Originally posted by: bbbccc
I hope this time Yash scold them, everytime he is overlooking their mistakes. he always teachin Ansh but not his. I hated when he didn't say anything in computer fiasco and worse on water spill fiasco. He didn't even care to ask, what did they do😕
but Yash did not even know anything about the water spilling.ansh said they were teasing him, and he told ansh to tease them back, did u see the girls' face? i think that was a good punishment yash gave them!
and what would he say about the computer fiasco? did he even know that palak had pulled the plug...ansh did not say anything about it.
whatever happened today was tragic, but it wasn't yash's fault. Did he know what palak had told ansh? No! what yash told aarti was correct from his point of view. My niece is exactly of the same age as Ansh, and she throws up tantrums everyday while going to school...my sis and bro-in-law treat her as Yash did, or else she would never go to school.Kids are way smarter and if they want more cunning than adults( like Palak!)...Yash felt that if ansh's whims were encouraged today, it would happen everyday, and we can't blame him for this thinking. What he told aarti about her over possessiveness was right! Aarti's expressions suggested that she knew what Yash was saying was true...but she still won't accept. What happened to yash is a completely different thing, and Yash cannot be fully blamed here. Probably, he should hv asked why ansh was scared, but since he had seen the same scene repeated the previous day, he thought ansh was just scared to go to school becoz it was new.
If after knowing that Palak locked Ansh up, that is if indeed she did so, yash still doesn't say anything to her, then believe me I will be the first person to blame him!
But i can't say what yash said today to aarti was wrong. aarti indeed behaves sometimes as if she is the only one who cares for Ansh...I don't bame her too.circumstances have made her this way...but Yash is right, she has to trust other people...in the first epi, she was even unwilling to let Shobha feeed him, she kept on saying wo mere bagair nahi khayega.but what did we see.ansh was throwing tantrums in fromt of her, he ate his food like a good boy with Shobha. so i think what Yash said was right, esp becoz today he openly told aarti that he trusted her judgement about payal-Palak..he knew she would do nothing wrong for them...so here again its proved that he never objected to her taking responsibility, he was upset becoz she had put all the blame on their parvarish. But not one reaction did we get from aarti even after that. she kept on being scared! I know what happened in the end sort of justified her fears, but she couldn't hv known this was gonna happen..i understand theres a mother's intution.but still, she should hv acknowledged Yash's trust for her!
I don't mean to say Yash is perfect..far from that. But, we can't accuse him of being partial to the girls.I think more than aarti, its Yash who hv gone the extra mile for the other's kid...in fact he is treating them exactly as equal.if Payal or Palak had behaved the way Ansh did today.he would hv done the exact same thing. In aarti's defense, i would say, she would also behave in the exact same way had it been payal or palak instead of ansh.
These two ppl r good parents individually...one with a lot of care, the other with lot of practical sense and responsibility...they just hv to tone a liitle down.aarti needs to be more practical and Yash needs to be a little relaxed smtimes..and both of them can bring this change in the other, only if they strike a balance b/w them!
all said and done.hope Ansh is safe tomorrow..
Arjun
