Asad & Zoe : Two home truths. - Page 3

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Wonderfully put..Asad acts like he is emotionally challenged to camouflage his real self..He is extremely vulnerable on the inside and is actually the most emotional on the show..Zoya on the other hand puts up the facade of being this fun loving, happy go lucky girl when in reality she is as damaged as Asad and tries her best to run way from intense emotions and make light of the situation..Zoya's volte face in yesterday's epi is a classic example of this trait of hers..The only way to deal with their emotions is for them to understand eachother without the need to verbalize their feelings..The moment either of them open their mouth, they ruin the situation😆


Thank you.😃...Correct. Hence , the Bipolar faces of both Asad and Zoe. Asad is emotionally volatile while Zoe is emotionally desperate - and they both do not want to deal with it. They have to verbalize what they feel , even if it means pushing them to the edge. If they don't, the ruin will be worse , anyway.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: VictoriaHot



<font color="#000066">Thank you, Ameilia and it is so well-said. Yes, both AsYa are damaged people - its just that Zoe knows how to handle her damage as long as it doesn't have to be about dealing with Asad. Asad could never rise from the damage while Zoe hides it. At least, Zoe is trying to live - but now, Asad is a chink in her armour and hence her switch between her two polars have increased.</font>
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very well said! 👏 ur views r so true!
just felt the need to appreciate ur wonderful thoughts on two wonderful people! 😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ras224

bang on vicky👍🏼...asya r lyk these only...andar se kuch aur,aur bahar se kuch aur if u know wat i mean?😉...ALLAH jane whn dey'll open up knowing da fact dat dey luv each other😆
bdw i seriously think zo shud stop calling him emotionally challenged coz he's deffo not dat as u mentioned bt i guess dats her fav way 2 tease him😛
our bipolar asya will sumday obviously mk us tripolar...i'm referring 2 tri as an added version of asya's madness🤣


Thank you. You have to put AsYa in an extreme position to get it out of them that they are mad about each-other. Without a trigger , they will not say anything. So, we have to put them into trouble.

Agar kal ko alag honaa bhi hai , toh usse pehle ek baar saath honaa bhi zaroori hai.😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A wonderfull post, very ture in wat u were saying
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very well said. Beautifully analysed Vicky. They are both extremely vulnerable and emotionally damaged. They both know well to hide their deep rooted fears by putting up a facade. For Asad, it is in the form of denial and Zoe hides her worries and fear under the mask of her usual bubbly self. She fears rejection, hence she needs him to make him a first move and clearly spell it out for her that he loves her. Its her insecurity that prompts her to poke him or repeatedly question him if he actually means it regarding the engagement and if he cares for her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nishitarao

So true. I wonder if we all do this to ourselves in our personal lives..You know..let our past affect our present and future..

It is very easy for us to say "Oh why doesn't he admit it" Or "Why is she expecting a verbal acknowledgement from him?" ..But it is not easy to get rid of those fears and insecurities.. they are very deep rooted..


Thank you.😃...Yes. We do. Only we know our inner demons and what we battle everyday. We all need to be saved from ourselves at one point or the other. Anyone on the outside can only know our face and what we show - not our story.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowmy18

Awesome post asusual vicky!i completely agree with u.

As far as im concerned i just want to see how they will come out of their respective shells and accept tht they love eachother and continue with their lives happily as a couple who r in love because tht is what they are!
im too curious abt their lovestory its really very very unique!
its becoming much more complicated as it is going forward!

lokking forward to them really!


Thank you. :-)...Its unlikely that AsYa will come out of there respective shells unless they are thrown into a situation that leaves them with no other option except accepting that they love each-other.

Complications have not begun yet. To be honest.😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena_lover

beautifully written...nice post


Thank you.😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: VictoriaHot


Thanks. Happy working weekend? Arre, weekend pe kaam kar ke kaun happy hotaa hai?😆...If Asad is scared of emotions , so is Zoe. But their love for each-other will force them to jhakk maaro and deal with the fact that they love each-other and they cannot change it. Acceptance or no acceptance even - they will always be attached.


i know Vicky its horrible working weekends...I have done dat lots!!! but as of now relaxing n enjoying motherhood!!!!!😉😉...(actually not relaxing but!!!!!!!!!lol!!!!!!!!!)...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Beautifully written, and absolutely true. They both hide behind their respective masks. Asad doesn't realize how beautiful love can be because his main example, his abbu and ammi, are separated and have suffered a great deal more than the time they were happy. Zoya has even more emotional damage, if you ask me, because she hides her pain even more than Asad. She smiles more and laughs and makes others laugh to deter them from prying into her monsters. But Asad is able to see through it, like you said, because he sees himself in her, in some respect. And Zoya I think also is falling for him because he her protector, and that's something she grew up without, since she never even knew who her father was. Just my take on the situation. if you think about it, it's a sad reality, that she falls for a man who is her pillar because she had none (a legit one, not like her Jeeju who was more of a friend) throughout her early life.

What do you guys think? :)

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