the word responsibility and her drama of hum dono jheelenge.. if she hadn't stressed on that word, i feel Asad wouldn't have taken this decision so soon. he would again have been torn by conflict of emotions wondering what to do because his need for Zoya is too much and he cannot let Zoya go away so easily.. and he would have delayed his desicion and perhaps even discussed it with Zoya.. but his emotions are being played upon by Tanu and although Zoya says that Asad is emotionally challenged, Asad is actually always driven by emotions and does things based on his emotions.. mangalpur, stopping Zoya at airport , Rashid's court case all are examples.

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

But the fact that he said 'please' clearly indicates that he asked for a second chance right?😆 I don fault the reaction..Thats how humans work..But am just surprised that Asad reacted that way😆

Roger,