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Posted: 12 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan


How is asking someone if they are ok sadistic? Are you sure you're using the right word? Asad got no pleasure from that.😳



You caught it!!! I totally missed it while reading!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Theking21

I agree with u. People are fast in judging Asads behavior, and are not trying to read the feelings behinde the certian behavior at all. We should be happy to see the growth in Asads charcter today, and it was hurtful to see zoya apologizing to Tanveer. I remember I had an argument with a certain person, an the certain person was wrong, my mom just told med to say sorry, even though she knew that I was right, but she didn't want that the certain person to wish or say anything bad to me, bcoz it would hurt my mom the most, and my mom told me that u know that u are right and the person also knows is but wont confess the mistake, but the person surely know that he is wrong, and would live with that guilt. ( hope I made sense). I feel that's what Asad feels, he don't want Tanveer to wish his zoya anything bad bcoz it will hurt him the most. And we know that he confessed that zoya is the part one family and not Tanveer, I think that should be enough to understand what Asad feels. How many times have Asad tried to confess his feeling to zoya, even though he couldn't, but his action spoke more than words, but zoya is still not aware of that still ( that's what I fell), and here we are telling that Asad can't see what Tanveer is doing, he is blind an bla bla bla, that's becoz he ia busy trying to confess and come true with his feelings to the person he loves. Sorry if I have hurted any sentiments, but that's what I feel. And a quoet for Asad: True friends stab you in the front. ~Oscar Wilde, and I hope Asad will soon realize it.



Thank you so much for sharing the story!!! Totally agree with you on that!!! Asad closed his eyes when Zoya said sorry--it totally hurt Asad--he was hating the whole situation!!!

As far as Zoya is concerned, I am pretty sure that she understood Asad's incomplete confession--he clearly said that we complete each other..she just wants Asad boldly say that he loves her..but she surely knows that he wants to confess..In earlier episodes she didn't wanna hear him out because she thought that he was gonna cancel the nikkah but this week she went and asked him in his room about what he wanted to say and even yesterday she was calm around the table..waiting for him to confess!!!

As much as I hate Tanu, she's only bringing AsYa closer--today we saw a different side in AsYa's relationship!!! Tanu is such an idiot--she's gonna be revealed SUPER soon, I am sure!

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Posted: 12 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: fathima85

well written👏


it is not

only asad had undergone pain or only zoya had undergone pain

its ASYA undergone so much pain during apologising



I know right..AsYa are suffering..it wasnt easy for either of them..both were disturbed by the whole sitution--that scene was really acted well.. Actors very nicely demonstrated the state they both were in!!!

Thank for your comment girl! :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i reaaly feel bad( i said that and i will say it again) when u guys didnt try to undertand asad
in todays and not just today but today more
i saw another asad he was compeltely different
i dont understand how u coudnt see his act his face his expressions thas prove he trust her
ofcourse he does
he didnt mention that he didnt trust her and didnt mention that tanveer is not lying
he was trying to get something from zoya some proof and he give her the right to defend herself
this is the first time asad WAS READY TO BELEIVE THAT TANVEER IS LYING AND HE ALSO DOUBT HER
but when zoya failed to prove it and because tanveer is his friend and there is noo proof so he will not get her out of his house
and the fact he made her say sorry maybe many people hate it but i love it
i know zoya is right but this scene make me feel the love between them ;how they are related to eachother how much she is a part of him and his house
its not just mitwa moments who make me feel their love
its those situation who make me see many side of their love
asad didnt make zoya say sorry because he think she is lying or he treat her like a child no
he was trying to make everything ok,
it was paintful scene but i thank cvs for this scene and escpecially when zoya did what asad ask her
and i dont understand why people say than when zoya appologie that mean she loose and tanveer won
for me i dont thik that at all even asad respect zoya more when she did what he told her
asad was sure zoya is not wrong and i am sure he was hurt more than her when she said sorry
because he felt like he forced her to say sorry even she was right, asad hate the whole situation but he doesnt have any other choices
look at him when she said sorry and u will understand
for him he maybe value her more so why do you think she shouldnt appologie
and asad still ready to hear zoya even after she appologie
asad today WAS TOTALLY DIFF AND FOR ME HE WAS NOT WRON OR SELFESH OR JERK . HE WAS NOT AT ALLL
as i read somewhere the scene reveal that in a relationship there is not who is wrong and who is right but its all about respect and trust(and dont say asad didnt trust her he DID)
Edited by Ilhamez - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumitbigfan

I loved them both and this will ring the bell of trust, faith and respect slowly...



