Can someone explain this? - Page 5

thank yo so much for this post rogerrocks(sorry dont yur name😕)yo wrote my mind..i've been searching for such a post for a long time man😆tbh wen they aired that ajmer promo, i totally believed that asad must ve figured out the truth and thatswy he was confessing...but sadly i've been proved wrong...😆after watching those episodes, i was again convinced that any man would do that..so why not asad😆but again he slapped me right across my face yest😆i try hard to understand the explanations of the forum members, but nothing gets into my head..oly thing i'm convinced is love is blind😆ok that sounds lame but thats the oly explanation i could derive frm his acts...😆all his values and principles flew out of window just for zoya..but understbly he couldnt abandon that child...and that bitch😡and about calling her tannu, well i'm not disappointed i've an explanation i don think he is calling her tannu fondly its just her name, i dono whether he remembers her name is tanveer..😆does anyone know her full name...dont tell me tanveer khan😡😆its just out of habit he is calling her tannu😆and about that bitch, she just needs to die...first she ogled his shirtless back🤢and yest she was creeping all over zoya's cheek and arms🤢thankfully she got slapped in that episode itself...and her reactions wen asad announced his marriage with her🤢i never thought someone can act so awful..oh yes amarapalli can🤢😆

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Ah you did it again😆 I really wish ppl were this receptive of opposing views and at the same time put forth their own opinion in such a convincing manner😆 Btw, its not exactly about Asad's principles or what Asad shows himself to be to the world and what he is in reality..Its more to do with logic and character consistency..For instance, if i believed i did the deed with a guy, i would defo feel awkward around him😆 Btw, he ignored Tanveer only because he was preoccupied with his own thoughts about Zoya..I don think it was any conscious effort on his part..Again, his guilt seemed to stem from the consequences of his act rather than the act itself..As i mentioned earlier, if Zoya had forgiven him on that very day, i doubt we would have seen this much regret😆 And i do think this is inconsistent with his general character sketch..

Originally posted by: aswini.achu

thank yo so much for this post rogerrocks(sorry dont yur name😕)yo wrote my mind..i've been searching for such a post for a long time man😆tbh wen they aired that ajmer promo, i totally believed that asad must ve figured out the truth and thatswy he was confessing...but sadly i've been proved wrong...😆after watching those episodes, i was again convinced that any man would do that..so why not asad😆but again he slapped me right across my face yest😆i try hard to understand the explanations of the forum members, but nothing gets into my head..oly thing i'm convinced is love is blind😆ok that sounds lame but thats the oly explanation i could derive frm his acts...😆all his values and principles flew out of window just for zoya..but understbly he couldnt abandon that child...and that bitch😡and about calling her tannu, well i'm not disappointed i've an explanation i don think he is calling her tannu fondly its just her name, i dono whether he remembers her name is tanveer..😆does anyone know her full name...dont tell me tanveer khan😡😆its just out of habit he is calling her tannu😆and about that bitch, she just needs to die...first she ogled his shirtless back🤢and yest she was creeping all over zoya's cheek and arms🤢thankfully she got slapped in that episode itself...and her reactions wen asad announced his marriage with her🤢i never thought someone can act so awful..oh yes amarapalli can🤢😆

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Lol..My name is Ranjini😊 I guess you need to read starinmyeyes' posts..She is really convincing😆 And yeah, i think he is calling her tannu out of habit😆 Amrapali is always OTT man..I cringe every time she attempts one of those horny exdpressions😆

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

His general sketch is of a man who expects to cheat on his woman...just like his father...and he has done what he expected himself...from personal experience I can tell u that when ur worst fears come to life...u change as a person...bigtime

Since he was too drugged to comprehend what happened, his trying to tell zoya that its not the way it looks does not count as an attempt to convince her..

He tried convincing her only when he confessed to her..and he agreed to marry after Zoya was ready to let go of it

U and I are normal people...if we commit a mistake such as this we will be devastated at our irresponsibility. ..Asad is a disturbed man who thinks he is a born cheat...he expects himself to fall like this...uske liye shocking nahi hai because he had pre decided that he was gonna cheat on his woman...he will only feel guilt and self loathing every time he looks at tanveer...in all probability he does not even realize that he must feel awkward. ..khud ko kosne se time milega toh awkward feel karega na😆

Asad has said it himself yesterday, what high opinion he has of himself ' main aisa hi hoon, jo log meri zindagi mein mayne rakhte hain main unhe apni zindagi se bedakhal kar deta hoon'

Hum kya uski bashing karenge yaar...jiski khudki nazar mein koi izzat nahi uski izzat hum aur tum kya utaarenge

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Yes..His biggest fear was that he would end up hurting the woman he loves just like his father..So logically, he should have behaved the way he did yesterday the moment he was convinced he betrayed Zoya..The fact that it resulted in Tannu getting pregnant just adds to his responsibility..Even if this consequence hadn't followed, it doesn't change the fact he slept with his best friend and betrayed Zoya. This is sufficient to prove that he is a chip off the old block..So i still don get how Asad was ready to marry Zoya..Thats how normal humans react-grab the first opportunity they get to start afresh but this is Asad we are talking about and we do know how damaged he is on the inside..

