Can someone explain this?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I honestly get where Asad is coming from..He is a man of principles and the moment Tannu played the responsibility card, it was obvious he was gonna break down and give up..But what i don get is why he pursued her and confessed his love despite believing that he slept with Tannu..This is something which has been bothering me for quite sometime😆..Everyone deserves a second chance..But given Asad's nature, if he believed that he betrayed his love on the day of marriage, the last thing he'd do is beg for a second chance..He is convinced he forced himself on Tannu..So in his mind, he has betrayed both his best friend and Zoya..So i really don get how he was ok with marrying her in the first place..And yeah, I never understood how Asad was that normal with Tannu in all their interactions without a tinge of awkwardness..So while I completely understand where Asad is coming from today, I don really get his behavior from the earlier episodes..Lemme clarify that i do not believe in the shallow notion that Asad and Zoya should be virgins to deserve each other😆 Am just thinking things from Asad's perspective..As far as i have understood his character, he would never pursue his love the moment he is convinced of his betrayal..He doesn't need a pregnancy to act upon it..And the fact that he ignored or was that normal with Tannu is even more baffling..He does believe that he forced himself on her right? So how did he beg for a second chance even after being convinced that he supposedly ruined his best friend's life? Thats not how Asad works man😆

Am not sure if am making sense..I still sympathize with Asad the most and believe he deserves to have Zoya back in his life.But what i don get is the inconsistency..And yeah, more than Asad, its the CVs fault..It almost feels like they added the confession just for the over hyped Ajmer track without actually putting much thought into it😆

P.S.This is not a post to bash Asad..More like am bashing the CVs😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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hey dear...i made a comment on trina's post some days ago explaining...let me search for u...will post in in a while...see if u can make sense out of it...😊

Here it is:

that...sadly is his biggest character flaw...judgemental, prejudiced and extremely low on self esteem..Asad's exterior is a facade...its fake...deep down he is that 10 year old boy whose father left his mother and them for another woman...the fear of cheating is so ingrained in his psyche that it took very little to push him off the edge...what more can u expect from a man who has been punishing himself for a crime he was yet to commit or would possibly never commit (his distancing himself from Zoya early on coz of the fear that he would hurt her)...he is dangerously insecure and can be easily manipulated..add to it his problem of not trusting new people easily and of not distrusting his own circle (tanveer included)...Asad is a lethal cocktail of narrow minded judgements and misplaced trust...some may find it illogical but Asad's character can now be seen in stark clarity...he had been repeatedly saying to his mom, himself etc that he will become his father...i used to think why he is over-exaggerating this fear...but look at him now...his fear has muddled everything in his life...we all hate tanveer and this jammy-tannu thingy...but people like Asad, who do not trust themselves, place their trust in a select few around them (tanveer once was a part, maybe a good one, of his incomplete childhood- think if it, she is the only friend of Asad)..there is nothing to tanveer's credit except being at the right place at the right time...they would be shaken to their core if any one of this inner circle broke their trust and they prefer to keep their eyes closed...I am not justifying Asad...he needs a psychiatrist to get him out of this fictional world of his...And if someone asks me about AsYa marriage at this point of time, i would say it would be a disaster of epic proportions..Asad needs to sort himself out...Zoya can only bring out glimpses of normalcy in him..but there has to be a permanent solution

the answer to what u asked is simple...a man of strength of character would say 'ki nahi, i have made a mistake, i will pay for it...i will let her be away even if i love her'...but Asad has never been a strong man..plus he is a little selfish also, like Ayaan and his father...his need for Zoya intermittently trumps his self loathing...but ultimately self loathing wins...Asad's confession to Zoya was beautiful and honest...but why did he confess? He has broken her supposedly but he went ahead and said i love u...and now u make of it what u will?? he said he will not let her go till he is done?? Initially we would say,'tere baap ka raaj hai kya...itna kar diya ab jaane bhi nahi de raha hai'?...Asad loves Zoya a lot and this love his wreaked havoc in his life..he is dealing with this situation the way he would with any other..by exerting domination on the ones he loves...given his lack in the emotional department...this is Asad..totally disintegrated and dissected...he is not your ideal hero...he is a man with serious emotional flaws and needs to be pulled out of the quicksand of his own mind...

Edited by starsinmyeyes - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He is doing all this for his daughter Ms. Asveer Ahmed Khan!!!

😆😆😆

N u r losing too much sleep over a fictional Indian social drama!!!

😆😆😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Criticizing Asad is as worst as bashing

PS. sorry... irrelevent
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nautanki_anu

He is doing all this for his daughter Ms. Asveer Ahmed Khan!!!


😆😆😆

N u r losing too much sleep over a fictional Indian social drama!!!