Me tooo! Loved AsYa!!! I hate when these two go through this--but it's refining their relationship..Tanu is involuntarily making their relationship stronger!!!

Thanks for commenting! :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I definitely see the progress in him I mean he straight up told Zoya she was a part of the family and indirectly told her he was getting her to apologize because as a member of his family it is her duty to treat the guest right and stuff!
But no I don't think I agree with him and I stand by Zoya as a girl she has the right to have a little bit trust from the guy she is going to get married they could have at least showed him talking to her about it and asking her nicely to explain how she feels. Or at least have Zoya tell him what she told Dilshad about not feeling even a little bit trusted by Asad. I think that is something they should put in the story not really Asad's fault just I feel there is a lack of communication between the two they definitely need a scene where they confront each other on this whole tanveer and trust issue without the family around

But what really got me is when Zoya said I am sorry Tanveer there were tears in Zoya's eyes he didn't even look he just said are you okay tanu? that kinda really pissed me off! so for now I am a little pissed at him but I agree with you that no people shouldn't judge him base on his track record. I am just talking about today's episode usually I think I agree with his practical approach to everything
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think there was any progress nor has anything changed in his behavior. Previously he used to bark and scream at her with insults demeaning and insulting her...now he does the same in a more refined and civilized way. It's insulting and mistrusting nevertheless.

BTW...he is not in love. You simply cannot profess to love someone and watch her in tears and humiliated. Zoya did have tears and was humiliated when she was asked to apologize and she did it for him but did he care...NO. He was more concerned for his supposedly best friend who he didn't have a relationship for 10 years than the woman he says he loves. So going by love and trust...are we not to believe that he loves his darling Tannu.

My opinion...no offence.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post, Completely agree with everything you said. Since we both have the same deewangi for Asad, couldn't resist adding my 2 cents.Today, for the first time, Asad could feel Zoya's pain and humiliation when she was saying sorry. Usually, somebody had to come and make him realize that he hurt her. Till then, he would never regret or realize his mistake. Here, too, it's gonna take some time for the truth to come out but till then, it is refreshing to see Asad being so much more patient and willing to listen to Zoya. It also shows that he is starting to trust Zoya otherwise he wouldn't have said what he did. And yea, I hated that he asked her to say sorry and that too so vehemently but in that situation and knowing his character, it made sense. He wanted to end the argument then and there but I think we have a little more misunderstanding happening tomorrow. Really hoping its the last one. Kinda sick of Tanu constantly winning. I think the CVs need to smarten our protagonists. Asad needs to start thinking a little more and Zoya needs to be less impulsive (really think things through). I want Asad to somehow catch Tanu but Tanu not knowing that Asad is on to her. I want Asad to bring out her truth and not Zoya. Of course, there has to be an emotional and regretful Asad after but I still would like Asad to catch on before Zoya actually brings out the truth. There has to be a nice confrontational scene too but I want that somehow, Asad makes Tanu confess her own crimes in front of him and everyone else as that will make the confrontation much stronger and fun for us to watch. It will also help redeem Asad a little bit 😉

Honestly, I kinda feel bad for him. Obviously, the entire situation sucks for Zoya but I can feel for Asad as well. For a person who has grown up not being able to trust anyone but his mom, sis and I guess, Tanu, it can't be easy beginning to trust someone completely from the outside and completely opposite to him. It can't be easy for him having to be stuck between his best friend and the love of his life. People are saying that Asad doesn't trust Zoya but then the question comes does Zoya trust Asad? I don't think so. She trusts him to be there when she is in a problem but beyond that, I don't think so.They still are using Dilshad as their medium and catalyst. Although he loves Zoya, they still haven't gotten to the stage where they completely trust and understand each other and are open about their feelings. I think once Tanu's truth comes out, then we will get to see a true growth in character as well as trust. I'm just hoping once all this is done, he also has the courage and guts to say sorry to her in front of everyone. The confession should happen only then and I think that like the sorry, the confession should also happen in front of everyone just like in the airport
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: niki_12

Lovely post and very true! I agree Asad has shown so much development and only Zoya resides in his heart. His love is evolving and growing. We cannot expect Asad to turn into a lovey dovey jhoru ka gulam over night. It is his personality and zoya's also which makes ASYA so unique.


