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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#121

Originally posted by: Just.Shanak
I completely agree with your post. To have Asad redeem himself so lightly and so casually was poor show.
But the worst was Zoya's effort to joke about it, comparing him to the coffee and in a way accepting him as he is..

Thank you - I took a very unpopular stance and am just shocked at the support the post has received.

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delena90

@delena90

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#122

Originally posted by: Laila2009

You also have these one shots where Zoya is apologizing for being at the wrong place at the wrong time and Asad giving a lengthy explanation of how her face got in the way of his fist.

WHAT???!!??? Thank fish I haven't come across those. If I do I might just blow a gasket! *sigh*

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DiamondLife

@DiamondLife

Stunner

+ 15

Posted: 12 years ago

#123

on contrary..sorry to put it here...but cant stop myself.

ASR's first sorry to Khushi was unbelievable..

one can feel the depth and pain...just uttering those 3 words by ASR

Asad dod sy those words..but i did not see much pain or regret

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#124

Originally posted by: DiamondLife
on contrary..sorry to put it here...but cant stop myself.

ASR's first sorry to Khushi was unbelievable..
one can feel the depth and pain...just uttering those 3 words by ASR

Asad dod sy those words..but i did not see much pain or regret

Apologizes can be done in such a beautiful way...they make for some of the best scenes...or confessions of love like Jerry McGuire...

So sad this is so disappointingly unmemorable...could have been a landmark in television.

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Daayan Bai

@KunwaariDaayan

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

#125

Originally posted by Just.Shanak

I completely agree with your post. To have Asad redeem himself so lightly and so casually was poor show.
But the worst was Zoya's effort to joke about it, comparing him to the coffee and in a way accepting him as he is..

Exacltly!She is falling into that vicious cycle that many women fall into of accepting and just putting up with circumstances and adjusting.

When Zoya spat the coffee out and started laughing,I seriously didn't get whether she was laughing and thought it was because Asad said that she can stay as long as she wants at his place...I really thought it was a laughter of sarcasm and taunt that... right!After alll that you've done?.. and then she starts taliking about the taste of the coffee and laughinf and joking about it.😕...All of that was out off place and so off key,that I just had to cringe with embarrassement...to be honest with you... at Zoya for trying to be so ignorant and not address the issue whole heartedly when she had this golden opportunity and the other thing that wa sin bad taste was when she with the click of a finger started to get on a personal level and started talking about his dad...absolute cringe!..She couldn't have got the timing more wrong!🤢🤢

Edited by shaz2009 - 12 years ago

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LadyMcbeth

@LadyMcbeth

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#126

All I can say is ... WORD 👏

Maybe it is okay for some to be slapped, insulted and degraded to the lowest common denominator as long as the person is a hunk with intense looks who condescends to mumble a few words of "sorry" as if he's doing the world a massive favor - only to extract a "sorry" in return, then so be it!

I am just glad I am not one of them ...

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whatthewhat

@whatthewhat

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#127

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth
All I can say is ... WORD 👏

Maybe it is okay for some to be slapped, insulted and degraded to the lowest common denominator as long as the person is a hunk with intense looks who condescends to mumble a few words of "sorry" as if he's doing the world a massive favor - only to extract a "sorry" in return, then so be it!

I am just glad I am not one of them ...

Bang on!!!!

What a bunch of nonsense! You know what's even more amusing is people saying that Asad isn't "perfect"...😲

Hitting women does not make you "flawed" it makes you criminal

Not hitting women doesn't mean "perfection" it just means "not criminal"

Jeez!

Edited by narangi314 - 12 years ago

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#128

Originally posted by: shaz2009
Exacltly!She is falling into that vicious cycle that many women fall into of accepting and just putting up with circumstances and adjusting.
When Zoya spat the coffee out and started laughing,I seriously didn't get whether she was laughing and thought it was because Asad said that she can stay as long as she wants at his place...I really thought it was a laughter of sarcasm and taunt that... right!After alll that you've done?.. and then she starts taliking about the taste of the coffee and laughinf and joking about it.😕...All of that was out off place and so off key,that I just had to cringe with embarrassement...to be honest with you... at Zoya for trying to be so ignorant and not address the issue whole heartedly when she had this golden opportunity and the other thing that wa sin bad taste was when she with the click of a finger started to get on a personal level and started talking about his dad...absolute cringe!..She couldn't have got the timing more wrong!🤢🤢

All of this perpetuates the stereotype that women are not smart, strong or intelligent enough to stand up for their rights..heck that they have none...and that they can be treated like dirt...as long as they guy is super cute.

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#129

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth
All I can say is ... WORD 👏

Maybe it is okay for some to be slapped, insulted and degraded to the lowest common denominator as long as the person is a hunk with intense looks who condescends to mumble a few words of "sorry" as if he's doing the world a massive favor - only to extract a "sorry" in return, then so be it!

I am just glad I am not one of them ...

I am honored. Every word of appreciation means a lot to me...it means that I have not spent my life "withering away as a wallflower" this week as someone called me in her thread. And tragically that is the message that was sent by the PH as I have seen in the multiple OS that have been created that literally say that it is a man's haq to treat a woman this way. And all he has to do is MUMBLE a few words of sorry and all is finished...the biggest insult is watching Zoya respond to the redemption - truly an insult to women.

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whatthewhat

@whatthewhat

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#130

What do we do after Qubool nahin hai?

Once a show becomes unreasonable to me (mostly in the case of Hindi soaps because it is regressive to the point of making me ill), I stop watching. I am not entertained by shows that insult my intelligence. For these reasons I have stopped watching QH. I have said my piece here about violence and I won't tire of saying it over and over again if need be. I'll come here and support those who continue to voice their disgust.

I also really am glad to have met so many enlightened folks here.

But I am curious to know from those of you who have been as disgusted and disappointed with this show as I have been...

How many of you will continue to watch? and why?