I am with you, Asad! - Page 4

Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani

Great post, Completely agree with everything you said. Since we both have the same deewangi for Asad, couldn't resist adding my 2 cents.Today, for the first time, Asad could feel Zoya's pain and humiliation when she was saying sorry. Usually, somebody had to come and make him realize that he hurt her. Till then, he would never regret or realize his mistake. Here, too, it's gonna take some time for the truth to come out but till then, it is refreshing to see Asad being so much more patient and willing to listen to Zoya. It also shows that he is starting to trust Zoya otherwise he wouldn't have said what he did. And yea, I hated that he asked her to say sorry and that too so vehemently but in that situation and knowing his character, it made sense. He wanted to end the argument then and there but I think we have a little more misunderstanding happening tomorrow.Really hoping its the last one. Kinda sick of Tanu constantly winning.I think the CVs need to smarten our protagonists. Asad needs to start thinking a little more and Zoya needs to be less impulsive (really think things through).I want Asad to somehow catch Tanu but Tanu not knowing that Asad is on to her. I want Asad to bring out her truth and not Zoya. Of course, there has to be an emotional and regretful Asad after but I still would like Asad to catch on before Zoya actually brings out the truth. There has to be a nice confrontational scene too but I want that somehow, Asad makes Tanu confess her own crimes in front of him and everyone else as that will make the confrontation much stronger and fun for us to watch. It will also help redeem Asad a little bit😉

Honestly, I kinda feel bad for him. Obviously, the entire situation sucks for Zoya but I can feel for Asad as well. For a person who has grown up not being able to trust anyone but his mom, sis and I guess, Tanu, it can't be easy beginning to trust someone completely from the outside and completely opposite to him. It can't be easy for him having to be stuck between his best friend and the love of his life. People are saying that Asad doesn't trust Zoya but then the question comes does Zoya trust Asad? I don't think so. She trusts him to be there when she is in a problem but beyond that, I don't think so.They still are using Dilshad as their medium and catalyst.Although he loves Zoya, they still haven't gotten to the stage where they completely trust and understand each other and are open about their feelings.I think once Tanu's truth comes out, then we will get to see a true growth in character as well as trust. I'm just hoping once all this is done, he also has the courage and guts to say sorry to her in front of everyone. The confession should happen only then and I think that like the sorry, the confession should also happen in front of everyone just like in the airport

Girl, I was hoping that you would read my post since we both are Asad's Diwani ;) I haven't read your comment yet so I am gonna do it now! :)
#GoTeamAsad #MissionDefendAsad 😆

Originally posted by: mbficoa1987

Thank you so much!! You write so well yourself!

I loved AsYa's scenes today--didn't love the situation they both were in--but loved their expressions..their eyes..unspoken words..their pain..Their relationship is being refined..it may not look like it but they are definitely growing in their relationship everyday..

I am not sure why Rashid was shown today out of no where...I wonder if he has a major part in AsYa's love story (apart from Zoya's mom saazish). What do you mean by "Another layer will be created if Asad blames Rashid for what happened to Zoya." I wanna know your point on this--making me curious!!!

"however I feel that when Billi hurts Zoya (hopefully by trying to burn her), it won't be the same Zoya. Zoya will emotionally withdraw (due to past memories of the fire) and that's where Asad's redemption comes in. Asad and his love will try to bring Zoya back and Ayaan can help with all this"
I CAN'T WAIT FOR THIS!