Am sorry for the long rants..Am vela today and you seem to be a good debator😆

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

hi ranjini...my name is shruti...thank u to you and aswini for appreciating my thoughts...😊

Your comment is your answer...the text in bold is the reply to Asad's abnormal behaviour...normal humans react sometimes by grabbing the opportunity putting all morality aside and sometimes, they rise above themselves and do the 'right' thing for a greater moral good...but Asad is a classic case of doobte ko tinke ka sahara...he tried for a month but when he realized he could not take it, he chucked the morality out of his system...

And agar hum sochein..this is not the first time he has done it...countless number of times he has insulted Zoya about her dead parents...and then apologized by gifting her something or stopping her from leaving...lekin tab humko Asad ka yeh roop dekhke maza aa raha tha..because we were getting AsYa romance and Mitwa...ab mitwas nahi hai toh Asad ka wohi behaviour humko samajh nahi aa raha...yeh toh galat hai na?

Asad ne hamesha Zoya par apna haq jataya hai is tarah se..chahe woh chahe ya na chahe...moreover Asad is someone who seeks approval from the one he has wronged...he feels the immense need to be forgiven because he is incapable of forgiving himself...jab Rashid ke saath uska face off hua, he did not care about anything else...he just wanted his ammi's maafi...he also got Tanveer's approval (apparently) when she agreed to step out of his life..and mind u yeh wohi aadmi hai jisne ek mahine pehle yeh kaha tha ki woh tanveer ko sab kuch akele nahi sehne dega...ek mahine Zoya ke bagair raha toh aate-daal ka bhaav maloom pada usko...and phir bhaad mein jaye tanveer...aur Zoya ka approval or maafi milte hi usne ek second nahi lagaya haan karne ko...

Because he does not respect himself at all...he looks at himself from the eyes of his loved ones...one of them loses respect for him..AAK is a goner...

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

hi ranjini...my name is shruti...thank u to you and aswini for appreciating my thoughts...😊

Your comment is your answer...the text in bold is the reply to Asad's abnormal behaviour...normal humans react sometimes by grabbing the opportunity putting all morality aside and sometimes, they rise above themselves and do the 'right' thing for a greater moral good...but Asad is a classic case of doobte ko tinke ka sahara...he tried for a month but when he realized he could not take it, he chucked the morality out of his system...

And agar hum sochein..this is not the first time he has done it...countless number of times he has insulted Zoya about her dead parents...and then apologized by gifting her something or stopping her from leaving...lekin tab humko Asad ka yeh roop dekhke maza aa raha tha..because we were getting AsYa romance and Mitwa...ab mitwas nahi hai toh Asad ka wohi behaviour humko samajh nahi aa raha...yeh toh galat hai na?

Asad ne hamesha Zoya par apna haq jataya hai is tarah se..chahe woh chahe ya na chahe...moreover Asad is someone who seeks approval from the one he has wronged...he feels the immense need to be forgiven because he is incapable of forgiving himself...jab Rashid ke saath uska face off hua, he did not care about anything else...he just wanted his ammi's maafi...he also got Tanveer's approval (apparently) when she agreed to step out of his life..and mind u yeh wohi aadmi hai jisne ek mahine pehle yeh kaha tha ki woh tanveer ko sab kuch akele nahi sehne dega...ek mahine Zoya ke bagair raha toh aate-daal ka bhaav maloom pada usko...and phir bhaad mein jaye tanveer...aur Zoya ka approval or maafi milte hi usne ek second nahi lagaya haan karne ko...

Because he does not respect himself at all...he looks at himself from the eyes of his loved ones...one of them loses respect for him..AAK is a goner...

Originally posted by: aswini.achu

@bold..totally convincing..cannot say better👏 not that i don agree the other parts its just that i don understand hindi😆lil off topic..are yo a psychiatrist?yo're damn convincing man...just curious to know😳

You said it all! I believe his behaviour's been a bit out of character too.And I don't think there's more to it than bad writing from the CV's part. In order to make the Ajmer track more... Dramatic? At the lack of a better word; they chose to make Asad confess his love for Zoya.