I can see why the apology did not go down with many fans, but Asad's emotions of making Zoya say sorry were also evident. In his mind and heart, he has brought Zoya to a level where he expects her and wants her to be right. Asad has always lived in a self-created "perfect" world and now he wants Zoya to be "perfect" as well. His Zoya.

Billi has played her cards well, and Asad's actions are justified. I would not say that his stupidity is justified but I blame the cv's for that. I am sure we will soon get a big twist: maybe Asad has been doubting Billi (would explain his words and his emotions today and in the past week) or a HUGE redemption track which will further develop Asad's personality, ideals, and ultimately his relationship with his Zoya.

Rashid's entry can go several ways. However, I hope it only helps ASYA. Billi needs to be exposed soon. Hopefully after the fake burn fiasco tomorrow, we start seeing Billi's downfall.

Rashid's entry can help or hurt his relationship with Asad. I have a feeling that maybe history will repeat. Years ago, Raziya framed Rashid for killing Zoya's mom which caused a huge rift of hatred between Asad and Rashid just a few months ago. What if history repeats, but this time Billi frames Rashid for how she hurts Zoya. (Maybe Rashid catches Billi hurting Zoya and when Asad comes to save her, he misunderstands Rashid). Then Ayaan can possibly come and prove Rashid innocent.

Whatever happens, I just hope the story starts moving next week and the subtle developments should be paced up.

Asad is in for a big surprise when Billi is revealed. If he is really clueless about Billi, then he is not trusting Zoya because of who she is (his preconceived notions and Zoya's past actions) however I feel that when Billi hurts Zoya (hopefully by trying to burn her), it won't be the same Zoya. Zoya will emotionally withdraw (due to past memories of the fire) and that's where Asad's redemption comes in. Asad and his love will try to bring Zoya back and Ayaan can help with all this. Another layer will be created if Asad blames Rashid for what happened to Zoya.

This goes back to the Sangeet Song. After the fire, Zoya will be "kaanch ki gudiya" (emotionless), Asad will be the "pind da shera" (his love will always come first for Zoya), and Ayaan will narrate and guide Asad through this. I can't wait to see Asad caring for Zoya.

Looks like I deviated from your post, sorry about that. But I agree, Asad loves Zoya and there is no denying that. Just because he does not react the way we want him to does not mean he does not deserve Zoya. We all keep forgetting that Billi has only brought ASYA close and she will continue to do so. All her acts will come back and bite her and a stronger than ever ASYA will emerge. Just hope cv's pick up the pace next week (now that ipl is over and sj and ksg got their days off as well).

-niki



Thank you so much!! You write so well yourself!

I loved AsYa's scenes today--didn't love the situation they both were in--but loved their expressions..their eyes..unspoken words..their pain..Their relationship is being refined..it may not look like it but they are definitely growing in their relationship everyday..

I am not sure why Rashid was shown today out of no where...I wonder if he has a major part in AsYa's love story (apart from Zoya's mom saazish). What do you mean by "Another layer will be created if Asad blames Rashid for what happened to Zoya." I wanna know your point on this--making me curious!!!

"however I feel that when Billi hurts Zoya (hopefully by trying to burn her), it won't be the same Zoya. Zoya will emotionally withdraw (due to past memories of the fire) and that's where Asad's redemption comes in. Asad and his love will try to bring Zoya back and Ayaan can help with all this"
I CAN'T WAIT FOR THIS!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hi all

i am new and a silent reader but having read most of the comments/post today i felt like saying something.

Hoping no-one will get upset please.

Beshak Zoya nai sacch bolha aur saboot nahi tha us -kai pas, aur -us- nai Asad kai kehnai par sorry bolha, yai bhi aik azmaish hai un dono ke liya.
"Sorry" bolkar koi chotha nahi hota par Asad keliya yai uskai pyar ki jeet hai.

To me yai eik imthihaan tha aur Zoya pass hogai with flying colours and it will show them coming together in respecting and understanding each other inshallah.👍🏼

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