Originally posted by: Ilhamez

i reaaly feel bad( i said that and i will say it again) when u guys didnt try to undertand asad

in todays and not just today but today more

i saw another asad he was compeltely different

i dont understand how u coudnt see his act his face his expressions thas prove he trust her

ofcourse he does

he didnt mention that he didnt trust her and didnt mention that tanveer is not lying

he was trying to get something from zoya some proof and he give her the right to defend herself

this is the first time asad WAS READY TO BELEIVE THAT TANVEER IS LYING AND HE ALSO DOUBT HER

but when zoya failed to prove it and because tanveer is his friend and there is noo proof so he will not get her out of his house

and the fact he made her say sorry maybe many people hate it but i love it

i know zoya is right but this scene make me feel the love between them ;how they are related to eachother how much she is a part of him and his house

its not just mitwa moments who make me feel their love

its those situation who make me see many side of their love

asad didnt make zoya say sorry because he think she is lying or he treat her like a child no

he was trying to make everything ok,

it was paintful scene but i thank cvs for this scene and escpecially when zoya did what asad ask her

and i dont understand why people say than when zoya appologie that mean she loose and tanveer won

for me i dont thik that at all even asad respect zoya more when she did what he told her

asad was sure zoya is not wrong and i am sure he was hurt more than her when she said sorry

because he felt like he forced her to say sorry even she was right, asad hate the whole situation but he doesnt have any other choices

look at him when she said sorry and u will understand

for him he maybe value her more so why do you think she shouldnt appologie

and asad still ready to hear zoya even after she appologie

asad today WAS TOTALLY DIFF AND FOR ME HE WAS NOT WRON OR SELFESH OR JERK . HE WAS NOT AT ALLL

as i read somewhere the scene reveal that in a relationship there is not who is wrong and who is right but its all about respect and trust(and dont say asad didnt trust her he DID)

Loved what you wrote and AGREE especially this part: "he didnt mention that he didnt trust her and didnt mention that tanveer is not lying he was trying to get something from zoya some proof and he give her the right to defend herself."

Thanks for the feedback girl! :)

i agree to each and every word of urs

Originally posted by: mbficoa1987

Thank you so much!! You write so well yourself!

Lol thank you :)

I loved AsYa's scenes today--didn't love the situation they both were in--but loved their expressions..their eyes..unspoken words..their pain..Their relationship is being refined..it may not look like it but they are definitely growing in their relationship everyday..

I agree there was a lot of things which were unsaid yet spoke volumes.

I am not sure why Rashid was shown today out of no where...I wonder if he has a major part in AsYa's love story (apart from Zoya's mom saazish). What do you mean by "Another layer will be created if Asad blames Rashid for what happened to Zoya." I wanna know your point on this--making me curious!!!

I mean what if Rashid catches Billi hurting Zoya but by the time Asad comes and saves her, he misunderstands and think its Rashid hurting Zoya, possibly because Rashid is very very low in Asad's eyes and cannot see Asad's or his family's happiness. In the past Asad has blamed Rashid for a unknown (Zoya's mom) woman's death, for hurting his mother, for abandoning him and his family, but if Asad blames Rashid for trying to hurt Zoya in order to ruin their happiness, all the dynamics will change once again. Rashid throughout the show has been a scapegoat, and the biggest culprit of all that is wrong in Asad's eyes. This will take Asad's hatred to the next level. Ayaan and Asad's relationship will change, Asad and Dilshad's relationship will change also. Today Dilshad mentioned how Zoya is the closest to him, if Rashid is "hurting" Zoya, Asad will go crazy and his hatred will be taken to the next level also.

I may be going crazy saying all this but I have seen parallels throughout the story. And for some reason I feel Raziya hurting Zoya's mom and framing Rashid will parallel Billi hurting Zoya and framing Rashid. The animosity between the two houses will further grow. I may be totally wrong, and I am really hoping instead of Rashid being blamed, Billi gets exposed. However, I WANT asad to save Zoya-Managlpur style!

"however I feel that when Billi hurts Zoya (hopefully by trying to burn her), it won't be the same Zoya. Zoya will emotionally withdraw (due to past memories of the fire) and that's where Asad's redemption comes in. Asad and his love will try to bring Zoya back and Ayaan can help with all this"
I CAN'T WAIT FOR THIS!

Me too and I hope the cv's explore this angle. There has to be a reason why Billi heard Asad and Aapi's conversation of how Zoya is scared of fire and what her past was like. I want to see Asad helping Zoya overcome her fears and standing by her side.

