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Originally posted by: tanthya

what about the price u had to pay ..suppose u had to deal with some issues that would be contravening ur firms/MNC guidelines or may be something that would hold ur career back [in view of ur connection's with a influential person's dark Back ground]

Originally posted by: prodigy007

That would've happened sooner or later if there was potential to make a quick buck on the side I wouldn't have held back would've gone all out for it regardless.

Originally posted by: 100GIRL

i think u have to see y he got reccomended coz if im hard working n at a job sum1 noticed n reccomend me there is no harm in that but in adhrash case he was not reccomended coz he hard working n was not reccomended by a person u has respect he was reccomended by SS, and did not get the promotion coz he hard working but for the fact he is the son in law of SS and was promoted out of terror coz SS would prob killed the person if he didnt. hoping u all can c that there is a big diff n y shamu is agaist this adhrash has not workde hard for this and considering it not fair i mean if i worked in office n so did person X. im hard working n dedicated. there a promotion up for grabs n person X has recived this coz he got contact but not fr his hard work i would be mad because jus coz he nws pepole he get promoted but i work hard n get nuttin!

Originally posted by: tanthya

Yes !! It did ..One would not like to be marked as coming from the stable of an unsavoury character ..


Suppose , If this Unsavory character is all powerful, and u can be assured that nothing can touch you [despite being attached to this UC] and people will respect you ..and this UC can take you to the zenith...what will be ur take ???

Originally posted by: HamiSky

Like Adarsh, if recommendation came my way al by itself and also knew I had handle the cons that with such a recommendation..I dont mind.

Only thing that would matter to me is my conscience...whether am worthy of it..whether i can handle it...if I am answerable to God....I dont mind some recommending me!

Originally posted by: my_view

Tanthswa..! Shocked seeing a serious post from you...😲. Immensely thought provoking and everyone can relate to.. 👍🏼


Believe it, Meri-View....😆😆😆 ..

I heard or read somewhere that the rich and successful people will answer in affirmative to your first question..😉

If it is true , then Why do so many successful n Rich people come under the many "GATES" ..or the ED takes more than a passing interest in their activities . Am not saying all Succesfful have broken the laws ..but many of them have surely bent it and skirted close to it ..

The other question whether Idealism can ever be practiced to the fullest has a lot of Ifs and buts and actually is relative to a lot of things/people and if we can even define idealism in its absolute form.


Can Idealism be defined to it's purest and absolute form ....and can a Mortal live under its uncompromising will ..we have seen the idealism driven P and Sax failing this stern test & they are fictional's who could be made to live to this exacting standards ...we are flesh and blood humans ..can we withstand temptation..

Anyhow without getting into debate about which option is moral and which isn't it is important that a person accept to live with the consequences of the path they choose to tread on whether it renders to be a right choice for them or a failed attempt. It could go either way no matter which path is chosen.

No..the talk here is not about morality..The talk here is about opportunity n brekas ..will u seize it knowing that it will create a rift in ur family..or u willing to pay the price ...

If we talk about Adarshwa, he seems to be happy and excited with SS giving him leg up and elevating his career position and financial windfall that followed even if it meant to be indebted to SS for lifetime. If he doesn't get into trouble with the law he will probably remain happy with his choice.. But tomorrow if he looses his status, career and family and this is very probable scenario that might happen, he should accept the consequences.


Agree !!

The bottom line is we cannot judge for other people. The choices are there for everyone to make and the possibility of outcome expected and not expected is out in the open.

👍🏼

Originally posted by: tanthya

hmmmm...what if this small act would act as a blot on ur resume, ...and the impact would be such that ..not only u but ur near and dear one had to pay the price ..would you still go ahead ..


Thanks Prodigy for replying honestly..

Originally posted by: stranger11

I think one should always first try to get to any position on thr own..it is not neccessary for some1 to get the highest paying job or the go to the best best if it means using sources
Sources should always be the last resort and as mentioned by one of the members we have to be careful with the source we use as if it some1 like Sajjan Singh they will ask for a favour which may not be able to fulfill
I think a person should live in the middle of practical and ideal lives..but none can be lived to the extreme

Originally posted by: prodigy007

To be honest that's how we were raised fortunately or unfortunately without any conscious or regard for others so the moral play was never there non-existent during the initial period the idea for us was to just make money by hook or by crook even it meant fleecing others so we would do what the common man would never do or would certainly think thrice before attempting.