And he drives away... - Page 13

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Let's not forget Zoya has lied to him many a times and a man like him who already has trust issues will not so easily trust her especially when she was a guest at his place. But then again he slowly started understanding her and started giving her benefit of doubt. That's a huge step from his side.

Zoya is not the only one suffering. Asad is suffering too. What's his fault? That he trusts his friend? That harsh punishment for trusting you friend? Both are suffering without any fault of theirs and if you wanna blame Asad, Zoya is equally to blame. Let's be fair!

Don't strong women have emotions? Don't they have a heart? Everyone has a breaking point. She has lost so much and now finally she was seeing her life with the man she loves and she felt betrayed on her wedding day. Why wouldn't she break? She's a human after all. NO matter how strong one is, everyone has a breaking point. Even strongest of buildings fall down when storm comes and here we are talking about a human. Zoya is still strong and courageous enough to help orphan kids. What's so wrong and weak about that? I just don't get it. What were you expecting her to do? She can't be the same bubbly girl reciting couplets after getting the shock of lifetime.

The only person to blame in all this is tanwh**e who needs to be tortured to death!

Originally posted by: kankabhor

@bold: Very nice.

Only thing I want say here is, if you see from Zoya's POV, in all her 23 years of life she never shared her pain with anyone.. She always used to spread happiness with her smile.. If you notice she always used to say, I can take care of myself I don't need anybody but deep down she was craving for somebody to be with her always, she found that person in Asad.. Imagine a girl who never shared anything with anyone in entire life , she did it with Asad,. This fact itself describes how much she is attached to Asad..And suddenly she lost everything.. Once she was broken when she lost her parents, she overcame that now once again she broke.. Its difficult to become normal second time..

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Ofcourse, strong women have emotions but they also don't allow grief and depression rule their lives...they go through a phase and they come out...it's all about standing up after falling down. In the beginning of QH Zoya was a very strong character...but unfortunately right now she is not...she is broken and devastated and has given another person the power to control her life...no one has the right to make her feel this way...she shouldn't be overpowered by what she feels for Asad...things happen in life...but we have to move on...I would have loved to see Zoya move back to New York ...she should have volunteered in an orphanage or shelter in the US...staying back in Bhopal only proved that she wanted to hold on to the past...

...this is my perspective Kiraan...life s too short and there is nothing as soul mates in this world. No one will respect an individual if there is no self respect after all.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Zoya had full faith in Asad...such a faith that she believed that he would never betray her...but lets think what happened...she is abandoned at the alter...sees him half naked with Billo... Her trust is broken because she believes that he gave into Billo's seduction and that is the reason she said ...Aap ek kamzor insaan hai...She didn't take Billo's threats seriously ( she should have imo) because she had blind faith in Asad... It's a whole new equation with Asad because with seeing Billo's burn marks...he also saw the pictures of the glass eye ( he still disregarded that Billo had a glass eye)... he saw the chandelier falling on Zoya but although Billo was standing far away he felt it was supposedly an attack on Billo ? There are numerous such scenarios.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Zoya had full faith in Asad...such a faith that she believed that he would never betray her...but lets think what happened...she is abandoned at the alter...sees him half naked with Billo... Her trust is broken because she believes that he gave into Billo's seduction and that is the reason she said ...Aap ek kamzor insaan hai...She didn't take Billo's threats seriously ( she should have imo) because she had blind faith in Asad... It's a whole new equation with Asad because with seeing Billo's burn marks...he also saw the pictures of the glass eye ( he still disregarded that Billo had a glass eye)... he saw the chandelier falling on Zoya but although Billo was standing far away he felt it was supposedly an attack on Billo ? There are numerous such scenarios.

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

Exactly. This is just a phase. Give her sometime. She'll come back stronger than ever. She just needs time. My mom is one of the strongest women I have known in my life. She has been through so much. She was on death bed but she survived. She lost her first child and she was completely shattered, broken and it took her 5 years to get back but she came back stronger than ever. She's been through so much and she's still going strong. I know from her experience, things happen and people need time and they come out stronger than ever. She needs time and she'll bounce back.

Edit: I respect your perspective. I'm presenting mine. And I hope Im not offending you in any way. If I have, my apologies. This is a show and they have to show angst, pain to deepen and strengthen their bond and even in real life, people do take time to come out of a phase. They just need time. Similarly, Zoya needs time and she'll come out of this phase as well. It's not forever. This shall pass too!

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I am sorry dear to hear about your mom...Ofcourse she is very strong and I see that in you too.yes time is the best healer. And no Kiraan you have not offended me in anyway... in fact I enjoy discussing with you and everyone...this is a forum and I believe everyone has their own pov... We don't have to agree but we should respect one another.

Kiraan...I lost my mom at a very young age...and have been brought up by my dad...he always reminded me that I couldn't really on anyone...not even on him. He made it very clear that I should consider myself all alone and should be able to stand up for myself at any times. That was the greatest gift I ever received from my dad. It has made me very strong and I say the same thing to my 2 year old daughter although she doesn't understand it .

Originally posted by: VixenCatVsc94

I agree. Though he might feel guilty and not want to hurt her and yes,he isn't playing Armaan Malik here, no man who truly and desperately loves a woman would be such a darpok. Pyaar kiya,Toh darrna kya?

I think most people still look at Ass-head Ahmed Khan as Karan Singh Grover. I never see such concern for Zoya...uff...bhool gayi...who cares for the female lead...EVER?!