I was sooo happy with his changes today. Calling her family and Tanveer a friend/guest of the family...that was by far the best. And then also how he said its not that he doesn't believe her but that she just didnt give him proof. That part is split 50/50 for me. On one hand, at least he's saying that even though proof is not on her side, he still believes in her. But on the other side, when you love someone, shouldn't you trust them and try to help them instead of waiting for her to give you tangible evidence? That was the only part that was like "ehh" but still the positive changes in Asad definitely outweighed that one little thing and like you said, its a growing process...he's not there yet..but he'll get there soon :)

I'm glad that I'm not the only one on Asad side.

Originally posted by: -CreativeSoul-

I definitely see the progress in him I mean he straight up told Zoya she was a part of the family and indirectly told her he was getting her to apologize because as a member of his family it is her duty to treat the guest right and stuff!

But no I don't think I agree with him and I stand by Zoya as a girl she has the right to have a little bit trust from the guy she is going to get married they could have at least showed him talking to her about it and asking her nicely to explain how she feels. Or at least have Zoya tell him what she told Dilshad about not feeling even a little bit trusted by Asad. I think that is something they should put in the story not really Asad's fault just I feel there is a lack of communication between the two they definitely need a scene where they confront each other on this whole tanveer and trust issue without the family around

But what really got me is when Zoya said I am sorry Tanveer there were tears in Zoya's eyes he didn't even look he just said are you okay tanu? that kinda really pissed me off! so for now I am a little pissed at him but I agree with you that no people shouldn't judge him base on his track record. I am just talking about today's episode usually I think I agree with his practical approach to everything

I loved the part when Asad looks into Zoya's eyes and tell her "aap iss ghar ka hisa hain."

Asad has a lot of flaws (I blame his past for that). There are a ton of things that I don't like about Asad..so many things that I too disagree with..BUT my whole point is that we should acknowledge the good side of him too! He has come a long way and he still has a long way to go--slowly but surely he will get there! His journey has just begun!

Thanks for taking the time to read the post and your comment! :)

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I don't think there was any progress nor has anything changed in his behavior. Previously he used to bark and scream at her with insults demeaning and insulting her...now he does the same in a more refined and civilized way. It's insulting and mistrusting nevertheless.

BTW...he is not in love. You simply cannot profess to love someone and watch her in tears and humiliated. Zoya did have tears and was humiliated when she was asked to apologize and she did it for him but did he care...NO. He was more concerned for his supposedly best friend who he didn't have a relationship for 10 years than the woman he says he loves. So going by love and trust...are we not to believe that he loves his darling Tannu.

My opinion...no offence.

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"More refined and civilized way"..isn't that a change..a progress..may not be big but it's there!

I disagree with your love statement! Asad brought Zoya to tears today, he will wipe those tears tomorrow.. Just because he made Zoya cry doesn't mean that he doesn't love Zoya.
Asad just doesn't know in "totality"--not just yet--what love is BUT Asad loves Zoya with ALL the little knowledge that he has about love.

Asad has a lot of flaws (I blame his past for that). There are a ton of things that I don't like about Asad..so many things that I too disagree with..BUT my whole point is that we should acknowledge the good side of him too! He has come a long way and he still has a long way to go--slowly but surely he will get there! His journey has just begun!

Thanks a lot for the feedback!!! Love getting different point of views! :)

Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani

Great post, Completely agree with everything you said. Since we both have the same deewangi for Asad, couldn't resist adding my 2 cents.Today, for the first time, Asad could feel Zoya's pain and humiliation when she was saying sorry. Usually, somebody had to come and make him realize that he hurt her. Till then, he would never regret or realize his mistake. Here, too, it's gonna take some time for the truth to come out but till then, it is refreshing to see Asad being so much more patient and willing to listen to Zoya. It also shows that he is starting to trust Zoya otherwise he wouldn't have said what he did. And yea, I hated that he asked her to say sorry and that too so vehemently but in that situation and knowing his character, it made sense. He wanted to end the argument then and there but I think we have a little more misunderstanding happening tomorrow.Really hoping its the last one. Kinda sick of Tanu constantly winning.I think the CVs need to smarten our protagonists. Asad needs to start thinking a little more and Zoya needs to be less impulsive (really think things through).I want Asad to somehow catch Tanu but Tanu not knowing that Asad is on to her. I want Asad to bring out her truth and not Zoya. Of course, there has to be an emotional and regretful Asad after but I still would like Asad to catch on before Zoya actually brings out the truth. There has to be a nice confrontational scene too but I want that somehow, Asad makes Tanu confess her own crimes in front of him and everyone else as that will make the confrontation much stronger and fun for us to watch. It will also help redeem Asad a little bit😉

Honestly, I kinda feel bad for him. Obviously, the entire situation sucks for Zoya but I can feel for Asad as well. For a person who has grown up not being able to trust anyone but his mom, sis and I guess, Tanu, it can't be easy beginning to trust someone completely from the outside and completely opposite to him. It can't be easy for him having to be stuck between his best friend and the love of his life. People are saying that Asad doesn't trust Zoya but then the question comes does Zoya trust Asad? I don't think so. She trusts him to be there when she is in a problem but beyond that, I don't think so.They still are using Dilshad as their medium and catalyst.Although he loves Zoya, they still haven't gotten to the stage where they completely trust and understand each other and are open about their feelings.I think once Tanu's truth comes out, then we will get to see a true growth in character as well as trust. I'm just hoping once all this is done, he also has the courage and guts to say sorry to her in front of everyone. The confession should happen only then and I think that like the sorry, the confession should also happen in front of everyone just like in the airport

Thanks girl!

So true!!! He could not see Zoya's tears, humiliation and all that she was going through..he closed his eyes when Zoya said Sorry--the situation hurt him as much as it hurt Zoya!

Everyone expected him to yell, shout, holler at Zoya but he didn't..that truly was a refreshing change.. I am glad that we witnessed somewhat a different Asad after his realization of love for Zoya!

I didn't hate the sorry part as much as I hated that he checked on Tanu if she was okay after Zoya's sorry--and walked away with her--(he did look into Zoya's eyes at that time--maybe he wanted to get away from Zoya..couldn't see her in tears that he brought in her eyes?)...But that's Asad for us..an imperfect man..I have written it before, Asad has a lot of flaws (I blame his past for that). There are a ton of things that I don't like about Asad..so many things that I too disagree with..BUT my whole point is that we should acknowledge the good side of him too! He has come a long way and he still has a long way to go--slowly but surely he will get there! His journey has just begun!

I have a feeling that "burn marks" scene is gonna be the last one..something fresh is gonna happen starting next week..we won't get the same "Tanu winning; Zoya losing" scenes..hopefully we get a new promo this weekend..

I definitely see Mangalpur part 2 happening, hopefully SOON!--Remember in Akram's case, Asad asked Zoya to go and apologize or at least explain to Akram why she ran away..and Zoya felt humiliated but still decided to go? I have a feeling that's what's gonna happen starting next week..I mean..Zoya wouldn't reveal Tanu..she may not get a chance..she will get in danger before she knows all about Tanu..As of now Zoya only knows that Tanu is lying and Zoya is trying to figure out why Tanu is lying..I think that Zoya won't get to know the whole story..Tanveer will harm Zoya before Zoya can ever figure out..then Asad will find out about Tanu somehow..he will catch her red-handed..just like he found about Akram after making phone calls and visiting the meeting place that he has arranged..and then saved Zoya at the nikkah spot...I too so want Asad to be the one to actually know about all Tanu's intentions!!!

I too felt super bad for Asad!! Obviously hated what Zoya was going through but Asad was in a tight situation too.. But hey, these are Tanu's last few days as Asad's bestie..so that's something that we can look forward to and smile! :)

Thanks for the feedback!