Is Asad Justified?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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They say when u are angry, the anger gets the better of ur thinking and makes you do stuff u otherwise won't.

Asad felt betrayed and let down let alone being taken for a ride...who irked him? Zoya..

She not only disobeyed hima nd his genuine concern but also, took Najma with her even though Najma is Asad's weakness.

What do u think? Is Asad justified in throwing Zoya out of his house or do u think he is overreacting a nd should give Zoya anither chance?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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He is a male chauvinist and nothing, not even his concern for the females justifies his stubborn decision of not allowing the girls to go for seeing the match. It was rather odd anyway that he was watching it himself at home and didn't volunteer to take em himself. 🤓 So I say, he is obviously not justified. Obviously not.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Savage

He is a male chauvinist and nothing, not even his concern for the females justifies his stubborn decision of not allowing the girls to go for seeing the match. It was rather odd anyway that he was watching it himself at home and didn't volunteer to take em himself. 🤓 So I say, he is obviously not justified. Obviously not.




Ok yeah Being from the 21 st century it's obvious his behaviour irked your and many more ...but at the same time I feel that his concern was genuine in the sense that he want them to be safe ..but he could have taken them too, I agree...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think truly this time he is right..since the beginning ,zoya has been irking him to the core..She is the exact opposite of him..If he told him that he did not like tamaatar to go out without his permission ,then zoya should not have insisted...But dilshad word came to my head instantly, give Zoya company she needed it today...As it is, zoya is their guest,but thoda sa lihaaz karni chahiye naa...But the other side, zoya is carefree, modern khalayat, who see everyone equal..both she & assad are firm on their position...He will tell Zoya to leave & she will leave...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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for me its the wrong from bothsides every brother will react like that only if anybody staying at u r home and doing things opposite then every one gets angry but asad is too hyper i guess zoya should not take najma along with her
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: varma.nishi1


Ok yeah Being from the 21 st century it's obvious his behaviour irked your and many more ...but at the same time I feel that his concern was genuine in the sense that he want them to be safe ..but he could have taken them too, I agree...


I am not saying his concern was not genuine or that his character's heart isn't in the right place. He's not entirely ego-driven, yes. But he doesn't have the authority of being in the position to 'allow' Zoya to do things, at least. So, that's really my call.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: innocentgreen

I think truly this time he is right..since the beginning ,zoya has been irking him to the core..She is the exact opposite of him..If he told him that he did not like tamaatar to go out without his permission ,then zoya should not have insisted...But dilshad word came to my head instantly, give Zoya company she needed it today...As it is, zoya is their guest,but thoda sa lihaaz karni chahiye naa...But the other side, zoya is carefree, modern khalayat, who see everyone equal..both she & assad are firm on their position...He will tell Zoya to leave & she will leave...


Bang on Attiyah , u naked it well. They are bith good people just that they don't bend for anyone , firm and stubborn egotists...

Lol I told zee to post and about ur post too , she is missing in action 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: teja0102..

for me its the wrong from bothsides every brother will react like that only if anybody staying at u r home and doing things opposite then every one gets angry but asad is too hyper i guess zoya should not take najma along with her


Very true if both are right somehwere then they are also wrong somewhere and adjustment is required on both the sides ...very nice teja
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Savage

He is a male chauvinist and nothing, not even his concern for the females justifies his stubborn decision of not allowing the girls to go for seeing the match. It was rather odd anyway that he was watching it himself at home and didn't volunteer to take em himself. 🤓 So I say, he is obviously not justified. Obviously not.




i live in the 21st century but even now i take my hubby permission to go out somewhere..aadat se majhboor ...My elder bro reacted the same way...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nishi...I do not know about throwing out being justified...but his anger was justified as far as I am concerned. ...had it been Zoya alone...who had gone..against his wish he might have taken it lightly...but she tagged his sister too...it is bound to irk him...as he is very very over protective...

Maybe i am in minority...but I somehow feel his anger is justified. ...maybe b'coz I have lived and I still live with men with similar thinking...
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