The Bowl of Contention - Page 5

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

That is a disgusting book which doesn't even deserve a mention. 🤢

For the kind of BG that Gul has written for Zoya she isn't living up to it at all.

Originally posted by: bhavnahm

Really wanted such a topic at this point of QH where characters are actually taking a different phase.

I don't mind the way Asad is, in reality such men do exist and initially QH was about a orthodox, disciplined, traditional young man and a free spirited, feisty, liberal young woman, how they accept each other and bring changes(positive) in each other's life. What I am missing is the feisty young woman who has become a total dumb, the girl who had strong sixth sense or practical approach(mangalpur, post-Dilshi shooting) has lost it all, the emotion of love has totally changed her character.

I agree in reality love effects us, our thinking capability that too if we are confused about the feelings of the guy we love but it doesn't make us loose our original character or identity completely, we don't take a 180 degree turn. It's totally unrealistic that being in love changes you to the extent that you loose your original traits and become someone else, love does brings out some changes in our traits but doesn't change us, doesn't change what we are.

It's time Gul gets back the real Zoya whom I fell in love, Zoya who was strong enough to stand for herself yet vulnerable at some point, who had her own mind yet cared for others, who called a spade a spade yet respected people around her, i want that Zoya whom a majority of ordinary girls like me could relate.

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

50 shades was a twilight fanfiction.So i'm not surprised at their similarities. They have the same basic characterization 😆 50 shades is twilight with less vampire and more sex. 😆

Pity it's women who enjoy these book. Let's all pray for humanity. 😆

Originally posted by: -Racha-

Qubool Hai is starting to lose some of its magic on me because the characters are not acting the way they should. Zoya letting Asad walk over her over and over and over is getting on my nerves. Rather than developing the characters and moving the story forward all Gul is showing is repetitive dialogues and eye lock scenes that are not vital to the story. I am with the opinion that Zoya needs to stand up for herself.Once she stands up for herself Asad's character will automatically have to be shown changing and learning to respect and accept Zoya the way she is.

Asad was shown to be a man of principles, values and respectful of others, someone who uphelds relationships and justice. And yes a smart and sauve businessman. He never raises his voice in front of his mother and regards her highly. But as the show progressed for whatever ridiculous reasons-the Story writers started to ruin the basic characteristics of these actors. Asad starts to say mean things, yells in front of his mother, argues with her against his father, gets him arrested etc and is increasing rude and says cruel words to her like you don't deserve mother, family, misfit, clumsy, unreliable and so on. He had even slapped her!! Difficult to believe since Dilshad comes across as a very sensitive woman who would not rear a child who hits others. A person who underwent pain as child would understand the pain of others more rather than being harsh and rude. The way he dealt with Haseena bi and her brother has turned into a simpleton. He has infact lost his business acumen and turning into a naivet and gullible. He is becoming a trickster's delight😆😆.

Worst is everything is justified in the name of Mitwa, Eyelocks and trippings. Is that how women really feel? Can they forgive the hurt and pain?

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

WORD

Really you've just like read my mind.

@Bold

That girls of today can relate to.

Originally posted by: delena90

@bold - BDSM was written and portrayed really badly in that book and frankly the kinky sadistic pleasure is something that is derived by both parties and is solely restricted to sex. That's a personal choice as different things turn different people on.

But I do agree with your point.

Originally posted by: Rockerchic

WORD

Really you've just like read my mind.

@Bold

That girls of today can relate to.

Originally posted by: realitybites

(Reposting)

Zoya was one character which was spunky, brave, self-respecting, progressing and yet caring, understanding, innocent and rooted. She fights back to injustice and wrongdoings. In her first encounter she gives it back to Mr KHan without any fear. All her initial encounters showed her as a person with high self-esteem and who did not take any insults from anyone. But now all that has been lost, she is tongue tied, submissive and turning into a doormat. She keeps absorbing everything like a sponge and the inflow never stops🤢🤢. The transformation is radical and unjustified. Now she seems to be the typical bahu of the forerunner of TV soaps, who mercifully have changed themselves and moved to being more contemporary.

Asad was shown to be a man of principles, values and respectful of others, someone who uphelds relationships and justice. And yes a smart and sauve businessman. He never raises his voice in front of his mother and regards her highly. But as the show progressed for whatever ridiculous reasons-the Story writers started to ruin the basic characteristics of these actors. Asad starts to say mean things, yells in front of his mother, argues with her against his father, gets him arrested etc and is increasing rude and says cruel words to her like you don't deserve mother, family, misfit, clumsy, unreliable and so on. He had even slapped her!! Difficult to believe since Dilshad comes across as a very sensitive woman who would not rear a child who hits others. A person who underwent pain as child would understand the pain of others more rather than being harsh and rude. The way he dealt with Haseena bi and her brother has turned into a simpleton. He has infact lost his business acumen and turning into a naivet and gullible. He is becoming a trickster's delight😆😆.

Worst is everything is justified in the name of Mitwa, Eyelocks and trippings. Is that how women really feel? Can they forgive the hurt and pain?