ASAD SLAP vs ZOYA SLAP - Page 5

Originally posted by: chicksoup

What idea does one get while watching Asad slapping Zoya?

The only idea we all get is that Asad slapped Zoya in anger...it is a flaw in his character.No one praises him for it. And I bet even you won't take random person who hits out at another person in even road rage to the police station. I guess you'd rather try to settle things between thh two parties, as a mediator.

So also, if you see a brother hitting a sister, when he finds she is using drugs...would you bring him to book? You wouldn't be able to justify his action, but it does not warrant a strong action.

It is the same we feel with Asad and Zoya.

It looked like she threatened his Ammi's life with her actions...so he reacted. He does not have to go to jail for it.

Similarly, for Dilshad , Asad has made a very SERIOUS ACCUSATION against his dad without waiting to hear HIS SIDE OF THE STORY...the wife hit out, because she feared for her husband...

The mother hit out because she realised her son was one-track minded...he was putting other people's lives in danger here...esp when she knows how dangerous Rashid's situation actually is...

Do you seriously feel that any girl out there will take the message that it is good to keep silent when someone hits you...wife beating thrives because the women are scared to respond. Zoya definitely did not give any of us that message.

Please don't underrate the women or girls who are watching the show...

You can speak out...NO PROBLEM.

You can say that you don't like to see a woman getting slapped by a man...and I can say that item songs in movies are misleading our youth...I simply feel I have a more valid point...you don't have to agree with me.😊

Originally posted by: Laila2009

No, I don't have to agree with you. However, it does seem to me that you've not read the multiple posts I read justifying the slapping. Even to see it is just a reaction is in itself condoning it. Granted no-one has to go to jail, but that does not make the behavior acceptable either. And no,I do not support hitting someone for doing drugs as an example you have tried to give to justify slapping. That's preposterous. I've worked in research on drug rehabilitation and that is so not one of the treatment options. Unfortunately you'll be very surprised that people could very much take that message as Zoya's character has never said one word against the slap and has remained silent about it. Unfortunately, I see a lot of nativity from a number of posts on this matter and it has really astonished me. It is what prompted me to write to the BCCC.😊

Originally posted by: stacyellowz

it's justified because she's his mother! she has all rights to lay one on him if she thinks he's doing something wrong. however, asad isn't zoya's parent. he therefore DID NOT have the right to slap her. it's not about a man hitting a woman or a woman hitting a man. it's about WHO and not WHAT GENDER.

that's my point of view 😊

Originally posted by: delena90

Hey Laila I am loving the tit for tat that's gonna happen. Another poster to report YAY. And all this while I thought "we" were the trouble makers...the baiters...what were the other really sweet things they said we were? LOL

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Delena,

Any topic that has the word slap gets closed down...so this will be closed soon too.

You have seen only your posts closing down- Both sides of the fence have been treated equally, actually.

Originally posted by: delena90

I have no problem with this thread because it was actually a civil discussion till certain people decided to make it personal. No the thread hasn't been reported but certain extremely rude posters have been. And if you don't mind, I am pretty sure I directed my post at Laila and not you...sure it's a free country and forum and you have a right to respond to me but since it doesn't actually concern you I suggest you don't unnecessarily get into an argument with me.