Zoya deserves respect and love in her life... - Page 2

With full respect for your point of view, I just want to clarify something,

Originally posted by: _vineeta_

Lets wait and see how far he goes..

For anyone whose lifelong principal breaks, and if they dont even realize it how and when all of sudden, his reaction is very normal. Zoya knows a bit about his past, so obviously giving him deserving benefit here.

But yes everything and everyone has threshold, and beyond then it affects. Hope that never comes though...

He has to learn alot about Zoya, and for him she is happy go lucky, nuisance, hoity toity Miss NY with perfect life. Zoya doesnt pretend but she does keep guards on where her past is concerned, so lets see how he breaks that, maybe through this behavior😕

Thanks vineeta...I know a certain person with lifelong principle ...suddenly bombarded with feelings goes confused...and I am fine with it...what I am not fine with is his rude and insensitive behavior...I am quite confused about the whole showdown of emotions when she was buried alive ... She nearly died and if he did feel something that would be the time...the feeling of loosing a person you care changes a very hard and ruthless person too...I really don't expect Asad to open out his heart and confess his feelings...as a woman I expected him to be a little considerate and civil with her. It's getting very repetitive.

Originally posted by: adeeti10

Hey Pri,

Haven't watched today's episode yet. But if he's being rude as usual, that's sad but expected.

Will comment after watching but reserving my space!

will wait for you Dee...

Originally posted by: princessjojo

Hey there Priyanka!

I have to agree but with reservations. Asad is being incredibly rude with his ghar se chale jao mantra (especially after the recent episode where she almost lost her life, he should just cut this particular dialogue at least), but that has lost it's impact on him (he has become desensitized to how piercing his words would be to any average person) because of how Zoya reacts to it. Zoya's resilience (and almost begairti, to be blunt) is the cause of it. Had I been in her place and had this been real life, I wouldn't so much as give a half a glance before leaving his house the very first time he'd uttered it. But Zoya? She bounces right back up to take more. Nothing affects her on the surface. She's too forgiving (and nosy) and that is her fault. He is too ruthless (a defense mechanism given that he is in denial) and that is his fault. It takes two to tango. Beizzati karna and beizzati sehna dono paap hai (excuse the modification lol).

Your last line, "Never ignore a person who loves you, cares for you, and misses you. Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep and realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars." Pretty sure Asad miya is going to learn his lesson the hard way in the future.

hi jojo...how we you ? I know... the last line is so meaningful right?...its one of my favorite quotes. Zoya is one feisty girl and I agree that is the sole reason I think Asad doesn't realize that he does hurt her because she bounces right back. The dialogue is getting very repetitive IMO...and it's really insulting I must say. If this was in reality...I wouldn't even look back at a man who speaks this way but this is a serial and farther more...a 4lion's one who has a reputation to glorify their heroes and demean their heroine. No matter how much the heroine is fiesty or independent she is the one who is always shown to be the one insulted...I don't really expect Asad to be a changed man but I did expect him to be considerate to Zoya...him being continuously rude in spite her almost dying is not sitting with me.

What happened in Mangalpur definitely changed Asad's outlook towards Zoya. He definitely has concern for her and respects her now (remember the look he gives when his Mamu tells the reason for Mariyam's forced marriage and guilt later on).

Originally posted by: bheegi

I would have agreed with you a few episodes ago but mangalpur has changed everything for me (and hopefully for Zoya) In fact, a few weeks ago I had made a post urging Zoya to leave the house and never come back but I am glad she didn't.

Zoya should go by his actions and not his words. If he didn't care and respect her, he wouldn't have go through all the pain and dug her out from her 'grave'

She realizes this and that's why is being a 'dheet' She is a very self respecting woman and would leave the day she realized he really didn't care for her. I think the only thing that will make her leave is Asad's desire to marry another woman. Even if that happens, she will not stop loving him.

hi bheegi...thanks for commenting...for me on the contrary it has gotten worse...There would have been a lot of significance his digging her out if and only him he would have been considerate to Zoya...I didn't want him to confess or even get all mellowed but yes I expected him to show her some respect. Now about the digging out...that would be inhuman if he didn't...he would have done it for any other woman...Asad is not in love with Zoya...his recent behavior proves it. A man in love couldn't be uttering hurtful words after loosing her to death...I think the realization of loosing someone changes a person entirely...I really don't see the change.

Originally posted by: princessjojo

^That's a very good point bheegi about Asad desiring another woman. Until then, her heart is with him even though she physically might not be.

oh I forgot to touch base the desiring another woman part...it's interesting...I quite cannot get myself to think that way because I don't like the concept of women sacrificing and getting crucified by the male all the time... I was very much disturbed by the Zoya and Ayaan equation ... But Zoya deserves to be loved too and if she finds it with Ayaan...I will welcome it. I just cannot support this aggressive and hurtful behavior of Asad. It's not right and such a relationship sure isn't healthy IMO.

Originally posted by: divc

I completely agree with you !👏

thanks.

Originally posted by: Sunshine Girl

We have to give it sometime to settle down !!

I thought it would settle own after her near death experience.