I am with you, Asad!

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Most of us know what to expect on the forum after the episode has aired each day!--I did expect negative reactions on Asad asking Zoya to apologize but I didn't expect this much anger towards him--not this time at least--he showed growth in his character today--but O well most people just chose to ignore that..but that's fine..we all have opinions..I just hope that people don't make their opinions based on Asad's track record..and give him a little bit of credit at least for trying to change!

Just kinda confused--Why do people almost on purpose neglect the good side of Asad and focus on the what they think is bad--it seems as if they have made up their mind about Asad and they fail to notice the positive aspects in his character!!! Not saying that Asad is perfect..we all know that he has a lot of issues..but for a change, could we look at the scenes from his side too? We love Zoya and hate to watch her cry--we see tears in her eyes..but why do we not read Asad's eyes?

How many of you noticed a different Asad today? Do I really have to point out the changes in him--weren't they obvious?

I read a few posts..and some people have pointed out the significant changes in Asad so if I write them again..it would just sound repetitive..I don't see the need to write about the changes in him because if you watched the episode from AsYa's side then you totally caught the changes in Asad but if you watched it from only Zoya's side then no matter what I write you are gonna continue to stay frustrated with Asad!!
A big THANKS to all those who wrote about Asad's heart too and what he went through today..Y'all wrote amazing and I have nothing to add to that--I am just here requesting everyone else to give Asad a chance..and that might make Qubool Hai more interesting and enjoyable to you!

People are even questioning if Asad really loves Zoya..seriously gals..is this even a question?..are you kidding me? Of course he loves Zoya... People forget that Asad is someone who is "learning to love". He didn't just get up one day with a PhD in "love". Love for a girl is something new to him..AND just because Asad doesn't love Zoya the way that we want him to love, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love Zoya with all his heart!

Some people are saying that Zoya should walk out on Asad--Really? Do you really want this to happen? Wouldn't that be Tanveer's victory? Please rethink!

"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is LOVE." — 1 Corinthians 13:13
Asad may not be at the point where he can trust Zoya blindly but he has got a hold of something priceless that will eventually teach him to trust Zoya too--He has got a hold of LOVE--the most powerful and greatest thing in the world.

That's all I got for now!
I would love to hear from you!
Love y'all!

Postivity positivity positivity! I LIKE IT!

With due respect women always look things from a woman's POV and I guess that's the reason many of us feel for Zoya.
Anyway coming to the point yes Asad is learning to love but then Zoya is also tolerating him with all his faults right?
That way we won't have any discussions at all since this show is about them and they will be together.
But from a viewers POv Asads POV can be UNDERSTOOD but not JUSTIFIED.
As in I understand he is learning but I won't /can't justify his actions.
To me love means give all or none at all. Yes Asad is learning but he is still not there to be called a soulmate a lover for Zoya.i understand him not ready to fall in love or confess but now he crossed that bridge and decided to comfess. Yes he couldnot but he tried and hence is ready for the next level. Now if he is ready for it then he has to accept Zoya wholeheartedly.
Now if we are talking about Asad knows Tanveer and playing then its a different matter altogether but if he doesn't and still is not ready to believe Zoya without proof even after she said that she saw everything herself then I feel he should have cross checked again and again himself before jumping the gun.
He never tried to find Tanveers hubby who supposedly attacks her all the time , that too in the midst of many people mostly. He never called police even after his do called friend told him that her supposed hubby is trying to kill her constantly
He was scared of Maryam because he thought people might come to hurt her and his family might get caught in between and get hurt. Now even after Zoya almost died for Tanveer( according to him)forget keeping an eye on Zoya and other family he didn't feel like getting security for them except for being Tanveers shadow.
There are many such things.
Sorry but I can't justify him.

actually he was z most pained coz when Zoya is hurt he feels zat pain twice as much as zo so I dont blame Asad coz he was not even biased coz am sure if he had seen z bills 100% he would have really make that witch answer each and every question of Zoya 😊

This all is Tanu and Cvs fault...Not Asads...so I have NVERE understood why people even bash him...Yes not linking something he does...I understand...But end of the day its not his fault if Tanu is a witch...he was just doing what he thought was right...Today what he did was from our POV WRONG...as we KNOW Zoya was right, but he doesnt know what we know so...all in all he was doing what he should have...But that doesnt mean that we liked it...and again Yeh Sab iss TANU ka kia dahra hai...so anyone who we should bash is Tanu and Not Asad...

Originally posted by: neenabinu

<font color="#660066">hi... as usual love the quotes...</font>

<font color="#660066">hmm u r right Asad has evolved a lot especially concerning Zoya...</font>

<font color="#660066">but yet that sorry scene was painful to watch... I guess its my love for Zoya speaking up...</font>

<font color="#660066">to say sorry when u know u r not wrong is hurtful...</font>

Thanks!!! That scene was totally painful--painful to see Zoya going through that and painful to see Asad disturbed with the whole situation. Painful to watch their relationship going through so much problems because of an evil woman!!!

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

Postivity positivity positivity! I LIKE IT!

Asking to see from Asad's side.

Asking to see the good in Asad.

Asking to see the changes in Asad.

Asking to not always think bad of Asad.

Its all asking too much apparently.

Asking to talk about the good and positive things and not only the negative. (Discussing the negative is always the easier thing to do here😳)

I didn't like that he asked her to say sorry but I still liked the scene in terms of his approach to Zoya. He was calm and collected... that is progress man.

Nice post 😊

Thanks girl!!! I just want people to see both sides of the coin, that's it! :)

Originally posted by: trina2010

With due respect women always look things from a woman's POV and I guess that's the reason many of us feel for Zoya.
Anyway coming to the point yes Asad is learning to love but then Zoya is also tolerating him with all his faults right?
That way we won't have any discussions at all since this show is about them and they will be together.
But from a viewers POv Asads POV can be UNDERSTOOD but not JUSTIFIED.
As in I understand he is learning but I won't /can't justify his actions.
To me love means give all or none at all. Yes Asad is learning but he is still not there to be called a soulmate a lover for Zoya.i understand him not ready to fall in love or confess but now he crossed that bridge and decided to comfess. Yes he couldnot but he tried and hence is ready for the next level. Now if he is ready for it then he has to accept Zoya wholeheartedly.
Now if we are talking about Asad knows Tanveer and playing then its a different matter altogether but if he doesn't and still is not ready to believe Zoya without proof even after she said that she saw everything herself then I feel he should have cross checked again and again himself before jumping the gun.
He never tried to find Tanveers hubby who supposedly attacks her all the time , that too in the midst of many people mostly. He never called police even after his do called friend told him that her supposed hubby is trying to kill her constantly
He was scared of Maryam because he thought people might come to hurt her and his family might get caught in between and get hurt. Now even after Zoya almost died for Tanveer( according to him)forget keeping an eye on Zoya and other family he didn't feel like getting security for them except for being Tanveers shadow.
There are many such things.
Sorry but I can't justify him.

Like I said, Asad has a ton of issues--he has a LONG way to go..but I just want us to not miss the subtle changes in him..his journey has just begun..he will get there eventually!!! He's just taking his sweet time!

Thank you so much for taking to the time to read my post and your feedback! :)

Originally posted by: lavalina

actually he was z most pained coz when Zoya is hurt he feels zat pain twice as much as zo so I dont blame Asad coz he was not even biased coz am sure if he had seen z bills 100% he would have really make that witch answer each and every question of Zoya 😊

Thanks got your comment!!!
He looked totally disturbed with the whole situation!! AsYa were suffering mentally and emtionally in that scene!!! So sad that AsYa have to go through all this junk because of a "friend".