😆😆😆

Lol man..You know am jobless cos i hurt my foot right?😆 Idle mind is a devil's workshop😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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posted my comment above..hope it helps...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Lol man..You know am jobless cos i hurt my foot right?😆 Idle mind is a devil's workshop😆


Yeah rite. But now the devil's workshop is doing overtime 😆. I want that foot of yours fit as a fiddle in a jiffy.😆

Jus kiddin Rogie. Keep those posts coming 😆. Fortunately or unfortunately I've stopped using my brain as my IQ is getting affected now 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'm just laughing these days to be honest. Everything seems so hilarious. Like you, it is beyond my understanding HOW and WHY Asad was so very comfortable with that bitch after all the shit that he THINKS happened between them. He was still calling her 'Tannu' 🤢 letting her get all cosy while she perved on his shirtless back like no tomorrow.

The Ajmer confession, while beautiful, made shit all sense to me. In fact, I didn't get the point of Ajmer at all. One minute they're there, confession, banjar banjar, tadap tadap, hotel, billo, cliff and we're back to Bhopal where once again the bitch wins 👏

Rest I can't think about it's giving me a damn headache. And I'm sorry but the fact that Asad didn't give Zoya a bloody explanation today pissed me off so bad.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

hey dear...i made a comment on trina's post some days ago explaining...let me search for u...will post in in a while...see if u can make sense out of it...😊


Here it is:

that...sadly is his biggest character flaw...judgemental, prejudiced and extremely low on self esteem..Asad's exterior is a facade...its fake...deep down he is that 10 year old boy whose father left his mother and them for another woman...the fear of cheating is so ingrained in his psyche that it took very little to push him off the edge...what more can u expect from a man who has been punishing himself for a crime he was yet to commit or would possibly never commit (his distancing himself from Zoya early on coz of the fear that he would hurt her)...he is dangerously insecure and can be easily manipulated..add to it his problem of not trusting new people easily and of not distrusting his own circle (tanveer included)...Asad is a lethal cocktail of narrow minded judgements and misplaced trust...some may find it illogical but Asad's character can now be seen in stark clarity...he had been repeatedly saying to his mom, himself etc that he will become his father...i used to think why he is over-exaggerating this fear...but look at him now...his fear has muddled everything in his life...we all hate tanveer and this jammy-tannu thingy...but people like Asad, who do not trust themselves, place their trust in a select few around them (tanveer once was a part, maybe a good one, of his incomplete childhood- think if it, she is the only friend of Asad)..there is nothing to tanveer's credit except being at the right place at the right time...they would be shaken to their core if any one of this inner circle broke their trust and they prefer to keep their eyes closed...I am not justifying Asad...he needs a psychiatrist to get him out of this fictional world of his...And if someone asks me about AsYa marriage at this point of time, i would say it would be a disaster of epic proportions..Asad needs to sort himself out...Zoya can only bring out glimpses of normalcy in him..but there has to be a permanent solution

the answer to what u asked is simple...a man of strength of character would say 'ki nahi, i have made a mistake, i will pay for it...i will let her be away even if i love her'...but Asad has never been a strong man..plus he is a little selfish also, like Ayaan and his father...his need for Zoya intermittently trumps his self loathing...but ultimately self loathing wins...Asad's confession to Zoya was beautiful and honest...but why did he confess? He has broken her supposedly but he went ahead and said i love u...and now u make of it what u will?? he said he will not let her go till he is done?? Initially we would say,'tere baap ka raaj hai kya...itna kar diya ab jaane bhi nahi de raha hai'?...Asad loves Zoya a lot and this love his wreaked havoc in his life..he is dealing with this situation the way he would with any other..by exerting domination on the ones he loves...given his lack in the emotional department...this is Asad..totally disintegrated and dissected...he is not your ideal hero...he is a man with serious emotional flaws and needs to be pulled out of the quicksand of his own mind...

Wow..That was brilliant..Am almost convinced😆 Despite the betrayal, Asad was selfish enough to pursue Zoya but the moment the responsibility card was played, he broke down and couldn't take it any longer..That makes a lot of sense..But i still don get his behavior with Tanveer..He thinks he forced himself on her right? Despite all this, Tannu is mahaan enough to not accuse him and silently support him in his endevour to marry Zoya..This is what Asad thinks right? But i din see even a tinge of guilt or awkwardness in his interactions with Tannu😕 He is convinced he has wronged Zoe and hence deserves to be punished..But what about his best fiend whose life he has ruined? He still thinks Tannu is an angel right?😆 So his behavior with Tannu honestly doesn't add up..
Edited by rogerrocks - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai

I'm just laughing these days to be honest. Everything seems so hilarious. Like you, it is beyond my understanding HOW and WHY Asad was so very comfortable with that bitch after all the shit that he THINKS happened between them. He was still calling her 'Tannu' 🤢 letting her get all cosy while she perved on his shirtless back like no tomorrow.


The Ajmer confession, while beautiful, made shit all sense to me. In fact, I didn't get the point of Ajmer at all. One minute they're there, confession, banjar banjar, tadap tadap, hotel, billo, cliff and we're back to Bhopal where once again the bitch wins 👏

Rest I can't think about it's giving me a damn headache. And I'm sorry but the fact that Asad didn't give Zoya a bloody explanation today pissed me off so bad.

Lamao..Gul just managed to overwork her actors in the process😆 More than anything, they need to tone down on Tannu's crass dialogues and OTT expressions..Its honestly getting out of hand🥱😆

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