ASAD SLAP vs ZOYA SLAP - Page 4

Originally posted by: e_enigma

Neither slap needs to be justified. I mean, I get it, once in a while, a mother might slap its child - but that has proved to have no positive conditioning. So, in my opinion, it was wrong for Zoya to get slapped just as it was wrong for Asad to get slapped. Read some studies, negative conditioning has no positive effects. So please people, don't think that anyone has a 'right' to hit anyone...even if they are a parent.

Originally posted by: hirie

no, not the whole get lost part, but to be more sensitive! so if you think you were the only one who could be aggressive in your comments, then its good someone spoke up! perhaps you were hurting their sentiments and in turn you got hurt too when they spoke up

so thats why its important to refrain from personal judgement and also to discuss things in a healthy way as we're on a public platform and discussing something that happened in a daily soap!

Originally posted by: hirie

lets not get personal here raniroxx and laila! ... everyone, just calm down!

OH nonononono...this is not a good topic. Seriously this slap thing cannot be discussed with out drama and people judging each other. Its best to leave it alone :/

Originally posted by: e_enigma

So I don't follow you or anything(pretty new to this show), but I saw some of your posts here, and honestly..bravo. You can hold your own. I applaud you. I tots agree with you btw.

Originally posted by: hirie

if we were really to be stern and implicate the ZOYA-SLAP as "NOT JUSTIFIED" then i'm afraid by international standards, even a mother slapping a son is not justified, as it would be classified as child abuse!

exactly then both is not right

Originally posted by: hirie

if we were really to be stern and implicate the ZOYA-SLAP as "NOT JUSTIFIED" then i'm afraid by international standards, even a mother slapping a son is not justified, as it would be classified as child abuse!

They are both not justified and in fact in my opinion Dilshaad failed as a mother yesterday when she chose to trust a man (Rashid) who has brought nothing but grief and lies to her children. What happened to the strong woman Dilshaad was portrayed to be? All I saw yesterday was a weak, love-sick puppy who has blind faith in a man who cheated on her and is a criminal. And i request nobody argue the point that Rashid is innocent because he IS NOT! The man did not murder someone but he is an accomplice to it and an arsonist. So, Asad was well within his rights to have him arrested. Plus could Dilshaad not see the absolute emotional anguish Asad was in. Shouldn't her first priority be her SON'S mental and emotional state?? 😡

Not condoning either slap. Slapping is not the way to solve problems. Just want to point out one vital difference between Zoya's slap versus Asad's. Zoya was slapped by someone much stronger than her physically. There's no way she could retaliate and win. Jahanpanah 6 pack can send his mother flying if wants to. I know this is taking the situation out of context. But it's fairly true. That said, let me state that Dilshad should not have slapped Asad and I found her completely stupid in that scene.

Also I read on the earlier posts that Razia is bad too and why are her evil tendencies spared. This is bizarre. Razia IS the bad guy. Bad guys do bad things. Such is life. But when good guys do bad things or becomes mainstream. So Razia slapping/threatening to kill someone not nearly as bad as Asad slapping Zoya. Fact.

Oh, and I find it bizarre that is a blanket ban on slap discussion. It's like living in Saudi Arabia. Terrible thing it says about what people find palatable as entertainment.

Originally posted by: wordywoman11

Not condoning either slap. Slapping is not the way to solve problems. Just want to point out one vital difference between Zoya's slap versus Asad's. Zoya was slapped by someone much stronger than her physically. There's no way she could retaliate and win. Jahanpanah 6 pack can send his mother flying if wants to. I know this is taking the situation out of context. But it's fairly true. That said, let me state that Dilshad should not have slapped Asad and I found her completely stupid in that scene.

Also I read on the earlier posts that Razia is bad too and why are her evil tendencies spared. This is bizarre. Razia IS the bad guy. Bad guys do bad things. Such is life. But when good guys do bad things or becomes mainstream. So Razia slapping/threatening to kill someone not nearly as bad as Asad slapping Zoya. Fact.

Oh, and I find it bizarre that is a blanket ban on slap discussion. It's like living in Saudi Arabia. Terrible thing it says about what people find palatable as entertainment.

Originally posted by: hirie

yes, so they showed how asad was sorry after he realized what he'd done was wrong, esp. the whole slapping part. they also showed how someone can be left tormented after such a scene when zoya covered her face while asad was trying to talk to her and she thought he was going to hit her again.

so its not like its gone completely unnoticed and asad thinks it was justified. think the story took care of the whole slapping incident. so wouldnt regard that as much of a moral/social responsibility to rectify in the soap re the whole slapping incident