Zoya deserves respect and love in her life...

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

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Posted: 13 years ago

I understand that Asad is confused or in a denial mode...maybe he is fighting with his emotions...seriously I don't care. If he wants to stay in his own little world and shell... Sure he can ...it's his life. But he has no right to be rude and disrespectful to Zoya in anyway.

Enough is enough! I am appalled at his rude and insensitive behavior...he repeatedly keeps on saying that Zoya should be out of his life...fair enough...he doesn't love her and I am completely fine with it...it's his life and his feelings...but spare hurting this girl who was on the verge of dying...she was buried alive. Has he no humanity left in him? How dare he insults her again and again.

Anyways, all I know and believe that everyone deserves respect and love in their lives and you aren't obligated to anyone other than your parents...Zoya has been abused enough...I definitely don't want her to sit around and wait for Asad to come around and accept her...she isn't a piece of toy...she is a human being and has real feelings...If Asad is pushing her away ...Zoya should move on too...

She needs to move out of his house and move on with her life...she needs to carry on searching her dad...Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle.Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek. I want Zoya to move on in her life and yes love will come in the way...and although I have been cringing at the thought of Zoya and Ayaan equation...after watching today's episode and precap it doesn't seem bad at all...I will heartily welcome Ayaan in Zoya's life...she deserves love and respect as everyone else and I am sure Ayaan will give it to her.

Never ignore a person who loves you, cares for you, and misses you. Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep and realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars.

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nishithasharma

@nishithasharma

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Posted: 13 years ago

i agree wid u...u wrote wut i wanted to say...asad is so rude & mean to zoe, she vil b better off wid ayaan... thanxs for dis post...

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_vineeta_

@_vineeta_

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Posted: 13 years ago

Lets wait and see how far he goes..

For anyone whose lifelong principal breaks, and if they dont even realize it how and when all of sudden, his reaction is very normal. Zoya knows a bit about his past, so obviously giving him deserving benefit here.

But yes everything and everyone has threshold, and beyond then it affects. Hope that never comes though...

He has to learn alot about Zoya, and for him she is happy go lucky, nuisance, hoity toity Miss NY with perfect life. Zoya doesnt pretend but she does keep guards on where her past is concerned, so lets see how he breaks that, maybe through this behavior😕

Edited by _vineeta_ - 13 years ago

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adeeti10

@adeeti10

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey Pri,

Haven't watched today's episode yet. But if he's being rude as usual, that's sad but expected.

Will comment after watching but reserving my space!

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princessjojo

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey there Priyanka!

I have to agree but with reservations. Asad is being incredibly rude with his ghar se chale jao mantra (especially after the recent episode where she almost lost her life, he should just cut this particular dialogue at least), but that has lost it's impact on him (he has become desensitized to how piercing his words would be to any average person) because of how Zoya reacts to it. Zoya's resilience (and almost begairti, to be blunt) is the cause of it. Had I been in her place and had this been real life, I wouldn't so much as give a half a glance before leaving his house the very first time he'd uttered it. But Zoya? She bounces right back up to take more. Nothing affects her on the surface. She's too forgiving (and nosy) and that is her fault. He is too ruthless (a defense mechanism given that he is in denial) and that is his fault. It takes two to tango. Beizzati karna and beizzati sehna dono paap hai (excuse the modification lol).

Your last line, "Never ignore a person who loves you, cares for you, and misses you. Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep and realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars." Pretty sure Asad miya is going to learn his lesson the hard way in the future.

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bheegi

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Posted: 13 years ago

I would have agreed with you a few episodes ago but mangalpur has changed everything for me (and hopefully for Zoya) In fact, a few weeks ago I had made a post urging Zoya to leave the house and never come back but I am glad she didn't.

Zoya should go by his actions and not his words. If he didn't care and respect her, he wouldn't have gone through all the pain and dug her out from her 'grave'

She realizes this and that's why is being a 'dheet' She is a very self respecting woman and would leave the day she realized he really didn't care for her. I think the only thing that will make her leave is Asad's desire to marry another woman. Even if that happens, she will not stop loving him.

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princessjojo

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Posted: 13 years ago

^That's a very good point bheegi about Asad desiring another woman. Until then, her heart is with him even though she physically might not be.

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countingstarz

@countingstarz

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Posted: 13 years ago

I completely agree with you !👏

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SunshineGirl6

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Posted: 13 years ago

We have to give it sometime to settle down !!

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Daayan Bai

@KunwaariDaayan

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Hi Priyanka deary...how are you and missed you loads on here!Since yesterday's episode I'm kind of in confusion about this denial mode of Asad's.Firs of all when did Asad realize that there is anything within him for Zoya and how did this inner turmoil come about?In the space of one or two episodes he's realized he feels love or something along the lines of love for Zoya and as he's set of principles and beliefs in life go against all this thus leads to him trying to surpress or nip in the bud any seeds of love being planted.Well I for one aint buying this as it all seems too much too soon as, when have they had so much close interaction and connectivity of heart and minds in their lives to have reached this stage?
If anything after that near death experience they both went through and the remorse Asad felt when he thought he had lost her in saying those words of why Zoya just doesn't leave his leave, I would have expected to see a more softer Asad towards Zoya.I was expecting him to be more understanding towards her and also try to get to understand her as a person,maybe try find out about her past and why she has come all the way to India in the first place.I'm not saying that he should be head over heels in love and go all ga ga over her but the humanity in him that witnessed her so near to the hands of death would have obliged him to extend a hand of friendship at least where he could have helped her out in finding her dad and this leading both of them to feel a connect as both their past lfe history more or less runs along the same path.In that way we would have got to see more depths and layer's to this love story unfolding with fate bringing them togethr on this journey where they fall deeply in love and only then the denial mode kicks in for Asad when he himself has fully acknowledged that those feelings he feels for Zoya is really love and his world there is no room for love as he does not believe in this emotion called love.If only then we get to see the hot and cold Asad it would make more sense but him being so, harsh and hurting her with his words like that is not sitting well with me as only a couple of days ago the humanity in him repented on his harsh words.In life you need to be careful what you wish for as these very things you say out of anger can one day be the death of you!
Change is a constant and without change we'd all be stuck in a rut of a vicious circle.Change for Asad is going to be hard but change even a teeny weeny oone of his thought process needs to be shown especially for the sake of that experience they shared together.
I am just trying ot go with the flow of the story so far as it seems that we are just expected to be okay with this Asad denial thing and just assume that he's in love already and go all ga ga over his actions of extreme insensitivity towrds Zoe as it's only the love doing the talking and it's oh so hot and romantic but Pri...it aint doing it for me!I even made a post yesterday about my confusion but teh same old same old he's felt something for Zoya so obviously he's going to react this way as that's in his character but for me to churn out a good love story all loose ends need to be tied and very importantly make sense in some sort logical way to have the desired impact on us the viewers.Maybe they should have a third angle to the love story but with someone else other than Ayaan as the very thought of Zoe and Ayaan...eeeww...just makes me cringe!

Edited by shaz2009 - 13 years ago